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WHY do SO MANY MEN visit other mens profiles? SMH

RJWells 4 Dec 20
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Poor dear. Do you need some tissues to cry over your issues?

You might want to change your user name to —-HomophobicAsshat

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To check out if worth to respond to a post / comment . My money so far is at " no " w u . And I am seldomnly wrong . Consider this as strike one .

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Whew I'm glad you're straight

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I think your precious pearls are safe.

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Perhaps they are in some form of political argument, and they want to size up their competitor.

BD66 Level 8 Dec 20, 2018
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Why do you think many men look at men's profiles?

When asked, every man I met said he only looks at women's profiles.

I joked that my local matches look like a police lineup. "Unsmiling and grim, most men look like they want to punch the camera person," I said.

"I wouldn't know; I never look at men's profiles," men reply.

Yup that's happened here too.

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I’ll check out ladies sites every now and then. One post a woman was commenting about her short hair. I actually always thought she had long hair. I went to check out her pics.
I find the conservative men that spar with me seem to go check me out.. that’s fascinating.
It’s not a big deal, people just want to know who they’re conversing with.

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I am guessing to establish a baseline of the person's political position, education, interests etc. - - to see if a person is worthy of spending the time to consider as a person with similar interest. Unless a guy openly tells you he wants to be your love buddy, I wouldn't worry.

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I always look at a profile, man or woman, before I comment on a post or engage in any way. I'm not chasing every male profile I view, nor am I scoping out the competition when I view another female profile. I'm looking to get a better idea of who they are in relation to what they are saying.

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Well if you would stop being such a hot piece I wouldn't keep looking!!! Smokeshow Wells comin' at ya!

I'm sayin! He's bein quite the tease. Keeps playin coy but he knows what he's doin.

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There's a difference between hovering and visiting. Many men have hovered over me while almost none have visited me. Hovering is cheap and tawdry and denotes a fear of commitment.

Pffft! Men.

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you say you're open to meeting people... men are people too.
actually, you may be confusing with the Hover mode which is when you pass over a member and a mini profile pops up. More often than none that happens un-intentionally. There is a way to change your setting to prevent getting alerted from people that hovered over your profile.

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assessing the competition.

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I’m not here to date so usually I visit accedently trying to navigate the app... If I should visit you on purpose it will be either your really cool or I’m checking to see if you should be blocked😉

I found it useful to disable the hover feature. Trying to navigate these pages I was accidentally hooving over lots of people I had no interest in knowing anything about.

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It's possible to do it accidentally, but more likely people want to know more about who they're talking to.

skado Level 9 Dec 20, 2018
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If I had to guess it's probably our sexy assed beards tbh, pumkin. What can you do? Price of bein beautiful. But I know, right? Icky. Im pretty concerned about our risk for catching cooticochus virilium off it. It causes you to want buttsecks and that's how it spreads. Jimothy's big brother next door warned us about it in 3rd grade but I never thought the day would come. Let us gird our loins in piety and brace ourselves, brother.

Wins thread

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I actually find it to be complementary in this site. I know that they are not interested in me sexually or romantically. Then it is because 1) they found my comments insightful or interesting, or 2) they want to know what kind of idiot would say the things I say... Either way, I am not boring.

@KenChang

Did you mean "complimentary"?

Complement: "something that completes or makes perfect."

Compliment: "an expression of praise, commendation or admiration."

@LiterateHiker yes!

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Why does it bother you?

Right?

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I many times check the bio to know about the person commenting.. doesnt mean I find them attractive are want to even be friends.

Yup. Same. Besides, 99% of my "hovers" are accidental. Lol!

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