Life is too short to cushion the blows of someone else's imagination. You let him down easy, he chose to be judgemental and whiny. That proves you're better off without him.

Clearly, the fact that he made the choice to bark up the wrong tree is absolutely your fault.
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He's just projecting. You were kind to turn him down with an explanation instead of just ignoring him.

Too judgmental? Looks like he doesn't like to have a taste of his own medecine.

What you were doing was showing good judgment because you could tell that you and he were not going to be a good match without any similar activities or beliefs in common. He wrongly interpreted that good judgement you used as you being judgemental, but perhaps his understanding of the difference between the two is sketchy and he thinks they are the same thing.

You are fine he's a asshole

You're not being Judgmental, you're being honest.

And he ministers to people ALL the time, and you just answered him with honesty, so he's the Judgmental one here. I think you know that.

BTW Love the part you say:
"and who only shoots with a camera"
LMAO

Interesting that Christianity judges you from the minute you are born. You are guilty of Original Sin. A crazy idea, but definitely very Judgmental. Now you have to be baptized to get forgiveness for something you did not do. How fucking Judgmental is that. Excuse my French.

sounds like a narcissist projecting himself onto you. I don't even bother to respond to those anymore. Not worth my time.

I don't think it is judgmental, but then again I think like you.

If I try to imagine how he views it, the "invisible deity" and "Chose rational thought" were likely triggers.

Net, I;d leave the language in. It is not your job to coddle people. I like that you tell them what you are seeking, and what you are. Honesty is better than wasting time. And if he describes himself as a "strong Xtian" does that mean he wants a subservient wife? That sure ain't you

As the old saying goes, " The difference between the righteous and the nonrighteous is that the righteous do the dividing."

You’re just being honest as to where you are and where you see the incompatibilities.

This reminds me of an article I saw today, at least I saw the headline and didn’t bother with the article. It was about all the way republicans are cancelling things yet accusing others of being the cancel culture. Some people just don’t see how their views come across to others.

Just a faithfool showing he's an acehole.

Wow, you are so harsh! I imagine you crushed his fragile ego! So judgmental!

He sounds like a common dweeb. You gave him more effort than he deserved. I would be concerned for the safety of that child....

There is no way that what you wrote back to Ron was in any way judgmental.

He was merely flaunting his disastrous failures of cognition.

you were to the point,politely

Dating - setting out to find potential life-mates...ain't easy. You have to sort through those who communicate fairly, those who are, in fact, excessively "judgemental" or those who are not judgemental enough. It's a tough path you must take.

If they name-call without explaining why...then they're breaking debate rules....and you can call that a "red flag" and let the un clear labeling itself as a reason to stop pursuing that person. Let me attach a "debate pyramid" so you can use it as guide. Actually I'm attaching 3 pyramids...broken down by detail.

I might suggest you put less import on folks who are judging you. He made the judgement that you were. I do not think you were. I think you got away alive.

Sounds like he's projecting, which should surprise nobody.

You told him right. I would have run like hell. The judgmental ones are the believers.

Dear Kath,

I would never try to covert you. Overture.

Best Regards,

Renee Justwalk

There is much that is illogical among these subjective Christians. Yes, we are all subjective but they mistake reality for their centuries-old beliefs.

Not surprised, surely most religious people would think atheists to be judgmental. And in reality we are, because of our use of science fact and rational thought to justify our non belief.

Not at all judgmental, I think you were very nice in your explanation to him. What was he doing with a snake?