Is anyone else scared to death to start over?
We start over many times throughout a life time,
Each substantial change of perspective is a new beginning Religion, relationship,address or country each brings it own challenges and blessings
I met Dan, fell in love and I'm starting all over again outside Albany,NY where I lived 35 years ago. Neither one of us are scared; we've yet to have a disagreement nor an argument.
I’ve started over many times, most drastically. I was in financial services as a mortgage broker, realtor, securities dealer and just for good measure I was licensed for life health and variable annuity and through notary just to top it off. Wasn’t happy so when I found out that my wife had a boyfriend I stopped getting haircuts, got a tattoo and a divorce and took a year off before taking a job in a music store. It was not scary perhaps because it felt like it was the best path forward (mentally) and I never looked back. I never want to do a job I hate just because the money is better... I left the rat race!
My husband died ten months ago. I can't get motivated to start anything.
no problem...years before I 100% came through my wife death... …
@seattlepanda , thanks Panda. I'm beginning to think I'm never going to get through this.
@freeofgod ...I know... but you will...
Thats a very good nickname i like it
Pam...
You're not starting over... you're moving on. There is no "start over" button. At 49 you're at "halftime".
2 more quarters to play!!!!
I used to be, but then my fiancé & I broke up, I quit my job, sold my house and everything in it, and moved from NY to Alaska with my cat and everything I owned in a 2005 Corolla. Scared? You bet. It was completely worth it though as I look at the ways my life has improved and expanded over the last 4+ years. So being scared isn’t the bad part to me. Using fears as a reason not to do something is what I try to avoid. Based on my experience, I say it’s fine to be scared and do things anyway.
Amazing story and what sort of business did you create there? I was just there this summer, will you winter there as well?
@Bigwavedave I’m a photographer and in the process of opening my own art gallery/gift shop. I live in Skagway all year- most people don’t.
Not scared. Just wish the right person would come along so I can stop this dance. It was fun in the twenties thirties and forties it's not fun now.
Starting over for me, there are around 7 billion people on this planet, half of them are of the opposite gender, that other half is dateable in my eyes, maybe not everyone but that's 3 and a half billion females in my case. Somewhere out there is a mate for me exists! Never give up the search someone is out there waiting for you to show up in there life and you will know when they come along!