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Name something women should stop doing.

VAL3941 8 Apr 17

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I know a lot of women smite that would be a start.


giving a darn what other people think they should stop doing or start doing.

Byrd Level 7 Apr 17, 2018


My first comment, thank you. More answers about men than women. Think the men are scared to answer in case thier wives/girlfriends read the post ?

i think this goes for men and women tho honestly


Giving their power away.

What power ? ( smile )

@VAL3941 Personal Sovereignty.

@Anemynous That could be a power or a hinderence ?

@VAL3941 Perhaps we have different understandings of what Sovereignty is.

@Anemynous Possibly, so I will concede to your understanding !


Answering online surveys about what they should stop doing... 😉


They should stop responding to men who ask inane questions.


I wish both genders could just be who they are without trying to impress others. Which may mean I’m alone for the rest of my life. But I would rather find that one person who loves me for who I am, flaws and all, than love me for me pretending to be someone I’m not.

Could not agree more.


I like women, They can do what they want, and I'll do what I want. how's that?


Asking themselves what they should or shouldn’t do based off simply being a woman.



Thats not fair !

Would that I could.

Hmmm my family still thinks the washer is a broken tele sitting in the corner of the kitchen, if I didn't do laundry no one would.

@VAL3941 you asked......

@AnneWimsey I was not complaining, but job that must be done by both sexes, unless you can afford a maid ?


Listening to people who try to manipulate and control them.

JimG Level 8 Apr 17, 2018

Shame other women. We should stick together and stop trying to bring each other down.

No ! No! Don't do that !



I don't know about other women, but I need to stop saying yes to things I don't want to do. I need to stop trying to take care of everyone else, and I need to stop beating myself up for being imperfect.

@VAL3941 Really?

@Browneyedlady I agree, it is something you shouldn't do !


I wish women would stop caring so much about what men think about them, their bodies, and what they should be doing.

@Keyboard-Mama WOW! I've never heard her before; she's fantastic!!! Thank you for sharing!

Here is a good one:

And another GREAT one:

@Keyboard-Mama This one is really good, but it's incredibly sad:

(I used to teach Gender Studies, so we'd watch stuff like this in class).


Cutting down other women and calling them names because of some dude or anything else for that matter. There is enough of that going on in the world today, we don't need to do that to each other.


Attacking other sisters and listening to men


Over-filtering their pics on dating sites and social media! It just makes you look like you're made of plastic, lol! Would much rather see the real face.

This bothers me too. If you are a woman posing with your daughter and you look so much younger than your daughter who is half your age ,we all know something's up anyway!

@Kojaksmom Dear, I have been told to "update my pics"...Well, my friend, no one of my pics is over two years old. What a woman can do if she has been "blessed" with a youthful genetic?

@DUCHESSA yes you're right I suppose.


Stop posting pics bent over in a bikini, jacked up on 6 inch heals, looking backward, with the opening statement "I don't like perverts" are trying to attract perverts

Don't you mean naked pics ?



But sometimes it is a necessity !

@VAL3941 I don't think you understand what a neccesity is. Also you're gross.


Plastic surgery - why change your body?

Some need it !

@MrLizard You voiced it exactly. Thanks


Letting men tell them what they can and can’t do. Women are awesome and if we let men rule us we’ll start being as awful as they are.


Stop trying to be something your not just because someone says to, just be yourself and damn the consequences.

They like being something they are not ?

@VAL3941 Advertising and pop culture try to tell women how to dress, how to look, how to act. It's all a fantasy created by the male dominated advertising culture. It says that if you don't meet these expectations then you are unworthy and have failed not only yourself but women everywhere. The goals male society places on women are unrealistic and nearly impossible to achieve except for a select few and for a short period of time.


It is not as much what they should stop doing as what they should start doing. It is about action, not inaction. If a person stops doing something he or she must replace it with another action. Men and women alike should start focusing on finding something for which they have a passion and pursue it vigorously. By profession, I am a substance abuse counselor and worked for six and a half years with adolescents. The one thing that I asked them that left them speechless was “name one thing about which you are passionate”. The number one response was “I don’t know. I’ve never thought about it”. I gave them a homework assignment. I told them to come back the next Day ready to tell me at least one thing that they are passionate about. The transformation was amazing - and that was just from THINKING about it. We all need to find something for which we have a passion. Something that brings us joy and contributes in a positive way to the life of men, women, children, animals, and this planet. Then pursue that passion as if we are going to die tomorrow. In a nutshell, we all need to fill that hole deep within ourselves with passion and find purpose in our lives.

Long answer to a simple question but point taken !


Quit expecting us to know what you are thinking, when you don't even know what each other thinks. ?


In fact anyone doing Ice should stop.


Wow is that a loaded question. I’m going to play it smart and keep my mouth shut I’m here just for the comments this should be good.

Coward ! ( smile )


I would say, "stop letting others tell them what to do," but that's irony, because that still means I'm telling them what to do. SO, I might 'suggest' that they be who they are... and then celebrate that with them.

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