How's about you just call him.

Frustration I know. Obvious answer is he is not interested in taking things any further, for whatever reason.

How long since the first? It seems like he might have ghosted. I'm sorry that happened to you. He may have sensed no real chemistry, or had whatever other reason, but whatever the case, he should have been honest with you how he felt if he wasn't interested. You're better off with someone with a sincere heart.

It's ghosting and it happens more often than not. And judging just by my own experiences and never gets easier when people don't have the decency to at least tell you they're not interested. It hurts way more this way yet so many people say " Oh Ive done that a few times.."

That just downright sucks. It seems clear that he isn't interested; however, any guy with an ounce of class would have the courtesy to tell you he didn't want to go out again. At the very least, out of respect for you. Sorry this happened.

Just be glad you only invested one date. Move on....

Forget him. Something just did not mesh.

That would bug me too. Happenned to me when I started dating again last year. Just returned from visit with member on west coast. Know we're friends. Still meeting new people.

There could be extinuating circumstance that you are unaware of but he should at least contact you for an explanation. If he doesn't contact you, you just write him off as a onetimer. You did say you had a good time so that is a plus for you.

Might be married or separated or thinking about it.....nothing whatsoever to do with you!

It sucks when someone leaves you hanging like that. Not only is it rude it is a cowardly thing to do. Just be honest with people.

What do you have to lose by sending a message and asking how he is, suggesting another date? What is the worst that could happen? He may have ghosted you, he may be shy. How much do you want to know?

I had an LTR relationship that ghosted me. Telling me She broke it off when I asked Her what was going on. I would say you may have ducked a person and situation that would not have gone well. This after months of visits, love, sex and even future plans. It put me off dating for over a year. I would leave it be and decline if contacted again.

Who knows; may be he likes you but is not ready for a serious relationship.

Sounds like he either can't be honest with you or he has a shorter attention span and someone else grabbed his focus. Sorry hun. Just love yourself and move forward <3

Hard to tell. I just let then come to me, and if they don't I don't chase

I like to approach things with little judgement and let nature take it's course (the path of least resistance). With that in mind and to be fair to everyone (including yourself) maybe let go of this. Allow this to have happened with no judgement and no expectations. If you compare and categorize you might be disappointed, this is progress and paving the way for the future you and maybe the future him. Cell phones die, computers crash and life happens, fear gets in the way and judgement often can too, but not for you because you are in the white light of the future discovery of yourself and conscioussness.

I'm sure if you think about it honestly you can figure out what went wrong and yes I'm pretty sure it was your fault.

Well, you know @SonderOpia ... you ARE a Texan. And you are Euless. Maybe he really needs Eu? I don't know why it might all be about Eu. but it's possible so stop being so selfish and start thinking about Eu. However, I wouldnt call him and ask "Is it me or is it ... Eu?" because that might get confusing. Of course your emotions are at stake but maybe it's just that he truly hates Eu and you're just too convenient for him given your proximity. Maybe he had a bad experience with Eu and his guilt is overwhelming. At this point I am pretty sure it has something to do with Eu.

If you're still interested contact him. It's always possible his cell phone died.

I like the advice in the book, The Rules, given especially for women with strong male traits, who tend to chase after men, can act needy on dates, and who typically worry about what men think of them, etc.

Your job is let the men be the ones who worry. Let men be the predators; you only react to the ones chasing YOU.
Otherwise, it's "Next!"