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I'm binge watching Dr. Phil right now (kinda half-heartedly). One question came up that gave me some thought: what do you do to make your partner's day better?

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I make them coffee, pick up a candy bar or a soda for them.

Swimmer83 Level 2 Feb 9, 2019

Try to handle the interrogation with dignity.


I listen.

Parzival Level 5 Feb 4, 2019

Let me find one and then I'll let you know.

bleurowz Level 8 Feb 3, 2019

I let him go to sleep when he had a headache. ?

UUNJ Level 8 Feb 2, 2019

Pay attention to her.


I guess not enough as i don't have one ??

hippydog Level 8 Feb 2, 2019

Always try

bobwjr Level 9 Feb 2, 2019

I feed them and clean the litter box from time to time.


Oh that's such a nice question. It really does depend on the person. When I knew my late husband was having a bad day, we would snuggle on the couch
With our favorite drinks and watch movies. I did have a boyfriend once that always wanted to talk, then I would run a hot bath and ask him to join me.

Kojaksmom Level 8 Feb 2, 2019

I dated and lived with a high school teacher for a few years, it is a stressful job. I would help grade papers at night, never expected him to do cooking or house work during the school year, but like he put it, when on summer break he was the kitchen bitch for me, and I gave him messages at least once a week. I also listened when he had a tough day at school and needed to vent and get another's perspectives of what may have happened.


Honestly, I have no clue. My wife has turned into being the hardest person to please. Nothing I do seems to make her day bay better. I'll cook, clean, and do the dishes, but she's always miserable.

Dolove40 Level 4 Feb 2, 2019

Sorry to hear that.

@germangirl90439 I'm kind of getting use to this. It's confusing as to how we ended up where we are in our marriage. For years, she seemed happy. Then, I caught her fool around with a "friend" and sending him explicit photos.

@Kojaksmom thanks

That is tough when someone is going thru something , I think of a time they were happy and what I can concentrate on. Just tell them at a quiet time that you will listen and then do just that.


The dishes whenever possible. 😉

Driver8 Level 4 Feb 2, 2019

I’m always looking for ways to help and support her and jump on any chance to do so

Nardi Level 7 Feb 2, 2019

What did I do? I gave, I shared, I tried to understand and be there.

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