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or have the worlds most uncomfortable yard sale smile001.gif

weeman Level 7 July 19, 2018

I'll have to add this to her list of things to do when I die, @UUNJ. smile001.gif

Lauren Level 7 June 23, 2018

I refuse to move my toys. When I die my kids will deal with it. I don't think they will be shocked, or care. As for my browser history.... again, I don't think they will be shocked. I have great kids.

HippieChick58 Level 9 June 21, 2018

Lol, true.
Now it's the one who destroys the pics on your phone as well.

Electro68 Level 7 June 21, 2018

They are no longer illegal as once they were. So why would I hide them. It is a perfectly safe & acceptable way to handle stress.

Mooolah Level 8 June 21, 2018

Wow. I suspect I'll sound clueless but I had no idea sex toys were illegal. Dang.

@Lauren So was birth control until 1965. Oral copulation & other "alternative practices" were illegal in 48 states until the 1990's. The Supreme Court struck down all sodomy laws after 2 men were arrested in their Texas home engaging in private, adult, consensual sex. Arrested for being gay. Women were not permitted in taverns until after 1he 1940's. If one is not taught history, one will be "clueless". We must take responsibility for our own education or we will not know from whence we came.

@Countrywoman Thanks for the information! I've worked for gay rights a long time so I remember the importance of the sodomy charge with two gay men (plus I'm in Texas), and I knew about birth control which I've been fortunate to have access to my whole life, but I had no idea about the copulation and alternative practices laws. Geesh.


Put them on my casket before it's covered.

EdEarl Level 8 June 21, 2018

Why not in?

@FrayedBear OK


What if they're OUR sex toys?

JackPedigo Level 8 June 21, 2018

That’s a different issue entirely. ?


I guess my sister and I were my mom's best friends. Seriously.

What's worse, the lady who ran the estate sale wanted to sell them.

MrLizard Level 8 June 21, 2018

Ewww. Whether my parents used toys or not, I don’t need to know. They did a good job of impressing upon us the importance of mutually enjoyable sex. Speaking of bequests, there is a toy called a Sybian that people have left to children in their wills. It’s a small bench-like device with attachments. The prices start at $1,200. The device can be sent back to the company for refurbishing between generations. #thanksbutnothanksmom

@UUNJ Ummm... what does that toy do? How is it used?

@MrLizard It can be “ridden” solo or while a partner engages elsewhere on the body. [sybian.com]

@MrLizard They have another “toy” also. [venusformen.com] Saw this at a conference, and the internal sleeve is fit once a buyer sends in measurements.Starts just under $1,000

@UUNJ If we can both get off with spending money on toys... well... I'll do without.

@MrLizard That’s a cost-effective solution. Some
folx like novelty, some lack a partner, and some have disabilities that benefit from creative solutions.

@UUNJ Of course. If I get to the point where it can be therapeutic for one or both of us, then it's a great resource.

Selling them would have been very interesting if living in hypocritical prurient godbothering country. That's a sale that I would have attended with the camera in order to record the expressions on the faces. ??????

@FrayedBear Interesting documentary is Passion and Power: The Technology of Orgasm, which is the history of the vibrator — invented to assist doctors who were massaging away women’s “hysteria” — to modern times.

@FrayedBear They purchased partially used tubes of toothpaste and other over-the-counter medicines. These people bought pure junk.

@UUNJ Apparently someone wrote a play about that.

@MrLizard I saw it on Broadway! “In The Other Room.” Fascinating that women’s sexuality has scared men for so long.

@MrLizard I frequently liken it to poker machine addiction.

@UUNJ That reminds me of the difference in descriptive uses of valium - for women "to overcome anxiety and hysteria "- for men "a muscle relaxant". Doctors curing hysteria or enjoying themselves demonstrating to hysterical women how to use the machine whilst maintaining ethical standard?


My kids are adults. Grow up and deal with it..... now not then.

tryingcake Level 7 June 21, 2018

Very funny!

Dingodog Level 7 June 21, 2018

On the BBC series “coupling” it’s referred to as a porn buddy. A friend who is agreed to go to your home upon your demise and remove all your porn before your relatives get there to look around.

Gonzogopher Level 6 June 21, 2018

A good friend of mine did exactly that for his neighbour. Question is "what do you do if your neighbour turns out to have kiddie or snuff porn?"
IMO it has to be reported as there may be people wanting closure.

@FrayedBear absolutely!

That was the first thing I thought of when I saw this post, @Gonzogopher! I loved that series.

@Lauren Jeff’s truisms. They are horrible yet somehow a grain of either truth or kool Aid!


Give your kids a thrill . Leave em.

Bigwavedave Level 7 June 21, 2018

They don't want to touch my sex toys and wouldn't know what to do with about two thirds of them. I'd rather they all discover them at once and all be collectively shocked at what kind of deviant I really was. That's something that I can enjoy right now.

Wrytyr Level 7 June 21, 2018

LOL. Kids learn fast which drawers and cupboards to keep out of.

@UUNJ 1. No kids. 2. My toys are all in my travel bags so that I can easily carry them to a scene. 3. Many of them are pervertables and so they have a benign, innocent purpose as well. 4. They are in a place that would require a serious, dedicated search.


I have a buddy who has since retired from the Air Force who I have told upon my death he will receive my master password for him to go about clearing my browser history

Squirrel Level 7 June 21, 2018

Maybe this is a difference between women and men, but my friends don't actually know about any toys I may or may not have...
They would probably be competing to split up my gun collection, though. That's men's toys.

Paul4747 Level 7 June 21, 2018

Good point. There are men’s toys that cost about as much as a small gun, though.

Altough I live blocks away from an adult bookstore, I was, up till now unaware that there were male sex toys. I'd just prefer to misogynist and have living sex toys ............hmmmm ....last romp??........I walking over to the store.

OK, now I'm intrigued... clearly I need to visit the local shop. I may find a whole new direction for my hobbies.

@Paul4747 Or go online and google men’s sex toys. Or PM me.


also my hard drive...

seattlepanda Level 7 June 21, 2018
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