This is a time of over-rated sexual attention. Commercials try to make us believe that males as well as females, should be sexual active until you reach the age of 90. I believe that, by nature, sexual activities diminish when people get older, because there is no longer need for spreading genes. Women are not productive after the age of 40-45, because of the change of hormone production. Which most likely will reflect on their longing for sexual satisfaction. For men it works more or less the same because also their production of hormones like testosterone changes/ diminishes. I’m not stating here that both can’t be horny at times, but things change.
I experienced this and so did my wife. We talked things over and came to realize that we are not 18 anymore with a body filled with hormones. Gravity has taken its toll and still does. We also realized that there are so many more beautiful things to experience in life that gives so much more and longer satisfaction than a relatively short period of sexual excitement so once in a while (I know that there are individual differences).
What are your thoughts about it?