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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.Spent one month with a very amazing( I thought)person. The last day we spent together she prefested her love/affection for me. I feel she scared herself jumping in so hard. The next day heard from her once. Then two day later. Then three days later. It's been three weeks now
Fun times 
Lokin4dori
Level 3
Jan 24, 2019
0
Yes it does. I think the one thing that we have to worry about on dating sites is that many men,and women, may not really be looking for a partner but they're looking for help. If there is something that someone is looking for and you're not giving it you will get ghosted.
Kojaksmom
Level 8
Jan 24, 2019
2
the pain from being ghosted depends on the level of prior intimacy. in this venue, ending even daily banter should not offend the ghostee.
TheDoubter
Level 9
Jan 24, 2019
1
It depends on how far that intimacy went.
Being ghosted says nothing about you....
It says a great deal about the ghoster...
Immaturity
Communication issues
Honesty issues
Be glad you were ghosted... You dodged a bullet lol
Cutiebeauty
Level 9
Jan 24, 2019
5
I disagree I got ghosted and for reasons that were never explained to me and taking longer for me to figure it out because no one would help me or communicate to me why these things were happening and then suddenly stopping and the reason why is amnesia I had a head injury and didn't know it because I forgot and then I forgot that I forgot but nevertheless the pain of not knowing why I had a relationship and then I didn't have one was very real and yet I was continuously observed by the person who ended the relationship and never once came forward to tell me what was wrong
Please correct me isn't ghosted after having brief sex and well ghosting afterwards?
PinkyandtheBrain
Level 7
Jan 24, 2019
2
UUNJ:
It can happen at any point, in-person contact or not.
Yes, "ghosting"is any type of not being there without explanation. When someone stops responding to messages either from one minute to the next or from one day to the next. It's when you've gone or on a date, possibly more than one, and then you never hear from them again. It could happen after that first sexual encounter. Anytime someone just fades away without explanation, that is considered "ghosting"
No. That's called caspering?
@Nukdookum Stop messaging hurts a little bit but ghosting after being intimate hurts so much more.
@PinkyandtheBrain I agree. But both forms of disappearing are called ghosting. Much like the word "torture", it doesn't change based on the amount of pain involved.
Something to think about. I've accidentally ghosted people in the past. That may sound lame, but it's true. I think if all I'm doing is talking on a dating app, I don't feel absolutely obligated to keep every conversation going. Sometimes there are so many conversations that it's easy to get busy and forget. Once we go off the app, it depends. Once a date is planned, I won't stand someone up.
Cabsmom
Level 8
Jan 24, 2019
4
Yes - you are right - it is something to think about. I can see how it would be awkward - if you get a message and respond to it in a very general way and this goes on for awhile - maybe one party is reading a little too much into in? So what is more hurtful.....not replying at all ?.... or saying something that might embarrass them? ??????
Yes same here.
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