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Been with this guy for 3 years. He is 51 and I'm 42. We was happy I thought. Never fought or argued. Suddenly one morning he leaves for work kisses and tells me he loves me then after work he tells me we should split up that he no longer loves me. Is this not crazy?

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Shell78 3 Dec 6
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That was cowardly of him. I am sorry that happened to you.

Krista4505 Level 4 Dec 30, 2020
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Found out tonight he was seeing someone else.

Shell78 Level 3 Dec 8, 2020

How'd you find that out? How in the world was/is he seeing another in the middle of a pandemic? Were you two living together?

@pgl4vt we been living together 2 and 1/2 years he met her here I think. Oh well I'm over it
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More than likely it's not as sudden as it appears. My lady of 5 years just did the same thing and left taking our two dogs with her. She just popped it on me out of the blue about two months ago. However, upon questioning her, it turns out that this had been brewing for weeks and maybe months but she never bothered to discuss it with me. She was talking to friends, family and in counseling. A big factor was this pandemic and isolation. She's a very social being and by moving in with her 83 year old widowed father, she gets to have interaction with her sister and nieces who stop by. I wouldn't allow them at our place due to their carelessness about Covid. The ironic part is that two of the nieces just got sick and both tested positive last week. I'd just give him some space and see what happens. Remember, time heals all. I feel for you...

pgl4vt Level 6 Dec 8, 2020
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No, not crazy. Debilitating, hurtful, earth shattering, painful. Usually with men when they say they no longer love you is because they have an affair and think that that new person is crazy about them, that the new person is going to worship them until cows come home but little do they know. Ask him why he no longer loves you, what has changed. He will very likely lie to you. You will heal, you will live, you may even find someone new in time but before that, you will cry and hurt. It will end one day and you will be okay but one thing you need to do is to start loving yourself if you want to heal. Take good care of yourself and we are here or I am here to get your hurt and frustration out.

Jolanta Level 9 Dec 7, 2020

I did ask him. He said we had nothing in common. We both are bipolar. I think that has something to do with it cause he is in his low cycle. Our bipolar feeds off of each other.

@Shell78 Then you are better of without him.

I've always been told they think the grass is greener. The thing is it is greener cause it's fertilized with bull poop

@Shell78 The grass is greener but only for a little while and then it turns to the same shade or even worse than what they had at home.

@Jolanta my mother used to say the grass is greener cause it's firtilized with bull poop
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