I recently joined a couple of other free dating sites, and I am quite open about being atheist. When someone looks appealing, of course I check out their profile. What do y'all think about my automatic deletion of anyone's message if their profile says "Christian", "Baptist", or whatever, under religious beliefs? Am I being intolerant, or just time-effective?
I stopped trying to date. Just a cat lord now. Going out and meeting people is better which i stop doing. I am unlikily to try to date a believer, trumpster,. Hell i am 57 i am waiting on ssd and hope for a good life at 65. Good luck and when dating do not settle
Be very cautious with the online dating sites,I'm a Widower,having lost my wife last Sept. to lung cancer,the sites are set up to prey on your loneliness,I've been scammed for about $1K a few months ago,gift cards and other things.
The paid for memberships are more than happy to take your money with no guarantee of success. I've used about all you can think of no dates, lots or interest but most decent women are too far away. If you research the sites for complaints,not many have positive ratings,some with one star,not 5.....
I do the same. Is time efficient. Of course, when you put athiest down, as do I, you are immediately eliminated from 99% of other's consideration. Athiests are a loathed minority. You don't believe in the invisible man? You must be a bad person? Actually , one of my nick names is BAD BOB. I love it.
I quit POF because of the religious freaks. I tried dating one once and couldn't tolerate his religious and political views but most of all his hypocracy sickened me. You're right. Don't waste your time. They are out to evangelize but still wanna fuck.
I rarely respond to those that have any religious nonsense in their profiles.
Depends on how important belief is to you. There's a lot of arm chair christians out there that will put it on a form but never attend church and not defend their faith.
It wasn't TOO terribly long ago that I might have listed myself as Christian. Growing up in OK, that was the default position, even if you weren't religious. So I expect there are plenty of people that don't give religion enough thought to label themselves as Atheist or Agnostic, but when asked "what religion are you?" They just say Christian without thinking much about it.
Of course though, I wouldn't waste time with anyone that actively talked about god, church, faith, etc.
There are a lot of fish in the sea . If it's not what you want , you're most likely making things more efficient and less painful for yourself .
Do regular fish eat athiest fish or do they discriminate.
@Healthydoc70 Personally , I don't eat fish at all , if I can avoid it . But I have noticed some strange fish on the back of other folk's cars .
I don't think I would automatically delete them, I would say, "due to your religious beliefs, I don't think we'd be a good match". They can try to argue their case and you have the option to hear them or ignore them. OR, they'll just accept your response and move on.
There are many scammers out there on those date sites I have had run into a slew of them from Ghana Africa. I put agnostic in my bio and the religious still try click they like you. On Zooks and POF I a fairly certain I make it clear I am agnostic. The auto-delete would be good though.
I wouldn't dismiss them just because of that. Some people just want to be accepted, to fit in and don't really take religion all that seriously. Some feel pressured to go along with the crowd. Maybe your freedom of spirit is just what they are looking for? You could just say, I'm not interested in religion, and see where that goes.
To coin a phrase, there are some fine people who hold religious beliefs. But we each have different levels of tolerance for them, so you should keep doing this if yours is low. I'd do it too if someone so identified with religion that they felt compelled to put that in a dating site profile. I also eliminate people who say they don't drink, that saves a lot of time too.
I eliminate people who say they drink more than one drink socially. Recent studies now show there's no safe drinking limit. Better to take cannabis oil..it cures almost anything, no hang over or addiction, and you still feel happy and peaceful.
@birdingnut we all have our priorities.
I would not date a religious person. I also don't understand why a religious person would want to date an atheist.