A crime show has begun showing up on facebook , and to date , it's been about women who have gone missing , and the investigations have shown that the man in her life , has murdered each of them . In some of the cases , the man was having assorted affairs prior to the murder . Some followed a divorce or the woman seeking a divorce , and even if the woman waved alimony (so it wasn't about the money ) , still the man murdered the woman . The cases each seemed to be premeditated . What is it about a breakup , that makes a man want to murder the woman who no longer wants to be a part of his life ?
Serenity to accept the things I cannot change, (others)
Courage to change the things I can, (myself)
Wisdom to know the difference.
If talking with the partner to identify the cause of the issue doesn’t work, counseling or therapy would have been my next step. People need help, it’s part of becoming an adult understanding and accepting that.
Some men think of women as nothing more than possessions to do freely with as they please and that they should be slaves to there every demand ,When they looses this i think their ego goes into a terffiying rage that they cannot control , The have never been taught about consent ,the word No etc,it is all about themselves ,everyone and thing should be at the command
Possessive psycho guys (not all men) think that if they cannot have or own their partner they cannot be with anyone. The breakup is such a huge blow to their egos they go into a crazy rage. This is worst if the man is a narcissist and he's not done using the woman for whatever he is using her for (source of money, someone to start drama with, as a trophy wife for status, etc.).