I made this a poll as I am only looking for yes or no, feel free to comment by all means. But not chasing details, or whether it refers to your current partner or a long lost love. Also not asking if you were in love, just purely on the sex issue. Have you had a sex partner that stands out as the best, considerably better than others, just on how the 2 of you were together, rocked your world and such. I mean CONSIDERABLY better, like more than 10 % better than 2nd place getter or more than 40% better than average.
When I was young and foolish, at Ft. Devens, Massachusetts I had an encounter with a supply clerk after hours in the supply room. It was amazing. As is the Army way, he was transferred shortly after that, and then I went elsewhere. I don't think we would have been a good couple, but that one night was the best I have ever had.
YES. My ex activated things in me I didn't realize were there. Years after our divorce the mystery was solved when he came out as a bi nonbinary female, and I realized four years ago that I'm partially transmale, although I live as an androgyne female. Neither of use were aware of gender issues while married, and believed we were a normal hetero couple.
We both did gender-switching roles, costumes, mild S & M, fantasy games, and almost non-stop play as long as our relationship lasted.
I used to think the straight male "rabbit" sex of my former partners was boring and stupid, but my ex opened up a new world for me.
He was one of my best friends for years and years. We were both married to other people for the majority of our friendship. After we both divorced, we decided to just try it out once. Memorable does not even begin to cover it. Things I didn't even think I'd enjoy were suddenly the most amazing things I'd ever experienced. I look forward to a repeat of that. We're still best buds, but there's a lot of miles between us.
Didn't last, but certainly made me more confident. When guys are younger, they get a lot of pressure(mind you by media and other guys) to know what they're doing in bed. She was very open and made me feel like I wasn't a total idiot. An enlightening relationship.