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A crime show has begun showing up on facebook , and to date , it's been about women who have gone missing , and the investigations have shown that the man in her life , has murdered each of them . In some of the cases , the man was having assorted affairs prior to the murder . Some followed a divorce or the woman seeking a divorce , and even if the woman waved alimony (so it wasn't about the money ) , still the man murdered the woman . The cases each seemed to be premeditated . What is it about a breakup , that makes a man want to murder the woman who no longer wants to be a part of his life ?

Cast1es 9 Sep 19
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Serenity to accept the things I cannot change, (others)
Courage to change the things I can, (myself)
Wisdom to know the difference.

If talking with the partner to identify the cause of the issue doesn’t work, counseling or therapy would have been my next step. People need help, it’s part of becoming an adult understanding and accepting that.

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you can't own a person. i read somewhere: if you love a woman, let her be free. if she stays with you, she's yours. if she doesn't, she never was.

TheDoubter Level 9 Nov 11, 2020
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It is about power, not love, just power.

Jolanta Level 8 Nov 11, 2020
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Some men think of women as nothing more than possessions to do freely with as they please and that they should be slaves to there every demand ,When they looses this i think their ego goes into a terffiying rage that they cannot control , The have never been taught about consent ,the word No etc,it is all about themselves ,everyone and thing should be at the command

RoyMillar Level 9 Sep 20, 2020
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Possessive psycho guys (not all men) think that if they cannot have or own their partner they cannot be with anyone. The breakup is such a huge blow to their egos they go into a crazy rage. This is worst if the man is a narcissist and he's not done using the woman for whatever he is using her for (source of money, someone to start drama with, as a trophy wife for status, etc.).

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I doubt the readers here would have any insight into the mindset of a murderer.But some people think that each man should be answerable for the acts of every other man.

BitFlipper Level 8 Sep 20, 2020

What nonsense is that? I hardly thinks so. Sounds like you are feeling hard done by.

@Jolanta You're awfully far away to see the intimacies of my life. I wouldn't presume to discount the realities of your life — I would try to understand them instead.

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it wouldn't bother me. i have never wanted to be with someone who didn't want to be with me. i can handle rejection.

TheDoubter Level 9 Sep 19, 2020

Perhaps you have the key in your statement: They can’t handle rejection.

Yes, I am wondering if this is going to be an even bigger problem in years to come. So many children are thought these days that they are perfect and beautiful. They never get rebuked by their parents, never have to take any responsibility for what they have done............Are parents bringing up future wife beaters/murderers?

@Jolanta "The Coddling of the American Mind" says we're doing our young people harm by removing adversity from their life. Don't like Confederate statue? We'll remove it. Don't like controversial speaker coming to campus? We'll cancel talk. Etc. Etc. Etc.

@TheDoubter That is not what I mean.

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We do not teach children how to accept “No,” and we must. We must teach boys especially that they do not deserve an automatic “Yes.”

UUNJ Level 8 Sep 19, 2020
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I think essentially it is power. The men cannot stand to lose the power over someone, and how best to ultimately show their power than by ending her life.

I think you've got a valid point !

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