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What are you most looking for in a relationship? Just your # 1 Thing

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What is the most important quality in a partner? Is it a great sexual partner? Is it someone who can bring home a nice paycheck? Or is it something else?

ProudHeathen 5 Oct 17
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honesty.. with honesty you can build trust. without trust you have nothing

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I most look to build trust, which can open the doors to mutual, satisfying vulnerability. Once I can trust enough to be vulnerable, the sex is incredible.

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Intelligence

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Same thing everyone wants. A woman who won't eat all my damn cheetos!

Mongo Level 1 Nov 27, 2017
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All the matters is that we get along

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I'm looking for perseverance. Someone who's willing to work as hard as it takes to make it work. I was asked in sexual psychology class. What is it that keeps couples together. Everyone raised their hands and said love, a few said great sex, as you might expect but mostly love. The professor said " it's commitment. People have to work at it. I think that many people who divorce just give up.

also honesty, my parents are very committed... to a lie

I disagree... People who divorce didn't just give up... they were depressed... there is an epidemic of depression in America. At first I thought it was just simply we went from repairing broken things to replacing. But this guy link it all up with research...

[think.kera.org]

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Honesty. If you can't be honest about everything with your partner, nothing will ever truly work.

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Companionship without co-dependency

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Someone who is equally happy being on their own, and doesn't need me.

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To be honest at this point of my life I'm looking for a partner who is honest with me, a woman that enjoys spending her time together as time is all we have.

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Humor

Waltz Level 4 Nov 4, 2017
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Someone who will accept the introverted me and realize that I am usually a quiet person.

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Honesty.

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Individuality. I have always thought that a relationship shouldn't be so much about each other's interests, but rather your interest in each other. If someone is good at being herself, to me that is everything...

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Honesty. Just Honesty!

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I'd say someone I like being with so compatibility.

SamL Level 7 Oct 22, 2017
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Compatibility.

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Rational Thought

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Trust, both ways

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The lady I am currently involved with understands that I am a reserved person and appreciates the fact that we can spend time together and just be together,,,, not needing to always be talking... just enjoying each other.

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Peace and serenity

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Some one who accepts me for who I am, not who they think l can be. I ain't a fixer-upper.

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#1 has to be compassion. If someone doesn't have concern and compassion for others, I have a difficult time connecting with them.

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Honesty

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