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It was so hard seeing George get sicker & fade over time until he died. I wasnt in the same room when he took his last breath. I never saw his "body". When my Mom passed, her lifeless body is the first image that hits my head when I think of her. I didnt want that for George. In seven days will be the day I lost him four years ago. It will also be my birthday

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That's a lovely picture and a wonderful way to remember. I held D as he breathed his last. There are times that I wish I could block seeing him in death as I prefer to remember him healthy and living, full of fire. Sigh.

Zster Level 8 Mar 26, 2019
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If you can on your birthday try to think of all your great memories replacing the memory of the huge loss on that day.

Gypsy494 Level 7 Mar 4, 2019
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Belated condolences,my longtime partner ,Sonia,passed on August of last year?

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i saw my wife take her last breath. the moment sticks, but over time the sorrow eases. stay strong.

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That is really tough that your birthday is the day you lost him, it will always be a reminder, even more poignant, as it should be a happy day for you, but now it’s not. Huge empathy to you....hugs from me. I am glad that you do not have the image of his last minutes in your head, much better to remember him in health in happier days. My thoughts are with you. ?

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Sending you hugs. Take care of yourself and focus on the good memories.

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What a hard thing to have on your birthday. Hope you can remember some of the good times.

Detritus Level 7 Mar 4, 2019
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Its hard but thanks for sharing

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