We call it Sunday Morning Boom Boom. It's a special kind of slow, deliberate lovemaking that focuses on maximum pleasure and satisfaction for both of us, unhurried and using all the years of experience we've had together. SMBB doesn't happen very often, just because of all the variations in schedule, work, health, and other unpredictable things that happen. From our discussions over the years, each of us knows what works best. And it can't always happen. Life is full of variations.
This morning was a five-star, world-class SMBB. I won't bore you with the details. But even the dismount and lying close together in the afterglow was special. With her mouth nearly touching my ear, we talked quietly about who we are, why we care, and where we're going. Then we rested silently for a while. I began looking forward to morning coffee and a toasted crumpet. But even then, I paused to think about how fortunate we are. I thought of the millions huddled in their churches this morning, praying to the gods they made. And that we, lying beside each other, came closer to any "god" they might imagine.
Must be nice.
There were many months when I thought it would never happen again.
I hope to have something like that someday. Never have.
I had some Sundays like that, back in the 1970s.
Never say never.
You're such a sweet talker
Thank you. And you are a sweet heart!
Beautiful. Nice to hear people have that. Looking forward to someday having my own SMBB.
It can seem like a never-ending quest. But such a wonderful reward when it comes. And even then, how long can it last? I'd like to see it go all the way to the end of the road. We'll see.
@mischl Are you still in the honeymoon stage?
@EyesThatSmile "all the years of experience we've had together" - I think not.
@EyesThatSmile Coming up on ten years...with a 14-month separation that ended last May.
@mischl I am happy for you!
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