Someone who is trustworthy and reliable - if he says he will do something, he follows through. Someone who respects himself and respects others. Someone who is kind of eccentric.

Intellect, adventurous spirit, great kisser, excellent communication skills. After that it's all icing on the cake.

As I mentioned in my profile; commonalities in several areas (emotional stability, intelligence - the more the better, concern for health, open-mindedness and financial stability). This takes time and getting to know another. I really try not to be taken in for the useless chemistry attraction. This wears off fast and is not a good indicator of a lasting relationship.

Confidence is incredibly sexy!

Looks- it depends on the person. I normally go for tall with dark hair and sexy eyes. However, those aren't set in stone.

Attitude-I like a little bit of "bad", but not too much. I like a masculine man...not macho, but not effeminate. I like them flirtatious.

First and foremost - her good heart, which is far more important than her appearance. Her acceptance of me for who I am and despite my flaws makes her more genuine and potentially worth a lifetime investment of my time and my heart.

Intelligence, chemistry, honesty.

I don't know about women but no matter what any dude here tries to bullshit the ladies with if you're straight it's about ass and tittie's ? and if you fall in love you learn to go down town like a lesbian and never cheat on her even though you always looking

What a loaded question! Looks initially. Age compatibility. Height. Then, when discussion starts...commonality.

Their intellect first, their smile and their kindness. I could never be with someone that could not think and who I thought was mean.

Empathy is a big, big draw for me. So many people are entirely lacking in it. Beyond that, intelligence, humor, a nice beard and good forearms and shoulders

It used to be beer, now I don't drink. I'm sober therefore I'm single.

Smart pretty centered likes old guys

First, there has to be a physical attraction. I'm a sucker for eyes. I don't expect a Barbie doll, but if I don't feel an attraction, what's the point. Second, a mutually similar personality. I tend to have a warped sense of humor and can't be in a relationship with someone that doesn't get it. Third, I can't deal with a needy woman. This one is hard to explain, I don't mind taking care of a woman, I actually enjoy it, it gives me an ego boost when I can do something for a woman that is my other half, but that being said, if I have to take care of everything in her life, then I call that needy.

Uncommonly high intelligence.

There's something about a man with confidence that I find extremely attractive

For me - it's the combination and melding of significant traits, and how they relate to me that are important. Just as important - is also how mine relates to hers. Every possible combination (of relationships) is unique - as the variables (traits) can approach infinity. While pure physical attributes are important, it's the combination of physical with the mental and spiritual that are qualifyingly important. Take age for example - many women my age have physical impediments that would make hiking at high elevations nearly impossible. Enjoying the high country (from 10,000 to 14,000 feet of elevation) over sometimes rough and trail-less mountainside) is of importance to me. Even younger women may be similarly handicapped. On the other hand, women in their younger 60s - who more likely fit the physical requirements to be compatible with me - may not feel comfortable cavorting with a guy roughly 20 years their senior. Differences that may be cultural, intellectual, mental, political, or of just plain interests, etc., would/could complicate things - or beautify them. However, probably of greatest importance, because of those multiple trait similarities/differences, may be a pure ability to work out situations, willingly, one with the other. And doing it with humor, sensitivity and patience. Being able to giggle and laugh in all of the expected ups and downs can result in putting "frosting on the cake." And yet, pure simplicity may be the actual key to relationship success. Some call the result of all these possible interactions - love! Personally, I'm open to love - in all of its manifestations. Who knows?

1. When a woman shows interest in me!
2. Eyes
3. Ass
4. Face

Obviously the two will never meet if in one question they are women, in the other ladies.

Integrity, confidence, humility, a sense of humor, kindness. Beyond that, someone who "gets" me and I "get" them -- I don't have any illusions of knowing this when we first meet or haven't gotten to know each other enough yet, but there at least has to be something about them that compels me to want to keep knowing more.

What draws me to a woman almost everything. I almost absolutely love them except for very mean negative women.

First, we all have to admit is looks, than for me it is humor, intellect and common interests and if we are compatible sexually, and do have the same political and religious views.

While bewbs are nice they aren't the end all be all... I think an attractive woman for me is someone who is nice and is willing to geek out with me once in awhile. They don't have to like the same things I like. But I find it attractive when a woman goes out of her way to ask me about how I feel about something. Or takes an interest in something I like. Anime for example... she may not like it but if shes willing to take the time to either ask why i like it or what I like about it... well it shows me that she at least cares enough to step out of her comfort zone and come down to my level to try to get to know me better... which says that she has an open mind and is willing to try and learn new things.

I appreciate the fact that she may be out of her element and that shes trying to either make the best of a situation or maybe shes trying to see if i measure up to her wavelength... either way it takes guts... and that deserves some brownie points and possibly a nice dinner.

I always look at their eyes and teeth. I don't know why? A sense of humor has always been the one thing I want.

The attempt to make a connection through understanding via verbal exchanges and logical foundations of the relationship being established