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I met Cheryl on Halloween night, 1981. We were married the following March, on Friday 13th. She succumed to cancer Dec 2016, so this will be my second Halloween without her since 81 and our 3 year old great grandson still asks after her.
Sorry to be a drag but I had to get that of my chest.

RidingAlone 6 Oct 29
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It's something we rarely consider but the price of being a couple is that in most cases, one partner goes before the other.

It is a steep price to pay but hopefully the years before made it worth the cost

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You are no drag! We are all here to support one another. We all need to get stuff off our chest from time to time. I hope you will get more off your chest whenever you need to. I am going on almost 5 months now of losing my darling man on June 22. I come here often to share, read, and try and support others who need it. Please know this is a wonderful group of human beings who do actually care about one another. I feel so fortunate to have found this site.

Thanks.

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Not a drag we get it.

Gypsy494 Level 7 Oct 30, 2018
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I'm sorry for your loss. And I know how you feel.

freeofgod Level 8 Oct 29, 2018
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I underwent that heartbreak in Aug. I met Sonia in 1991, and we were together until this year. It has been very difficult, but all we can do is to try to carry on the best we can. You have my condolences

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feel free to share

TheDoubter Level 9 Oct 29, 2018
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Understandable......this is a good place to do that....

Nunulady Level 5 Oct 29, 2018
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My kids are beyond Trick-or-treating age now, but... when Dave passed from cancer on Oct 30, 2006, both kids (then ages 6 and 9) still wanted to do the whole door-to-door tradition. It was very hard to do.

Zster Level 8 Oct 29, 2018
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I am new to the group, but, I do not think you can be a drag here. Youre among kindred folk. Grief is a bitch. I am going into my third holiday season without him & it still is as painful as the first. Any time you need to, feel free. I don't think anyone will mind.

Della Level 6 Oct 29, 2018

My third too!

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Sigh .... I know

RoseyRose Level 6 Oct 29, 2018
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we were also married on a Friday the 13th but in 1979, 3rd Halloween without and Tahnksgiving and Christmas are next to get through. Take care.

Susieq Level 7 Oct 29, 2018
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