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A quote from the concluding paragraphs of the book, He Comes Next by Ian Kerner:

Sex is the one place where, if there's enough love and trust in the other person's genuine desire, the sheer pleasure of letting go can be experienced in a concert of all the senses, which is not only sexually cathartic, but can be emotionally bonding in a way unparalleled by any other form of human interaction.

JGal 7 Mar 20
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Um.. duh? I mean ...yes your right

Parzival Level 5 Mar 21, 2019

I agree with that.
Who needs pda (public display of affection)?

St-Sinner Level 9 Mar 21, 2019

See how such writers conform to the taboos of prudery and obsfucation ? "Making Love" is a bit more warm and tender than the sterile brutal mating words of sex and fuck. "Letting Go" fits rope climbing and loosening a sphincter muscle enough to fffffffttttt out colon gas. Science provides coitus precision for how penis and vagina interact. THRUSTING approximates "male performance" with a partner. Few writers like Henry Miller with wife and Anais Nin spun novels into the expanding vocabulary for passion appetite and describing how lovers connect skin tongue eyes nose ears and "souls" intimately....Professor Marston tried to elevate women and polyamory over patriarchal fascism modeling Wonder Woman after the niece of Margaret Sanger and his Radcliffe Professor spouse both women gave him son/s and the 3 perfected the lie detector for truth in relationships NOT VALIDATING COURTROOM testimony


So true, when you can find that kind of love.

there are 7.7 billion people in the world. It is not that hard in this day and age. We can try harder and we will find it. Also the match and love do not have to be perfect.


Yes I agree with every word.

AmmaRE007 Level 7 Mar 20, 2019

See how readers are starved for words about our nurturing species and how future generations are replicated ? What parent teaches children exactly how babies are made ? I DID. I began when both Courtney and Darrow were 2...." daddys have seeds mommys have eggs I put my seeds right there inside mommy to make her egg to grow up into 8 pound you on your birthday and I helped mommy breathe and push you out head first....about a half hour later after we weighed you and washed both you and mommy off from being all sweaty mommy gave you your first drink of milk right from there......religion and theocracy terrorizes humans away from our Feminist Atheist birthrights....we all should fight back rather than buy more platitudes about birth canals and fellatio


True very true!

1000runner Level 7 Mar 20, 2019

too wordy

TheDoubter Level 9 Mar 20, 2019

to put it another way, when you are so excited by your mate, that your entire body becomes one big nerve ending.

nogod Level 7 Mar 20, 2019



Absolutely true

bobwjr Level 9 Mar 20, 2019

Apparently , I missed something .

Cast1es Level 9 Mar 20, 2019

Great quote...I just prefer to call it 'lovemaking' instead of sex.

tedelliss Level 6 Mar 20, 2019

Any idiot can have mere sex, for most, it;s sufficient, (sad to say) to make love, real love, there must be one hell of a bond. just my opinion.

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