When did a kind stranger touch your heart?

Jolanta comments on Jan 22, 2020:

I am still waiting and hoping and pry...g. Well maybe not the last one for a stranger to touch my heart or any other part of my body. Did I say that, any other part of my body. I should wash my mouth out with soap and my brain too,

My wife was diagnosed with liver cancer a month ago.

Jolanta comments on Jan 22, 2020:

I can understand her and you, but how about you put your believes to a side. Tell her that you will pray but that as you know you don't believe. Do it for her.

I scored big through all the Xmas clearance sales.

Jolanta comments on Jan 22, 2020:

Sounds good.

I am a recent widower and signed up on a dating site.

Jolanta comments on Jan 22, 2020:

I think you had an easy escape.

Good Morning all!!!

Jolanta comments on Jan 21, 2020:

U iz, uz.

Finished this up today. Tomorrow, I’m getting some madrone. 💚

Jolanta comments on Jan 20, 2020:

You have to make some big and strong ones, to smack disobedient children with, he, he, or husbands.

I planted some ranunculi and Anemone St Caen bulbs early October last year and here are my first 3 ...

Jolanta comments on Jan 20, 2020:

Nice

My son is helping me come up with ideas how to keep our birds safe.

Jolanta comments on Jan 20, 2020:

Oh, I would be very careful there. Surely you have seen movies about robots going bad, so who knows whom they kill.

New haircut today. What do you think?

Jolanta comments on Jan 20, 2020:

Very nice, but I think no matter what kind of hair cut it you will always look good.

The angst among us By Herb Newsam _ The fears we have come "to", us In the ways "they", do ...

Jolanta comments on Jan 19, 2020:

So what can we do?

Can a culture be designed to be Turing Complete with the sole purpose of calculating answers to ...

Jolanta comments on Jan 19, 2020:

No, I do not thinks so. There is no culture on earth that everyone thinks, feels or desires the same, unless you somehow change their brains by medical intervention.

Mechanically inept. Replaced a lamp on/off switch.

Jolanta comments on Jan 19, 2020:

utube videos are the go for when something brakes. I learned how to change a washer in my shower and how to cut my girlfriends hair. She is very happy with the job.

This past summer I had a medical emergency that put me in a LOT of pain, couldn't even stand up ...

Jolanta comments on Jan 19, 2020:

If people want to pray than it is okay with me. Just don't force me to believe. They did what they thought was right.

If there is a God could it be a alien race updating our DNA over a period of thousands of years.

Jolanta comments on Jan 19, 2020:

Nah, aliens are far more cleaver than us and it would not take them that long.

This is the sort of legislation that Australia should be introducing: [patheos.

Jolanta comments on Jan 19, 2020:

Scotty from Marketing would never do that, he would use it as an excuse for religious freedom.

[timesofisrael.

Jolanta comments on Jan 18, 2020:

Your cousins doing the right thing. There are good Arabs just as there are good Jewish people.

What do you see as being the best approaches to normalizing agnostism, atheism etc?

Jolanta comments on Jan 18, 2020:

I think this mostly has to do with the US, the rest of the western world do not give one fig about your religious beliefs.

What do you do when expected to participate in public religious ceremonies such as prayer?

Jolanta comments on Jan 18, 2020:

You take a little break in your mind and think of all the wonderful things you will do when this nonsense is over.

How do people feel about pulling good guy (or good person) deeds as an atheist?

Jolanta comments on Jan 17, 2020:

That guy must have been an ignoramus.

'If your life is not working out, the entire world looks bad.

Jolanta comments on Jan 17, 2020:

I can see you are hurting.

What about believing even if you know it is not true?

Jolanta comments on Jan 17, 2020:

I am with her. Why is it so important for you to push your own beliefs onto others. Does it harm you in any way if she believes it?

Major evangelical nonprofits are trying a new strategy with the IRS - The Washington Post

Jolanta comments on Jan 17, 2020:

Everybody, but everybody should pay taxes, even the rich, what am I saying. I mean especially the rich.

While communicating with a couple online prospects (not from this site), I've been really thinking ...

Jolanta comments on Jan 17, 2020:

You would be surprised how many people want the same.

Leftie Mishap 10,001.

Jolanta comments on Jan 17, 2020:

Me thinks you need someone to take care of you,

The structure of marriage is heavily based upon religion; in the sight of god, till death, what god ...

Jolanta comments on Jan 16, 2020:

Most people marry for the wrong reasons or are together for the wrong reasons.

Is it time and seriously how can anyone claim that Albanese will be an improvement?

Jolanta comments on Jan 15, 2020:

I doubt very much he can. He is all for coal too.

We have an expression in the UK which says ” Not singing from the same hymn-sheet ” when family,...

Jolanta comments on Jan 15, 2020:

That would plain boring if we all where singing from the same hymn-sheet, and me who cannot hold a tune.

Pope Francis assures atheists: You don’t have to believe in God to go to heaven | The Independent

Jolanta comments on Jan 15, 2020:

We knew that.

Has anyone ever attended a Meet Up Atheist/Freethinker group?

Jolanta comments on Jan 15, 2020:

No, but I would like to.

RefundWarren Trends After Elizabeth Warren Accuses Bernie Sanders of Saying a Woman Couldn't Beat ...

Jolanta comments on Jan 15, 2020:

I doubt very much that he would even think such thing. She is clutching at straws.

Why are atheist so obsessed by religion?

Jolanta comments on Jan 14, 2020:

I don’t think all atheists/agnostic are obsessed with religion, however the one ‘s from the US seem to be. Maybe because religion is so prevalent in some or a lot of US society.

[alternet.

Jolanta comments on Jan 13, 2020:

Most democrats should be republicans.

So much for those who claimed Judaism was the least mysogynistic religion. [bbc.com]

Jolanta comments on Jan 13, 2020:

That is complete nonsense about Judaism. Very religious Jewish women are only looked at as baby makers, they have many laws, women are not allowed to show their hair, thus wear wigs, the man is the boss, education is not allowed either.

Percentage of Christians Drops in All U.S. Age Groups [aarp.org]

Jolanta comments on Jan 13, 2020:

Not fast enough.

Why do most humans love a religion?

Jolanta comments on Jan 13, 2020:

Some do but a lot of don't.

Although I cannot/do not feel it would be feasible due to my job to come "out" as atheist, I would ...

Jolanta comments on Jan 12, 2020:

I don't think I ever bought into it at all. Just did what I was told when I was a child and when I become a teenager I made up my own mind. When my mother sent me to church on Sunday I simply went somewhere else.

Less fear of hell?

Jolanta comments on Jan 12, 2020:

If you don't believe in God than hell will become obsolete.

GENNY, the Israeli home appliance that makes water out of thin air, was named the Energy Efficiency ...

Jolanta comments on Jan 12, 2020:

I wonder how much they cost? Tried to find it on the net but there is no information about the cost of it at all.

A belated post to express my pleasure in being a part of this group.

Jolanta comments on Jan 12, 2020:

We will take good care of you now that you are here.

Sometimes, I feel like I'm never going to really fit into society anymore.

Jolanta comments on Jan 11, 2020:

There are a lot of things that can annoy us in life, just know that you are doing the right thing for you.

This doesn't have anything to do with being agnostic.

Jolanta comments on Jan 11, 2020:

I moved countries and it all turn out for the best.

It's sometimes strange to look back on one's self in the past, particularly the distant past.

Jolanta comments on Jan 11, 2020:

Yes, I remember when I used to be a size 8, what happened suddenly? I have no clue.

Are freethinkers on religions also freethinkers on politics?

Jolanta comments on Jan 10, 2020:

No, I am happy with this group. We can 'talk' about anything we want to, even politics.

Twenty years ago there was only one country in the Middle East that had no religious extremist ...

Jolanta comments on Jan 10, 2020:

Yes, they do. Turmoil equates money for them.

Here in Florida my tomato plants are up and growing in peat pots.

Jolanta comments on Jan 10, 2020:

Scientist say that there may be over a million of different nematodes so you have your work cut out for you. Good luck.

We come into this world naked and alone.

Jolanta comments on Jan 10, 2020:

No, no bus. That is not very dignifying and can be very messy and what says that you will die. You may be a vegetable. Better get some nembutal.

Warning! Though it's possible to date someone who believes in God, it is not possible to date a ...

Jolanta comments on Jan 10, 2020:

Even fundamentalist can change unless they are mentally ill. Try to do what Anthony Magnabosco does. He is on Utube.

Do atheists overreach?

Jolanta comments on Jan 10, 2020:

He's a nobb, don't pay any attention to him.

Things look better in the morning. Right?

Jolanta comments on Jan 10, 2020:

If its too short you can always add some more material on the bottom if you have any. It will make it look more unique. You are doing a fine job.

Does anyone else have a homophobic family member?

Jolanta comments on Jan 10, 2020:

Have a look at Anthony Magnabosco utube videos. It will give you some pointers how to deal with people and make them think.

As a long term resident of the Philadelphia area and a casual sports fan I have to withstand the ...

Jolanta comments on Jan 9, 2020:

Perhaps that is how he justifies bad behavior, you know like the catholics. They are bad and then they go to confession and all is well.

[youtube.com] Upbeat song on this gloomy weather day. One of my old faves.

Jolanta comments on Jan 9, 2020:

Sherman Kelly who wrote the song went to Cornell University studying Psychology and English and to Aliance Francaise in Paris. He still writes music.

[youtube.com] Upbeat song on this gloomy weather day. One of my old faves.

Jolanta comments on Jan 9, 2020:

Love that song. Makes me want to get up and dance now, moonlight or no moonlight.

Speaking for myself, I can recognize any sensation/feeling/mood/emotion, no matter how complex, as ...

Jolanta comments on Jan 8, 2020:

You are not the only one there.

Thanks to Agnostic.

Jolanta comments on Jan 8, 2020:

Maybe you need to start leaving that tongue in your mouth, not outside.

My atheist family was appalled when I converted to Catholicism – but it’s given me great peace |...

Jolanta comments on Jan 8, 2020:

It’s not that they are born predisposed, some people just have a need to “know” the meaning of life, no matter what and think it must have a god in it.

I still have these books on my coffee table.

Jolanta comments on Jan 8, 2020:

I read all the time. Usually have several books going on at one and the same time. Crime novels, fiction, biographies and whatever takes my fancy. When I finish a book it goes, I give it away, if I didn't I would not be able to move.

Considering the current redistribution of the wealth of the middle class going on isn't it time for ...

Jolanta comments on Jan 8, 2020:

Social democracy it the key to happy more fair society.

Republican Defends Posting Fake Photo of Obama with Iran’s President Republican congressman ...

Jolanta comments on Jan 8, 2020:

People like him are great candidates for a labotomy.

I find myself needing less and less social interaction I just try to avoid peoples BS IRL the ...

Jolanta comments on Jan 8, 2020:

No, no, no. YOu don't have to contemplate becoming an introvert, you are one and there is nothing wrong with that.

It'a 8:05 PM EST USA and we are now at war with Iran.

Jolanta comments on Jan 8, 2020:

I can understand your worry but war is not decleared yet. The whole world should be worried. There is no way that China and Russia will just not get involved.

BROKEN WRIST?

Jolanta comments on Jan 8, 2020:

Well you direction in life -live well and die happy- may just not be working so well for you.

Greetings I'm new to the site, look forward to some fun, educational discussions.

Jolanta comments on Jan 8, 2020:

I am sure you will enjoy it here, it is hard not to. We are from all over the world, discussing, arguing and sharing thoughts and experiences. Welcome.

Hi.

Jolanta comments on Jan 8, 2020:

Only in the US, other western countries don’t give a toss about if you are religious or not.

Anyone doing something for themselves in 2020?

Jolanta comments on Jan 7, 2020:

I could not do any new years resolutions as I feel asleep before 10 o'clock.

Anyone doing something for themselves in 2020?

Jolanta comments on Jan 7, 2020:

The mood blanket sounds interesting. I hope it will not all be black though.

Do you find Youtube videos more helpful than instruction manuals?

Jolanta comments on Jan 7, 2020:

Have you ever tried to read a manual of some gadget bought from China. The English in them is just hilarious to try to comprehend.

Do you find Youtube videos more helpful than instruction manuals?

Jolanta comments on Jan 7, 2020:

Yes, I change my leaking tap after watching a utube video. Saved me some money not to call a plumber to do it for me. Now let me find one on do it yourself brain surgery.

A close friend of mine goes back and forth between extreme antithiesm and Pascal's Wager.

Jolanta comments on Jan 6, 2020:

That's because the bible was written by men for men about men.

Any thoughts on Gervais' speech?

Jolanta comments on Jan 6, 2020:

Fabulous, just fabulous. Love his irreverence.

What computerized machinery have you struggled with?

Jolanta comments on Jan 6, 2020:

I just stick with my old 35+Bernina. Still works like a dream.

Today is the first day of the year and my last day of vacation..... .what a conundrum........

Jolanta comments on Jan 5, 2020:

So you don't like your job?

My father purchased a Kalvinator fridge in the 60's, It ran for 30 years running perfectly, ...

Jolanta comments on Jan 5, 2020:

These days they deliberately make appliances that will only last for a certain amount of time. That's capitalism for you.

Just made a donation to the Australian wildfires.....anyone joining me?

Jolanta comments on Jan 5, 2020:

Thank you very much for doing this. I live in Canberra and we are on alert. There are fires around us. The days are smoky and hazy, the air quality is awful, people keep inside, when driving, lights need to be used to be seen, stores are out of masks, but besides that we are still fine. Other parts are not so lucky and our prime minister, aka the Happy Clappy still refuses to say that climate change is adding to the problem.

New Year's Day Gun Violence Claims 177 Lives As 2020 Begins [newsweek.com]

Jolanta comments on Jan 5, 2020:

I don't understand why people in the US or anywhere els in the world would feel a need to have a gun at all unless you are in a war zone, but then perhaps people in the US think they are in a war zone. When will you realize that you are being manipulated by the people who make guns and bullets.

Bad Apple and the Kindness of Strangers

Jolanta comments on Jan 5, 2020:

Most people do not smile enough.

I live in a religious area, Alabama.

Jolanta comments on Jan 5, 2020:

Is there any reason for you to tell anyone? Just say you are a nurse or something. Nobody's business what you do.

To what extent do you let reason or logic make your decisions for you?

Jolanta comments on Jan 5, 2020:

Since I no longer am 17 emotions come into my decisions hardly ever.

Many do not know that The Lord's Prayer reveals the true name of god.

Jolanta comments on Jan 5, 2020:

I feel so much better knowing that. Thank you.

"Geopolitical and Energy Implications of Qasem Soleimani's Death"

Jolanta comments on Jan 4, 2020:

Just another disgraceful thing that the US has done. Trying to start a war with Iran by any means.

Keeping Up With Faster People

Jolanta comments on Jan 4, 2020:

I used to walk really fast until my husband said 'What's the hurry', so I stopped. These days I try to speed it up, doesn't alway work. There are so many interesting things to look at sometimes.

"The Woman in the Dunes" is a 1964 suspense/drama from Japan.

Jolanta comments on Jan 3, 2020:

Loved the movie.

I was listening to One of Richard Dawkins books and it surprised me when he said that on his scale ...

Jolanta comments on Jan 3, 2020:

I don't even have a scale and it is of no importance in my life. Perhaps people should just loosen up and not be so fired up about if one is religious or not or how not religious one is.

Religion in the workplace

Jolanta comments on Jan 3, 2020:

Look for anther job and when you get one, complain about the religious restrains that are there and point out that is why you are leaving.

How do you stop swearing?

Jolanta comments on Jan 3, 2020:

I think it is great that you want to stop swearing, or do you? Some people say that people who swear are more intelligent than those who don't. I think it is just justification for using bad language. When you get angry with someone you want them to know why you are angry, if you start swearing it gives them a reason to stop listening to you and it escalates the issue. So lose, lose, instead of win win. Besides it make you and you fellow swearers look ugly and you have such a lovely face, don't make it ugly.

My Semester With the Snowflakes

Jolanta comments on Jan 2, 2020:

People should look up Anthony Magnabosc to learn how to listen and be objective.

I'm sure many people on here have religious friends and family members that get on your nerves.

Jolanta comments on Jan 2, 2020:

I have got family and friends that are not religious and they do get on my nerves from time to time, just as I am sure I get on theirs.

"I like biting if done in the right way(s)" a man wrote.

Jolanta comments on Jan 1, 2020:

Maybe he should get an aggressive dog and have a go with it.

"I like biting if done in the right way(s)" a man wrote.

Jolanta comments on Jan 1, 2020:

What weirdos you do come across. I would not even bother answering him if I got something like that from anyone. Or perhaps just with one word, a nasty one.

"It is man's intelligence that makes him so often behave more stupidly than the beasts.

Jolanta comments on Jan 1, 2020:

We have a famous football player who is extremely religious here. He was sacked from his very lucrative football club for saying that guys and people who had abortions would go to hell. After he was sacked he took them to court but did not win, it was settled out of court in the end. Anyway now he is saying that the fires that are raging around Australia is gods punishment for letting the guys marry or allowing women to have abortions.

Not a drinker, I made bread on New Year's Eve.

Jolanta comments on Jan 1, 2020:

Wow, you must be so strong to do that. It is hard work to kneed dough. Fabulous. I can almost smell it cooking.

[theatlantic.com] After Monsey will Jews go underground like they do in Europe?

Jolanta comments on Dec 31, 2019:

I red the article and found it sad that they find that they have to do this. I was also wondering about guards with machine guns in front of synagogues? Is that so? Then it made me wonder how the Muslim population is fearing, how do they deal with Islamaphobia? Do they have guards with machine guns too?

I would like to be included in this group, but I am not Jewish by Culture.

Jolanta comments on Dec 31, 2019:

The more than merrier. I am very interested in you converting even though you are not a believer.

[jta.

Jolanta comments on Dec 31, 2019:

I think he is doing a good job there. I don't really care about the persons ethnicity or color who did the horrible deed. I cannot think of him being sane at all. I am sorry for it happening.

The hospital clerk asked my religion before a medical procedure.

Jolanta comments on Dec 31, 2019:

He was just doing his job and could not care less what your religion was or not. It's just a formality.

What gave you joy in 2019?

Jolanta comments on Dec 31, 2019:

Finding this website and making some new friends. Realizing my hording obsession and doing something about it. Finally getting rid of my ex from my life. Getting to "know" myself better.

This post does not pretend to represent a scientific analysis; it's just a conversation starter.

Jolanta comments on Dec 31, 2019:

So, one group is aware of what is happening to them and can elaborate but the other just cannot due to so called beliefs? Or......?

What am I saying?

Jolanta comments on Dec 29, 2019:

I think you need help big time.

Conspirators Claim Burger King's Impossible Whopper Giving Men Breasts Burger King’s ...

Jolanta comments on Dec 29, 2019:

Well, I have noticed that men's physic is changing since I was a girl. They do get breasts, must be all that rubbish they eat not enough of vegetable, too much sugar and far too much meat.

Remembering those Tangerine Dreams [youtube.com]

Jolanta comments on Dec 29, 2019:

Just a lot of noise.