Basically starting over again. I met my ex-husband when I was still in high school, graduated not even a month after we met. So I had been with him almost 20 years, married 15 of those years when we divorced. I was the one who ended it, for many reasons, incompatibility due to religious beliefs being the big one. But again, been with him pretty much my whole adult life and now, trying to figure out if I even ever want to go into another relationship, if anyone would even be interested in me, how to go about it all. It wasn't the healthiest relationship at times so there's that and I have kids and just in general a lot of baggage. I find myself missing him at times or at least the idea of him being around because it gets lonely. He's 6000 miles away in South Korea teaching English so that's out and really, it's for the best because again, not the best relationship when we're together though we get along decently when we're apart and we had a pretty civil divorce (though he was never for it; if it were up to him, we would still be married). Hmm, so yeah, I guess there should be a question in here somewhere, for those starting over, how do you even start? Or did you wait? Not that I'm against waiting. I don't know. I'm still kind of trying to figure all of this out.