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Ok so let's hear how everyone thinks on this issue.
Do you take off your shoes when you enter your home? Do you require others to take off their shoes.. and how do you deal with it? do you provide slippers?

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AmmaRE007 7 Oct 30
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Asian rules. Take them off, ffs.

@ShuMei2018 Not too many of us around here? My ethnic background is Korean. Too many Koreans are Christians. Well, my mon is a Catholic.

But we still take our shoes off when we enter a house. 🙂

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"Good kimbop"? Too much trouble. Kim. Rice. Sausage links, cooked and sliced vertically. Sliced pickled yellow radish. Roll them up and eat without slicing them. Korean handroll.

Good enough. 🙂

@ShuMei2018 Sure thing! I am always (well, not always, always. I do work for a living) up for a happy hour drinks (with a bit of advance planning, lol!). Hit me up one of these days. Happy to share a drink with a fellow Asian atheist!

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All shoes off, if not, get the fuck out.

@Quazi uh huh, I don't play that shit.

Don't take off your shoes, you're not staying that long anyway.

@MacTavish you can fuck off then (gordon ramsey voice) lol

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I couldn't vote because I don't take off my shoes (unless it's winter and my boots are snowy or muddy) and I do not ask anyone else to do so.
Here's the thing for me -- I usually have dogs who run in and out of the house freely. -- unless there is obvious muck. Anything people bring in is probably going to be less toxic or unappealing than dog feet..
So I have a question for those who do remove their shoes -- what do you do about animals/pets? Do you own them? If so, what do you do about them tracking in germs, etc?

We take our shoes off and use slippers, the dog before entering the door we have wet wipes and clean all four feet beforehand then he's allowed to enter. As a matter of fact if someone else is walking him and they skip that part he's all confused and stays by the door. We then explain to the others what they have to do to get the dog to go inside. It literally takes 30 seconds

@astrnelis I had dog once that was pretty good emulating humans in that she sat her ass on the couch with her front feet on the ground but she also wiped her feet.

No shit, she did. It wasn't really effective but it was amusing to watch

@astrnelis & @Lucy_Fehr, dogs are just too funny in their creature habits!

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I take it that you don't take off the shoes or ask others to?

@AmmaRE007 No, the post just reminded me of the scene and I still can't stop laughing. The roots of comedy are in tragedy.. ?

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In California & Alabama I never cared. Minnesota changed my mind. In the winter, it's a must. Because of that, it just becomes habit the rest of the year. I don't actually know anyone here who doesn't take off their shoes.

@Spudnut - Even weirder. My job takes me to multi-million dollar homes all the time (I automate them) & with almost no exceptions, I have to take my shoes off. ?

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I didn't vote in this poll. I live in a place where it is customary to remove shoes before entering anyone's home. There are signs outside every door as a reminder, so I don't ask anyone to remove shoes, they just do. Dirty shoes stay outside, clean feet are welcome inside. (Besides, living in an apartment, shoes clunking on hard floors is inconsiderate to those living below.) It's just a matter of respect and custom here.

When I visit others, I take my cue by whether the person opening the door is wearing shoes or not. If there's a pile of shoes by the front door, I add mine, making sure I remember which slippers are mine when I leave. (We have very few stores here, so there can be several pairs of shoes/slippers all the same.) There have been times when my shoes are not where I left them, so I have to go find who has my slippers?

When I lived in the Seattle area, we also always took off our shoes in the entryway (or garage) before walking inside. The custom kept our floors/carpet clean and when we had a light colored carpet and hard wood floors, it was highly encouraged with our visitors as well. (Most people would, unless good reason, such as my brother who has an artificial leg and always kept his shoes on, with absolutely no judgement.)

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Sometimes I fall asleep with my shoes on

I HAVE to admit..i've done the same lol

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No. I don't take my shoes off nor do I ask anyone else to do so. That's nothing less than pretentious. I'm a farmboy. We don't do pretense very well.

I grew up on a farm and that's why we took our shoes off. No tracking mud and manure in the house!

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For the past 25 years, I have had a shoe-free home. It keeps the floors much cleaner.

In the house, I wear moccasins. At night, I put my moccasins on a Peet shoe/boot dryer and warmer. Cozy and warm in the morning!

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Nobody wears thier shoes in my home, including me.
The stuff you walk through every day and you want to take that into your home.. yuck!

Exactly

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I do out of habit but I have never asked anyone to remove their shoes. I have dogs and cats and vacuum often. My house is tidy, but old and lived in.

I can certainly relate to old and lived in.

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I keep my shoes on in my house and prefer that others do as well. I don't need them sloughing off their foot fungus all over my home.

For what it's worth, I will take my shoes off if it's requested at someone else's home — but I'd rather not. If I'm an invited guest, I'll plan ahead and bring slip-on, soft-soled, indoor-only shoes to keep my feet warm and my toes protected. Otherwise, I'm quite uncomfortable without shoes.

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I grew up taking my shoes off and having guest take off their shoes. When I was married, I did the same thing. Now, I still take off my shoes, but don't bother with the guest. But, I don't allow jeans on my bed. Whoever I'm dating would know the drill... LOL

My parent's carpet lasted over 20 years

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Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn.

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There is not achoice for don't take them off. I don't. I would at someone else's house if it looked like they did.

MsAl Level 8 Oct 31, 2018
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My son's friend did this ..and the smell was absolutely nauseatingly awful...his once white socks were black....it was so bad I gave him a clean pair of socks ..and pointed him to the bathroom with soap and a towel.I could not clear the smell for days..it lingered and was embedded in the carpet ..sounds harsh ..but sometimes you have to take the bull by the horns and confront a difficult problem.So ..the answer to this moral dilemma ..keep your shoes on please...especially if your feet stink !

That's always been the dilemma for me. Which is dirtier? Street crud or unbelievably smelly (greasy, sweaty) feet? I take my own shoes off for personal comfort, more than anything (keeping them on if my shoes have turned stinky).

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I have tried this a couple of times. I failed miserably both times, but I love the idea of it.

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I don't remove mine, I don't ask anyone else to, and if someone asked me to remove my shoes I'd politely decline and probably leave.

I wear shoes for warmth, for foot support (feet hurt without them), plus no one wants to worry about the state of their socks around other people. It would seem just as rude to ask other people to remove any other article of clothing in your house. The role of host is make guests feel comfortable, not self conscious. Footwear that has been stomped through mud/slush etc are a different story. If you don't want people shoes in your house, keep a box of those little over-shoe booties by the front door.

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thanks for the helpful answers and your patience.. I see that I could have asked the question in a better way. Thanks so much for all the feed back and sharing. I like to take my shoes off when i come home for comfort and cleanliness.. I like others to take their shoes off., though I don't always ask people to .

Don't be afraid to tell them what it is, they need to respect your home if they wish to enter.

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I don't wear shoes at work, let alone at home. Whatever makes your feet happy is fine with me.

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I do not wear shoes at home. I do not ask anyone to remove shoes. Only when my son worked at a restaurant. Leave those outside.

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I live in an RV...so a little dirt makes a big mess. I take mine off, but don't require others. Then again, others typically don't enter, or just stay in the kitchen/dining area. I also spent time in Okinawa and on the mainland...so isn't that culturally weird for me anyhow.

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I don’t care, shoes or no shoes. I have two dogs, so the carpet always needs a vacuum anyway.

UUNJ Level 8 Oct 30, 2018
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I take off my shoes and then wear slippers around. When I go over someones house if their shoes are stacked at the door ill usually take mine off. I don't have carpet so its ok if someone were to wear shoes ?.

Jaed Level 5 Oct 31, 2018
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ok., we are at a tie so far... let's see how this vote will continue !

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