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Once a person knows you this well that is real intimacy

By Huskygirl4ever7
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Married 24 years and this gets a resounding “hell yes!” from me. Intimacy doesn’t always include sex, it’s how he knows I’ve had a challenging day without me saying a word. It’s the look at a party, “Can we get the hell out of here?” Lying in bed cuddling, no words needed. Real intimacy is knowing that we have each other’s backs always.

Cherie4444 Level 7 July 29, 2019

Exactly or knows when your back hurts and comes up and rubs it without you having to say a word you're right it's it isn't always about sex Norma and I had each other's back for 21 years with just one look

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Yes one of the main Parts , reading your partner and sometimes knowing before they do

RoyMillar Level 8 July 25, 2019

Yup this is what I miss cuz this is how well Norm knew me

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hmmm, may be to some but not to others. It is one definition of one person and is not very good.

St-Sinner Level 8 July 25, 2019

No it's about both people if a person knows you this good and you know a person that's good that is real intimacy

@Huskygirl4ever
I am saying it is a definition that may work for you. That does not work for everyone.

@St-Sinner you're right it doesn't I wish it would go because they have this kind of intimacy is awesome

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I haven't got that yet... I'm in a new relationship.... But things are going very well.... I do have that with my closest gfs though... 😊

Cutiebeauty Level 9 July 25, 2019

Glad to hear it this is what I miss the most having this being able for somebody to look at you and say don't go there I had it with Norm

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Absolutely true

bobwjr Level 9 July 25, 2019

Yup there were times when all Norm had to do was look at me and say don't go there cuz he knew exactly where my mind was heading

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Having someone not put off by my resting bitch face would be nice.

HippieChick58 Level 9 July 25, 2019

Yeah I know what you mean by that I have the same expression

Apparently I have a resting WTF face. Or maybe it's just the company I keep🤔😁😂

Or just that no-one around me has a clue about me.

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This is true. I can get over stimulated by people and commotion, and it's so very nice when your partner can see the signs and helps de-escalate or offers a brief escape.

FlippantLlama Level 8 July 25, 2019

Yes it is there were times Norm knew me better than I knew myself and I knew him just as well

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