Don't you just hate when you meet someone who is initially perfect as far as fitting your criteria, and then you find out they're allergic to your favorite pets and will be moving away forever in a year, but you keep seeing them anyway, because a temporary relationship is better than no relationship... And you get intimate. You share things. You're raw and unfiltered and it works. And they hold you just right. And they do cutesy date stuff with you and send you postcards from vacation... But they refer to your temporary relationship as a "tryst".
Ugggghhhhh what is with guys thinking that just because something isn't permanent, that it has no meaning?
Ok. I'm done ranting. Just thought I'd share a thing. Anyone else go through this crap? I'm so over it.
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.to me, the greatest variable is what you are seeking from them. I have met some that were perfect for one or two nights and gone, others for weeks or months, one lady in my life has been a friend for 68 years...and no we are not married to each other, and still another one for over 50 years...so it's doable if you truly are in tune and not making changes to please them for the moment.
NormCastle
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I have found that if I find myself saying, "why do all women..." the problem is actually me.
CraeftSmith
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Is it better to have loved and shared good times with someone than to have never loved them
Shadrack1971
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