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Do you care if you are remembered when you die?

EmeraldJewel 7 May 11
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Yes, I do.

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No... its all an illusion Jewel. Make the best of your life.

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I really don't care. I hope that I live a life of honor and integrity, and perhaps, someone will benefit from my life, but, eventually, no one will remember my name, so I'm not concerned about it.

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Meaning, I guess I care now. I'm not dead yet so I don't know if I'll care then.

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I hope my friends and family remember the good times that we shared together.

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More concerned about while I am alive.

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No.

Coldo Level 8 May 12, 2018
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Yes. I like the Coco notion, that the final death is when you are no longer remembered by your loved ones.

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I won't mind one bit, because I'll be dead.

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Self as an individual body is a fragile and tenuous thing. There was a time before I was born, so why should I expect to be immortal? There is nothing about the individual self worth immortality.

I lean toward thinking that self as individual is just an illusion anyway. What is immortal is deep conscious awareness. Our true and higher self is immortal by default.

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I want to be forgotten, and luckily, I will be.

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I have a box full of old love letters and other mementos that I'd like to be buried with (even if I'm cremated, it's not a large box). My foolish hope is that some future archaeologist will dig me up, decipher the notes, and be like "for a brief time, this creature was loved and mattered to others of its species." It's dumb and impossible, but it's a daydream I have anyway

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I want to live long enough to build a wealth of good memories for my grandson, other than that it doesn’t matter.

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All the good comments are taken. Will that stop me from leaving my own? haha. Have you MET me? So I care now that I will be remembered when I die, and I assume I will be because I have a lot of kids and grandkids and stuff. But eventually I'll be forgotten as most people are.

The nice part is, as soon as I die, I won't care anymore, so it hardly matters.

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no i will be dead

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I won't be, ultimately no one will.

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Yes - I care - but after I die I can't care and so I'm conflicted 🙂. Before the Internet - when I took on the task of researching my family history I visited city hall, I visited the office of vital statistics and I visited cemeteries. On one such visit, I had the hardest time finding the only grave I went there to find. With the help of the grounds keeper I eventually located the spot - I had walked passed it several times. The reason I had missed it was because the stone sank into the ground hiding the names. And I remember thinking at the time - "the people buried here have seven surviving kids and a ton of grandchildren and great grandchildren". "No one cared enough to pay a visit and in the process fix this"? While that rattled around in my brain I had an opportunity to talk to a wise cousin of mine. I asked her how she would feel (if she had a way of knowing) that her grave was not maintained or visited. She simply said "great - it means they're moving on rather than looking back". That has since come to be my view - I see gravestones as an archaic practice and when it's my time I've chosen to have a natural burial i.e., ain't no one gonna be able to find my bones - there's no spot to pray at or reminisce and that's how it should be.

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Not really. Once I'm gone I'm gone.

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Do I care now (whilst alive)? Not really.

Will I care when dead? I hope not. Because if I do, I've made an awful boo-boo.

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I hope I am remembered by my few friends!

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No!

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Any way the wind blows, doesnt really matter to me.

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I'd rather people forget my personal life, with all its foibles. However, I would like to leave some writings that could help make the future better than the present....

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Nope, why should.I if I am not here to reap the benefit or not ??

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