How many of you are sick of being single?
Yep, me. I hate being single only slightly more than I hate being in a relationship. I've been single for about 5 years after a 3-year relationship that I broke off during my chemo because she was being a bitch. I'm ready for my next bad decision.
Only bad decision is not making a decision !
@VAL3941 LOL Completely disagree.
Do you hate yourself with all your negevity ? Things always improve, you must just have patience !
@VAL3941 LOL! Nothing you say makes any sense and your grammar is terrible. I guess I'm just realistic. Thanks for the laugh though.
Grammer problems are caused by finger problems. Does that make any sense ?
@VAL3941 Voice-to-text is a wonderful software invention.
Thats for lazy people and those that can't write. And I live in Africa..( smiles)
LOL. What does Africa have to do with this? Africa doesn't have Voice-to-text? Or grammar? That is the nonsensical reasoning I have been talking about here. SMH
I definitely miss having someone special in my life. I have severe social anxiety and having my "person" really helps.
But do you want a person to enjoy life with or to fix your anxiety?
Enjoy my life with for sure. I still have anxiety even when I'm in a relationship. Its nice to have someone to talk about it with among other things. In all honesty I'm just lonely and I miss having meaningful company and conversation.
Being single or involve has its good and bad and for now concentrate in the goodness of being single untill the luky person come. Some yoga and meditation will help you to concentrate in whatever you like.
So you consider someone finding YOU as being "lucky?" Wow.
When you find someone YOU feel you are lucky to meet, then you will know it's really love, not self love.
@birdingnut we going both to be lucky
I enjoy being single; I enjoy being in a relationship. However, at my time of life I kinda relate to the scene in the movie Something's Gotta Give where Frances McDormand says and I quote:
'The over 50 dating scene is geared towards men leaving older women out and as a result the women become more and more productive and therefore more and more interesting. Which in turn makes them even less desirabe because as we all know, men especially older men, are threatened and afraid of productive and interesting women. Single older women over 50 as a demographic are about as fucked a group as can ever exist.'
Regrettably, I sympathize. I heard a tour guide (female) once in Alaska make reference to the 7:1 ratio of men to women. She said 'the odds are good, but the goods are odd'. All of us aren't as commonly portrayed, but there are plenty of reasons for that expectation. Enough that it gets really embarrassing sometimes. In fact, sometimes I've wondered about this transgender concept and considered the possibility that I'm a transgender lesbian..
Been single all my life because no woman wants me..
I think you been single all your life because you didn’t need to be with a woman bad enough not because no woman wants you. The needs was behind most of the inventions.
Be single for as long as you can. Learn to be happy by yourself. The only thing that should change it is finding someone you can't be without.
What he said.
I am tired of it. After wasting a ton of time and effort on dating sites, I joined this site with the intention of meeting an attractive lady of an appropriate age range with no kids and similar beliefs. I haven't met any so far, but there are lots of interesting and friendly people nonetheless.
I wouldn't say I'm sick of being single, but I'm feeling like I'm ready to meet someone I want to see often and build a relationship with.
I'm not sick f being single and it has benefits. id like some female company but I don't need it.
I enjoy every minute of it. It has almost been 2 years now. May 1st.
It's an interesting question. I have made my life happy, with just me and my kids. Sure, I have moments where the lonliness is sto strong that it overwhelms me, but I'd rather be lovely than modify my life for the wrong people.
I'd love to find someone - someone who's life fits with mine. But it either will happen, or it won't. Either way, I stil have to keep on living.