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I just wonder how many heterosexual guys out there have actually had s homosexual encounter....even when they were young....will they come out on this site to admit it....if they haven't would they admit that they have thught about many guys will be honest....I'll admit to it....i'm as straight as you will ever be....but I have had affairs in the past....when I was younger....phsycologists will tell us that no matter how straight we are....we all have homosexual tendencies...I think they are right....what does every one else think.

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This binary bullshit leads nowhere.... intimacy lovers spouses need no categories labels or long as one is not a rapist priest, pedophile or thief, people live love work and play according to their own rules....not religionists or psychologists drivel


I am totally straight- to my knowledge. I had a few encouters when I was a kid. Recently after a few conversations with my girlfriend, I now wonder if I am straight because thst is what I was taught in my religous culture or if Im just a sexual being like everything else. I told my girlfreind about this as she has only had serious relationships with men but likes women. So I told her maybe I just need to suck a d#&@ to get over my homophobic religious indoctrination! So maybe there will be one to come?


As someone who has been in the swinging lifestyle for many years, the biggest surprise for me when I started in it, was how many bi or bi curious men there are out there. Some will say, no mater how many are playing together there is to be no male to male contact at all, others are fine with incidental contact, while a good portion of the men like the male male contact, but will say " only if women are involved, it is not like I want to be with a man".
My ex husband did tell me his first sexual encounter was with another boy, I think he said they were about 11 years old and played with each others dicks. I think that is like Roy said here, it was early sexual play/exploration.

After 2 long term marriages to straight semi-frigid women and 2 straight significant other relationshups that were sexually enjoyable, I asked a young man many years my junior if I could suck his cock.
bad choice on my part. he wasn't imterested.
So much for coming out under the influence of tequila!
While I would have totally enjoyed it, the last thing I want is to be kissed by a man. So, at least for that reason, he was the right choice because from all inDICKations, he was straight.


I've discovered that I'm actually a lesbian. In a male body.

mischl Level 8 Jan 30, 2020

Hey.. count me out 🙂

St-Sinner Level 9 Jan 30, 2020

I'm straight, and I've been hit on by gals before, but didn't realize it until much, much later. I've been part of a threesome, her girl parts didn't get me excited.

I've been in 3 somes and largely oblivious to the female's male partner. Male contact is inevitable but if you're focused on the other one, so what. One time (not at band camp) I was having intercourse with a guy's wife when I popped out and he stuck me back in. Took me a few seconds to figure out whose hand it was.


One time,at band camp....

But seriously, whatever floats your boat. As they say in the Navy,lips is lips. And I've found I'm as invisible to gay and trans guys as to women. I couldn't get sexually harrassed in a gay bar or women's prison for love nor money..


I'm sexually straight but I do like to look at women... They're pretty but I don't have sex with them... Not really 😘😘

Numerous studies have shown that (most) women like to look at naked females more than naked males. To wit: More women bought Playboy magazines than Playgirl.


I too am as straight as one can be. I have never- ever, even a little bit, been tempted to be with another guy. No matter how young-stupid drunk, etc.

Mitch07102 Level 8 Jan 30, 2020

You are born liking what you like, needing what you need. Period.

AnneWimsey Level 9 Jan 30, 2020

My situation is a little strange and that's why I'm answering this question.

There is only one person in the real world who flirts with me, and it's a gay male friend. I don't know what he sees in me. I don't receive flirtatious messages from women, but I've been advised that it's because I don't perceive those messages.

It concerns me that the only interest I receive comes from another male and not from females.

When it comes to physical contact, there's only one penis I like and it's my own. I'm a big fan of women's bodies which are delicate and feminine. My urges for physical contact have always been to touch women's bodies, explore them, touching and being touched.

So I guess it would be accurate to say that the desires I have aren't in line with the qualities I posess. I can't get what I want, and what I can get, I don't want.

Does that answer the question?

BitFlipper Level 8 Jan 30, 2020

If someday I ever feel attracted to a man I won't have a problem to do something. But it never happened.

Pedrohbds Level 7 Jan 30, 2020

that sexuality is a spectrum and that you may either be bisexual or be mostly heterosexual. Also, that you are projecting your sexual orientation on to others. XD


Offers but I refused

bobwjr Level 9 Jan 29, 2020

Been around it. Thought about it but never came curious enough to do anything. I was looking for a wife in kindergarten. Not only was I indoctrinated but I've been extremely physically attracted to women since elementary school. Weird now that I think about it.

MrChange Level 7 Jan 29, 2020

I’m a bisexual woman; when I was younger, I had several folks suggest it was just curiosity. It wasn’t; I’m attracted to both sexes. I’ve had threesomes with one man and another woman who was bi curious. They enjoyed it as a novelty but once was enough; they were indeed straight. I think many people might wonder enough to try it out if an opportunity presented.


I like to call it you had a play encounter ,because with what you are talking about there are usually no emotions involved only for the moment but the opposite is always will be your primary ,some of us just turn fantasys into realty and may even do it only once and your satisfied with the curiosity doe not make you a gay or lesbian,just a normal human being having fun and exploring as that is what us humans to is explore our curiositys

RoyMillar Level 9 Jan 29, 2020

It’s not that we all have homosexual tendencies but that behavior doesn’t determine our orientation.

UUNJ Level 8 Jan 29, 2020

Thank you😉


I think most everyone has varying degrees of the tendency. Some people have none at all. I have had semi-lesbian encounters. Found that I am definitely straight, but I admit that women have more sexual allure in general.

I have had a few guys blurt out love and it has been weird and caught me by surprise...i kissed a transvestite with nice boobs one night and only found out later...i didnt really care ...but it was a mistaken situation...and it was a hoodwink. Really i can't see how or why guys don't find female sexual anatomy as anything but magical....when you go thru those phases of arousal ..and her hips widen ...thats magic there pure and simple...i can change a womans skeletal shape with my tounge..


Have not had, but have been curious. Introduced by certain friendships as teen...always positive, kind of...

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