When I was growing up in Haiti, I wanted a doctor husband who was a childhood friend, 2.5 kids, a white farmhouse with rose bushes and a garden, several horses, being a university literature prof, then a teacher in a tropical country, similar to Haiti.
Got all of them.
Along the way, I changed my mind, though, and ditched the doctor. He's still a friend, though.
I also found out I don't do well trying to play the part of a wife. Or being a typical woman at all.
In fact, now I don't identify with either gender, and consider myself nonbinary, I don't even know my sexual orientation, being demisexual (only attracted to one person at a time, and only after a protracted relationship of over a year).
I think all genders are beautiful..I just don't feel lust.
But I can fall in love with anything, being "panromantic."
Yeah, until 2014, I didn't even know what a partial transmale, panromantic, demisexual, androgyne, or nonbinary person was, but now I know "I are one."
To be fully me, and be happy. I am fast approaching 70, and i have it now!
From the time I was about 8 and saw my adult cousin drive into my grandmother's yard on his Harley I had always wanted one for myself. But they were so "expensive" that I thought it would never happen. So I owned all kinds of Japanese bikes over the years, and finally, around 14 years ago, when they were REALLY starting to get expensive, I bought a used HD Ultra Classic. Had three of them and now have my favorite of all time, a 2000 Road King! It will be my last!
@ScienceBiker I know what you mean about Harley Davidson. A couple of years ago I test rode the Indian Vintage. Love that bike. But at $25,000 it was out of my league. Same goes for a new Harley. I love my 2000 RoadKing, and it only has 31,000 miles on it, so I think it will last me. And in 7 years it will be considered an antique! Just like me! P.S. We entered the UBM bike show today, and while neither of us won a trophy for the bikes, I DID win a small trophy. For the oldest biker! Haha!!
To go to Australia, see where I was born and meet my family. Yes, did it, left a beautiful man for it though.
Yeah, I got it, had it, relish it....as a teen had this dream of making love with a beautiful woman...I did, for 53 years + before she passed away...yeah, I got it, had it, relish it...
Aside from astounding monetary wealth....
Yes. I've ended up pretty much where I wanted to be.
I'm getting what I want. A career. I'm going back to college.
to live alone in the amazon jungle,no never will
As a child/teenager I wanted a horse of my own. My father made a business deal with the farm I rode at -Broken Wheel Ranch and I had a green pinto for a short time. Never got to ride him though.
With time... i think ive gotten everything i wanted. I still got a few years left to get the rest.