I always put on my profile if you are married or separated please do not come near m. Don't go out with married men.

Online communication is fraught with pitfalls across the board, but it's dangerous -- and heartbreaking -- when wishful thinking/hopes/longings are involved. Just be alert and question anything that appears out of line.

Check all his social media accounts to see who else is in the photos. FaceTime or call him at random times to see if he’s comfortable when he’s not controlling when you connect. Ditto @BrainyActress ‘ comment about whether you can spend time at his house.

I'm married. I don't know.

Ask about other relationships he may be involved with. If he is local but can't meet except at midnight ...Red Flag....

Ask for his home phone and address. Ask for the name of the company he works for and where it’s located. Ask him if he’s married because you want to check on that which will cost some money and will he agree to pay that bill iif they find he is married or has SO.

I find most men just tell me. Or I just ask. Having said that, there have been a few that seemed to be trying to tell me what they thought I wanted to hear. ? Just be honest, right? Maybe I’ll agree, maybe I won’t but I’mma find out eventually and playing me will 100% make that scene worse for you.

I find most men just tell me. Or I just ask. Having said that, there have been a few that seemed to be trying to tell me what they thought I wanted to hear. ? Just be honest, right? Maybe I’ll agree, maybe I won’t but I’mma find out eventually and playing me will 100% make that scene worse for you.

That sucks. My partner and I practice open, transparent polyamory. It’s literally the first conversation I have with anyone I’m considering dating.

No face pics and no or minimal profile.

Sadly, this is probably a problem across the world of relationships as a whole. It used to be easier to detect when someone was out of touch during traditional "be at home" times but now texting gives easy 24/7 contact. There's always the thorough Google search to fall back on, as well as seeing them in their home/work environment. But I think it's always going to be a leap of faith in someone's honesty.

Ever since Ashley Madison and the whole polyamory thing...I have found that most married men are up front about it. They usually only post pics of part of their face or no pic at all. If in doubt, ask immediately. Sure, they may lie....lying seems to be a thing....with single and married men. sigh

Yes this is exactly true, i think one is not willing to meet or phone, and is evasive on the Marriage question. But its all gamble really

If they are married, they are probably just looking for a fast something on the side. You can probably rule them out the way you rule out other booty call seekers

evasive about home and work life

No pictures