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Not looking for pity or sympathy, but this will be my 3rd Valentine's Day without a girlfriend...even though I am talking to someone on this site.

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Best wishes for that new connection!

UUNJ Level 8 Feb 14, 2019
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Get a membership on a swinger s site! I can suggest some.

zesty Level 7 Feb 14, 2019
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I've been single for about 10 years. It will grow on you, I say this to you with absolute kindness of heart. Be yourself, be your best friend, be your advocate, be the champion you want in your life, and love yourself first. Be a complete person. Then if she doesn't come along you're not missing anything. If she does come along you will be a better prospect. Once you figure out you don't "need" her you'll be better off. Neediness is not attractive.

HippieChick58 Level 9 Feb 14, 2019
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I was single for almost 15 years friend. Relish it. Go to Europe for a year like I did. I so healed myself. Peace.

Liberace Level 7 Feb 14, 2019

I hear you. When I left my marriage 5 years ago, I moved across NC to Asheville, where I had wanted to be for years. Spent almost 3 years on a mountaintop: it was glorious and peaceful and healing.

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11 years for me and they’ve been the best years of my life. Perception is everything. Being okay with being single has taken some work but it’s been so worth it. Now I feel like I can share my life without feeling like I’d loose myself like I did before. Good luck with your new friend hope it works for you both.

DiThor Level 6 Feb 14, 2019
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How long have you been talking? Are you saying the right things? Why don’t we know more about this?

MissKathleen Level 9 Feb 14, 2019
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Pity, sympathy....can't give ya. Empathy?

Plenty.

You must realize you're "among friends" who've spent more than 3 Valentines alone. It's when you stop looking at it that way that you'll be "found"....just work on being in love with yourself. Do some positive self-talk. Read some self-help books.

Ken Keyes Jr. was (deceased) my mentor. Google his books. They're easy, fast, logical reading.

Here's some basics from Ken.

[mindpowernews.com]

Robecology Level 8 Feb 14, 2019
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Hell, I haven't had one since 2013 when I was still married, and even that was questionable! It's just another day and can only bum you out if you let it. Good luck with your new friend!

dkp93 Level 7 Feb 14, 2019
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Good for you!

moonmaid Level 8 Feb 14, 2019
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Well you are doing better than most.

Mooolah Level 8 Feb 14, 2019
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10 yrs for me smile003.gif

WoodyGoneLoco Level 3 Feb 14, 2019
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