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Is anyone else scared to death to start over?

pamb68 5 Aug 31
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No. I've picked up and moved several times. Usually it was because I needed a new chalange. When my job stopped teaching me anything new it was time to move.

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We start over many times throughout a life time,

Each substantial change of perspective is a new beginning Religion, relationship,address or country each brings it own challenges and blessings

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Been there and done that quite a few times!!! Some people accuse me of self destruction just so I can experience the uncertainty and fun of starting over 😉

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Change is rarely easy and often disconcerting.

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Yes, but the other options aren't great, are they?

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Hell no. I start over all of the time. Nothing will defeat me except the grim reaper.

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Just look at it as another opportunity to reinvent yourself! Think positive, have fun...

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Nothing worthwhile is easy.

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I met Dan, fell in love and I'm starting all over again outside Albany,NY where I lived 35 years ago. Neither one of us are scared; we've yet to have a disagreement nor an argument.

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I’ve started over many times, most drastically. I was in financial services as a mortgage broker, realtor, securities dealer and just for good measure I was licensed for life health and variable annuity and through notary just to top it off. Wasn’t happy so when I found out that my wife had a boyfriend I stopped getting haircuts, got a tattoo and a divorce and took a year off before taking a job in a music store. It was not scary perhaps because it felt like it was the best path forward (mentally) and I never looked back. I never want to do a job I hate just because the money is better... I left the rat race!

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I think the unknown is a pretty scary place for everyone. Life does go on however, so just take it day by day.

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Not really, I have done it many times before. It is daunting, and I may not want to do it, but fear is not the problem

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My husband died ten months ago. I can't get motivated to start anything.

no problem...years before I 100% came through my wife death... …

@seattlepanda , thanks Panda. I'm beginning to think I'm never going to get through this.

@freeofgod ...I know... but you will...

Thats a very good nickname i like it

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Life is full of start overs. Humans started over leaving Africa many times. Start over.

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Pam...
You're not starting over... you're moving on. There is no "start over" button. At 49 you're at "halftime".
2 more quarters to play!!!!

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I used to be, but then my fiancé & I broke up, I quit my job, sold my house and everything in it, and moved from NY to Alaska with my cat and everything I owned in a 2005 Corolla. Scared? You bet. It was completely worth it though as I look at the ways my life has improved and expanded over the last 4+ years. So being scared isn’t the bad part to me. Using fears as a reason not to do something is what I try to avoid. Based on my experience, I say it’s fine to be scared and do things anyway.

Amazing story and what sort of business did you create there? I was just there this summer, will you winter there as well?

@Bigwavedave I’m a photographer and in the process of opening my own art gallery/gift shop. I live in Skagway all year- most people don’t.

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Not scared. Just wish the right person would come along so I can stop this dance. It was fun in the twenties thirties and forties it's not fun now.

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Starting over for me, there are around 7 billion people on this planet, half of them are of the opposite gender, that other half is dateable in my eyes, maybe not everyone but that's 3 and a half billion females in my case. Somewhere out there is a mate for me exists! Never give up the search someone is out there waiting for you to show up in there life and you will know when they come along!

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Yep it sucks everytime

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