Real Intimacy

A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

Posts Tagged "marriage" By Kojaksmom (37) Posts by members only

Real Intimacy
Jul 24, 2020Jul 2020

Posted by Deb57
Hi. I just joined this group. I'm here because, after four marriages and divorces, it's pretty clear that I have a problem acknowledging red flags and making the distinction between decent men and dirt bags. The last marriage was the most horrific ...
Real Intimacy
May 31, 2020May 2020

Posted by LetzGetReal
I always liked the (basic) philosophy of this song; it sounded good on paper anyway , though rings a bit sad between the notes. A deep, versus a casual, open relationship is quite challenging to maintain; I know I did it, or I might say-- WE did ...
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Real Intimacy
May 2, 2020May 2020

Posted by Philip21
Inspiring tale of a liberated woman ... Sex After Jesus A sex life limited by religion and marriage ends, and one of discovering the joys of the ‘sinful’ body begins
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Apr 23, 2020Apr 2020

Posted by MarcusAaronius
My wife is from a very conservative religious background, and she isn't able to admit to me (if not to herself) that we both have sexual desires that go beyond the bounds of our marriage. That doesn't mean either of us would act on those desires, but...
Real Intimacy
Apr 3, 2020Apr 2020

Posted by mischl
I surely hate to see families break up because DNA tests reveal that mama had an indiscretion years ago. But my anecdotal observation is that women screw around as much as men. And they should have that right. But women seem to be able to keep their ...
Real Intimacy
Apr 3, 2020Apr 2020

Posted by IrishTommy
Communication is key in any relationship. How you speak to each other about any issues you have is so important. Speak calmly, openly and, here's the important part, IMMEDIATELY. Don't leave any issue unspoken. Unresolved issues can begin small but ...
Real Intimacy
Mar 29, 2020Mar 2020

Posted by ButterToast223
Felt like sharing this, and this seemed like the most appropriate group for it. Back in December my fiance left me, literally the day after Christmas. The holidays are always a sort of depressing time for me, I'm not religious, but i was raised in a ...
Real Intimacy
Jan 29, 2020Jan 2020

Posted by DavidDuhon
There is that phrase--if you give away the milk for free, no one will want to buy the cow. I hope we are finally getting beyond the point of seeing sex as an object owned by women that should be sold for marriage. As a poly person, I have been both...
Real Intimacy
Nov 10, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by bryerwood
What intimacy Isn’t Intimacy doesn’t require commitment. This fundamental confusion comes from our thoroughly messed up beliefs about sex, sexuality and relationships. We can’t deal with sex as, well, SEX, we have to make up all kinds of ...
Real Intimacy
Mar 22, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by Kojaksmom
How many people here are willing to get involved with a man/woman who is separated, which is technically legally married. I now have serious reservations and wanted to know what others think.
Real Intimacy
Mar 20, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by Rowlands72
Some friends ask me for advice about life and love and tell them to look how my marriage and how my many relationships hence so many failed because I kept picking the wrong type of women. Oil and water don't mix.
Real Intimacy
Mar 3, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by Freespirit64
I joined this group because after a horrible 20 year marriage, it's hard to trust my judgement picking men and I have a deeply embedded fear of being used/hurt again. I've wanted a relationship...but can't seem to lower my walls enough to really ...
Real Intimacy
Jan 20, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Paul4747
POLLResolved: That great intimacy is possible without sex, but great sex is not possible without intimacy. Agree or disagree? My own perspective is that I have had great intimacy with people I've known, particularly my best friend with whom I've ...
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Real Intimacy
Jan 3, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Wangobango3
"Drama requires your participation to exist." Opinions invited.
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Oct 27, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by DoDapper
"What Is Love?" "We live under a massive cultural delusion about the nature of real love … inundated with the belief that love is a feeling and that when you find 'the one' you'll sense it in your gut and be overcome by an undeniable sense of ...
Real Intimacy
Oct 10, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by EdEarl
I'm frustrated by two things that are beyond my control. First, my marriage has been sexless since 2000. Second, I gained about 200 lbs over a period of six or seven years, while suffering with uncontrollable pain after a back operation in 2000. My...
Real Intimacy
Sep 21, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by sweetcharlotte
He touched me where no man ever could and blink.
Real Intimacy
Sep 8, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by mantid30
I hope all of you are having a great weekend! Mine could be better, but that is my own fault!
Real Intimacy
Sep 5, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by pamb68
Im recently seperated after 27 years of marriage. How long before dating again should one wait
Real Intimacy
May 27, 2018May 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
I had a recent conversation with a friend and wanted to get everyone's opinion on this. She's the mother of four daughters, when her girls reach school age she takes them in for a gynecological examination and birth control shot. It doesn't matter ...
Real Intimacy
May 25, 2018May 2018

Posted by NormCastle
I have often said, on various sites, cheating is not the sex, but the lie. As a young bisexual male, those many years ago, I had a relationship with one of my male friends for about three years before the subject of marriage with my girlfriend came ...
Real Intimacy
May 2, 2018May 2018

Posted by LenHazell53
My wife became disabled several years ago and sexual intimacy became too painful for her to participate in. She can have sexual intercourse but it is painful and unpleasant for her, and even her own orgasm causes her pain, She constantly asks me if ...
Real Intimacy
Apr 29, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by MermaidSuzy888
As someone who is single after decades of marriage & relationships, I'm finding that it's just easier to have an arrangement with a close fried concerning sex, than to date. There's no BS, no games & everything is discussed beforehand concerning ...

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Posted by JolantaThis is what women have to put up with and then they want to be intimate while we are still angry because they will not do their share of housework.

Posted by JolantaDucky, Snookums....

Posted by SorchaThis is a guy I was talking to from okcupid. He is totally new to online dating and it shows.

Posted by JolantaThat’s Amore. Some women are just far too shallow.

Posted by JolantaSomething for real intimacy perhaps.

Posted by Green_Soldier71Has anyone here had any experience with (or known someone who has/had) a SEXLESS MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP or a FRIGID PARTNER?

Posted by EyesThatSmileNakedness.

Posted by LetzGetRealMy family has often commented how I should become a "cougar"... as I look pretty good at my age and have a younger mindset than some of my peers, I guess this is there rationale?

Posted by Ann-1980The 4 types of Intimacy to feel sufficient, satisfied & healing in a love relationship.

Posted by Philip21over the top thinking? []

Posted by DavidRussettI have been a widower for 2 years. I am very lonely. I am really looking for a relationship wth someone compatible with me.

Posted by bobwjrThis is intimacy

Posted by JustLuAnnSapiosexual I am a sapiosexual.

Posted by rsb97080If “true love” really exists, this is part of it (and no, I’m not fat. Merely making a point.)

Posted by Allamandamaybe I should put this in 'Silly' -

Posted by FearlessFly"Gravitation cannot be held responsible for people falling in love." :P

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