How long have you gone being celibate?
Almost 12 years. My son was almost three when my wife killed herself. I decided to focus on raising him and avoid relationships with women. He's 14 now, if any of you lovely women feel sorry for me, give a shout. I would have no problem with a mercy fuck. ?
Haven’t been with anyone for five years. But I don’t consider myself celibate. To me, celibacy is about much more than not having an intimate partner. Celibacy is the ‘choice’ to not pursue or engage in sexual or intimate activity.
I’m not celibate- if the opportunity comes along, with a person worth my time and love, I will most certainly be involved with them physically and emotionally.
I went 11 years, from 06 to 2017 before breaking the dry spell of the century. Which was a rather unsatisfying random tinder hookup. Still waiting on anything repeatable. Surprised there are a couple people who have me beat, but considering that decade dry spell was my entire 20’s, it particularly sucks.
I lost my wife last year. She was unable to have intercourse after menopause so I had not had sex in over 10 years.
Then I met a woman who was recently divorced and had been celibate for 10 years.
Things got real and we were both able to confirm that everything still works .
Current dry spell is six months. Longest ever was a hell of a lot longer than that.
My sex life is like the desert. Short bouts of heavy rain followed by long stretches of famine.
What I can say is that on the rare occasions when sex does happen, it's good. Having sex occasionally is a lot better than getting none at all.
It's been 27 months, and it's gotten quite old. It's the longest dry period since after my first time at age 14. Following that it was nearly 4 years before the mother of my children and I became sexually active.
I could probably get some from one particular ex-wife, but that just doesn't seem like a smart thing to do. Hopefully my return to the music scene will put me in more situations to meet new people.