Serenity to accept the things I cannot change, (others)
Courage to change the things I can, (myself)
Wisdom to know the difference.

If talking with the partner to identify the cause of the issue doesn’t work, counseling or therapy would have been my next step. People need help, it’s part of becoming an adult understanding and accepting that.

you can't own a person. i read somewhere: if you love a woman, let her be free. if she stays with you, she's yours. if she doesn't, she never was.

It is about power, not love, just power.

Some men think of women as nothing more than possessions to do freely with as they please and that they should be slaves to there every demand ,When they looses this i think their ego goes into a terffiying rage that they cannot control , The have never been taught about consent ,the word No etc,it is all about themselves ,everyone and thing should be at the command

Possessive psycho guys (not all men) think that if they cannot have or own their partner they cannot be with anyone. The breakup is such a huge blow to their egos they go into a crazy rage. This is worst if the man is a narcissist and he's not done using the woman for whatever he is using her for (source of money, someone to start drama with, as a trophy wife for status, etc.).

I doubt the readers here would have any insight into the mindset of a murderer.But some people think that each man should be answerable for the acts of every other man.

it wouldn't bother me. i have never wanted to be with someone who didn't want to be with me. i can handle rejection.

We do not teach children how to accept “No,” and we must. We must teach boys especially that they do not deserve an automatic “Yes.”

I think essentially it is power. The men cannot stand to lose the power over someone, and how best to ultimately show their power than by ending her life.