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With or without music during sex?



It depends on if the band minds.


Oh! Thank you so much for that laugh!

Sad that I had to read this twice to get it but, man, when it hit me... thank you again! smile001.gif

@Gnarloc You are most welcome!


I can do it with music I can do it without music as long as I'm doing it.

I like your attitude. smile001.gif

Receptive quivering SonderOpia hitting the nail on its head?

I second that!


I like polka music during sex. Of course, it's usually by myself...


So people out there are having sex. Who knew

Funneeeeee! Well done.


Preference is no music, the sounds we make will be music enough. Music can be ok, as long as, it's very low and not distracting.


Without for me..all the yodeling makes it more intense...


@AMGT what?..hehehe


Whatever, just apparently not that old Aerosmith song Big 10 Inch Record



I prefer without music because I have a tendency to sing along with the lyrics. That being said, I almost always play music because I worry that my neighbors will hear me in the act.

Imagine my former partner's thoughts when I sang "would you upset if I told you we were dying?" in the middle of intercourse. How embarrassing!

Isn't orgasm frequently described as a mini death?

@FrayedBear La petite mort


I don't mind sex without music--I mean good sex is good sex and I enjoy the sounds of that too! But good music + good sex = win win.

I’d love to have that song β€œSkin” playing by Rihanna ha ha ha!


I apologize in advance:


Only this song on loop:


Hahahahahahahahshs jesus McMurtry


The noises of sex is music


Barry White for strip tease, mild S&M, and fantasy play. Barry can get people in the love mood, and is even credited with causing the US baby boom during the mid 1970s.

Barry White - Can't get enough of your love baby

WAY back in the 70s, my wife at the time once interrupted our spontaneous lovemaking and asked me to go put on our Barry White album. In her defense, we had an awesome stereo... smile009.gif


Depends of a few factors, mood being the major one.


Whichever.. as long as it’s not too fast or too shpang shpang-ah-langy..

I’m not a rabbit nor a bumpkin

While reading replies, I was reviewing some of my music, and listening to The Alan Parsons Project, Tales of Mystery and Imagination: The Fall of the House of Usher: I. Prelude... and immediately thought: probably NO.

Then realized it would have to work for both of you, just as the act would. Something too strong for one, might not be strong enough for the other. Why? I thought of the DiVynels as a likely set of songs to have fun sex to but might be a bit misogynistic (and I might be overthinking that).

I think it would be better to just rumble at your mutual rate and enjoy. smile001.gif

Berlin, would be another group that might set the mood...


Surrounded by 4 floor speakers hooked into a 150 watt per channel amp. Cue up dance/techno of your choice. Insert earplugs, feel the drive. Also put an oscillating fan blow back and forth for sensory change. Strobe lights can be interesting also.
Oh the memories!!!

"What??".... lol

@RavenCT it's all about sensory stimulation, earplugs are so you don't go deaf with the amp turned up to 90%. Feel the music in your body, literally.


Definitely without. As soon as a prospective partner even sees the banjo they get scared smile001.gif


oh no, no music, no distractions what soever.

So no Tiny Tim then?

@AMGT eeek

@AMGT nope, no tip tor through tulips for me. Long before your time surely? Though I got called out today for knowing who Stubby Kaye and Nat King Cole were.


Lol, yes, WAY before my time. That song was published in 1929.
I think it has made its way into a few of my nightmares though, along with β€œJeepers creepers, where’d ya get those peepers.”

Super freaky songs


There is some music that enhances the sexual experience most definitely! Trent Reznor comes to mind immeadiately !

Trent Reznor! Awesome points to you!


With. Some good EDM, preferably house or trance.


You will ask that in person LOL


No music. Like to hear the natural sounds😎

Same "hear". smile009.gif


This had me laughing because in eighth grade my friend was compiling a mix tape of songs she wanted to "do it" to the first time. I remember her playing it for me to get my opinion. She had taped them off the radio. It was a mess!! Parts of commercials, DJs talking, missing first few seconds, or the ends of songs. Hilarious. It was the early 90s so it was Bell Bive Devoe, Nelson, Paula Abdul, Johnny Gil, Tommy Page, Sinead O'Connor, Mariah Carey, and right in the middle she had that Michael Bolton song. It was the stuff of nightmares.

Now you got me laughing.... That's a great story !!!! Nice

Michael Bolton?? Oh God, NO!!


Whenever I have sex I always play the song "Alone Again, Naturally".


Either is acceptable, but I love a slow jams mix

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