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Negative personality traits?

How do you think you annoy people, if at all?
Me: I speak my mind, which has resulted in a couple people blocking me in the community... Their loss... πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜‰

Cutiebeauty 9 July 12

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I have no flaws at all, which really irritates people.

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Athena Level 8 July 12, 2019

I'm so perfect I overlook everyone else's flaws. πŸ˜€

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I love myself so I don't really care.

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I know I definitely annoy some people, but honestly, I don't know how. Maybe because I'm overly emotional? Or because I have very strong opinions and I don't always express them diplomatically.

that's the same exactly for me, emotional/strong opinions/not diplomatic... I have an idea this sort of make-up is hard to 'control', especially as it enables one to get a lot done in life! Trade-offs... (brave of you to admit the emotional - men rarely do!).

@Allamanda I’m actually a woman, but I didn’t put it in my profile because I don’t want to get PMs like β€œhi babe let’s see some skin pics β€οΈπŸ’‹β€ or β€œare u single cus ur fat LOL?”

But my dad was pretty emotional and so are some of my cousins. My brother is fairly stoic though.

@altschmerz sorry, one should not assume! I was going by the picture! But you know I have NEVER had such a message myself on here, just a few silly ones who can't even start a conversation.

@Allamanda it’s not really important anyway, since I’m not here for dating. πŸ™‚

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I annoy my ex wife by existing.

But seriously, if I want to catalogue my faults, I just have to channel her for a few moments.

I'm lazy.
I'm stupid.
I'm immature.
I'm disrespectful.
I'm bad tempered.
I'm dirty.
I'm irresponsible.
I'm inappropriate.
I lack self control.
I lack self awareness.
I'm vain.
I'm ugly.
I'm fat.
My personal hygiene, grooming and choice of clothes is questionable at best.
I'm contrary.
I'm a parasite.
I'm loud.

Think that pretty much covers it.

You had one too ? And here I thought that I.was the only one !

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I try not to annoy people, though I’m sure I still manage to do so. I do speak my mind, but try to do it without being too blunt or negative...unless they’re just being arseholes!

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I’m bossy.

Well, stop that! πŸ˜‰

And I’m stubborn!

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I'm too pessimistic,talk too much,write too much,opinionated,I have a sick sense of humor,I sometimes have no filter and I'm sometimes too hard on myself.Been working on all those things for 50 years,happy being me now.Good question CB.

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I overcompensated for my panic attacks and resultant fearfulness by developing a sarcastic, sullen persona. The meds help a lot, so now I'm maybe too cheerful. I still have problems coping...the underlying problems are still there; but it doesn't manifest in total emotional upheaval, meltdowns and as much self-destructive behavior, so it's an improvement.

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Being straightforward, intelligent and logical. Social liberals hate that.

zesty Level 7 July 12, 2019

I'm socially liberal and don't hate straightforward, intelligent & logical. You are entirely sexually free, while having those traits. That is very interesting, I think. Not for me, but very interesting. πŸ™‚

@sweetcharlotte The way I see it, it is logical. Sexual tabus, restrictions and limitations represent the major tool of control of the churches. Reject religion and God, no restrictions.

@zesty I never have been interested in religion and did not learn any of that. I have been wondering why so many sex groups are here.

@sweetcharlotte People really emjoy sex!

@zesty I think I have gotten us off subject here. (I apologize to Cutiebeauty.) I really enjoy sex too, but not with a group of strangers or even friends. My brain only turns on with the man I am in love with. Always been like that for me. It has nothing to do with religion. I believe that physical sex is a pleasure I do in showing love. In non-physical sex, as reading, voice, or vibrators, I can only enjoy it, if my concentration is totally on that man I love. Why do you think I am like this? We should go to PM, as I have been blocked by one saying I chat about personal subjects which she doesn't want to read about it. So I am showing respect to those that feel like that.

@sweetcharlotte Sure. Send me a PM please.

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It seems I often come across as confrontational and or condescending regardless of my intent.
Something I have had to deal with all my life, but something I have had to come to terms with being not my problem or something I can do anything about.

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Impetuosity, impatience. Frankness. Not suffering fools gladly.

2

My pessimism and self doubt

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I try very hard not to annoy people in the community. I do not use profanity. I am only writing about my thoughts and experiences. I've been called "too personal" and "too dramatic", when I was blocked. When I wrote about my romance troll experience, I was blocked by both men and women here, who think it is OK to play lying games. When I have written about men abusing women, I was called a "man hater", and blocked by a few young men. My liberal views about the treatment of women seems to annoy others on this site.

Life is not a popularity contest. Lately, unfortunately, the complaining loosers became way too loud.

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I don't care. And am moving to I don't give a sh'', at f!#: it speed.

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I don't annoy people....they choose to get annoyed by whatever I may have said, done or whatnot. That's on them !!!!! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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Truth will always offend .

GEGR Level 7 July 13, 2019
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I can point out the common sense missed in an issue or point, this tends to miff people.

azzow2 Level 9 July 12, 2019
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i do the same but thats there problem.

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"Speaking your mind" can mean lots of things...hostile/accepting, aggressive/passive, warm/cold friendly/unfriendly.

It has a lot to do with how your parents and folks influential in your early life "spoke their mind" regarding you....it depends on how you/I were "programmed".

If people blocked you and you say "their loss" you're not reflecting on why they blocked you...so you will continue to be annoying (to them) until you become more flexible and tolerant.

That may - or may not - be important to you.

Ken Keyes put it this way; You may be "right" and be alone....or you may be tolerant and be with more who care about you.

Ken spoke of "addictions" (things you must have) vs "preferences" (things you would like, but can do without). He kept suggesting to make all your addictions preferences to gain a higher level of consciousness and happiness.

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A couple people blocking me, in a community this large, would indicate that it's more likely their problem, not mine... And to believe I don't reflect on why I was blocked, is a false assumption on your part...

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Don’t care if I annoy anyone.
If they don’t like me that’s good. I won’t have to waste anytime then.
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1

I can be extremely cold. I also don't suffer fools. Those are probably my big 2

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I'm told I have no filter

I have an exaggerated fight or flight response and all too often fight is the first instinct

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I'm too negative and cynical;don't care,though

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Pretty much the same here. But when I speak my mind, they ask me to block them!... Very strange really.. πŸ˜‚ I'm thinking 'Damn,, are you really that lazy? '

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Not sure, can you help me out? Let me know how I annoy.

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