As simple as it felt incredible

I was madly in love with her. It was the summer of 1988....so long ago....

When your partner is thoroughly satisfied and, hopefully, you are too.

From my experience it has to be the connection. Good sex is easy to come by. What's not easy to come by is being so connected and into it that not only do you have "porn star" sex but you are out of it mentally. The most incredible I recall was being engaged in it and feeling like I didn't know where I was.

I recognized the room. The bed too, but it felt fuzzy and was slightly blurred. And although we clearly were in my room it felt like we weren't. I've only ever felt that with one person and she also felt that. I guess you could say out of body?

I remember thinking how glad i was no one was around because we were so in our own zone anyone could have walked in and we wouldn't have noticed.

Once I have it, I'll let you know. XD

All of the above! Lol. I Havnt slept with anyone in 2.5 yrs. And even then it had been about 2 yrs. I just get sick thinking about how "boring" it would be. Uninteresting. Have only been with one person in my life that it was worth the "effort" to be honest. And that was the 2.5 yrs ago situation. Sucks right? Should have not broken it off. Im an idiot. Most awesome women I've ever been with. In bed and out !! Lol

Having my partner get off until their eyes roll back in their head.

perception. and what you're taught?

I lose the power of speech, I have a bout of tourettes and I beseech any god that will listen

Curled toes until pulling a muscle, groin injury, tears at ejeculation, I got distinctive laugh that will freak out a witch in heat. A headache when I come down from the high and Repeat because I can't sleep after that. The usual normal me. And whatever goes with her. Warning: I am a serial offender.

It's so difficult to define this because there are so many possibilities. It's like asking what counts as an incredible poem or movie. I've experienced incredible sex with a near stranger and also with someone to whom I was close for many years, and each was incredible in its own way. Likewise, I've received - and given - some mind-blowing orgasms that arrived pretty quickly, and some that took an hour or more to show up. I've had some experiences that ended in one orgasm, and some that lasted for days and never really ended, but just paused for food or bathroom breaks. I've had some that were elaborate affairs involving role play, costumes, equipment, and a cast of many, and some that were just me by myself with a fantasy, or were simple moments of connection with a loved one where the sexual aspects were almost incidental but also integral. What counts changes according to so many factors: partner, mood, setting, context, biochemistry, etc., etc.

How about you, Mea? I see elsewhere that you mentioned being a pleaser, but does that come down to just a particular repertoire of acts, or is there more?

In love and also if you climax, type of sex important for both

When my hand doesn't cramp. Or if it goes longer than a minute.