Seems true in my experiences!

Perhaps that is not your fault . If he stops critising the way you dress, but begins beating you instead , It's his total disrespect for you , not you finding fault with him .

Interesting concept but I have some other insights. We hear from scientist like Steven Pinker how things are getting better so we should basically not worry and be happy. The problem with this What is the Blue Dot Effect is that it only works for a limited few and local situations. For some people things are better but for the world in general things are crashing. It seems no one looks at trends as Climate Change and the overall loss of environmental health. They don't look at how other nations are having serious issues and people are fleeing.

I agree with the relationship effect but I also have had some experiences to question it's view. Yes, we might meet Mr/Ms right (I did) and things would be wonderful but little nagging things would creep in and you become more and more picky. But an important thing would be to understand this from the onset and find ways to avoid it (like being open with your feelings and learning the art of compromise). One great thing is to foster alone time (not just hours but days and even longer periods). Finally, I have said and fully understand you do not appreciate what you have until you have lost it. This will change my view of relationships for the rest of my life. Appreciation is the key to a meaningful relationship.

Only if you're looking for things you don't like about your partner. It's like the saying "If you look for bad behavior, v you're going to find bad behavior". Focus on the good things and don't sweat the things which aren't deal breakers for you.