I have a dilemma:
- Part of me wants to be alone as right now I am just sick of men and want a break. I am also a very busy full time single mom with almost no time.
- Im 39 and sexually frustrated alot. Ive never been good at masturbating and really just want to have sex alot. So Im pent up.
- The idea of a fuck buddy disgusts me as one of the reason Im sick of men is that they put no effort into me at all and make me feel like a piece of shit so that eventually I am sick of even trying at all no matter how lonely I am. So the idea of a fuck buddy completely turns me off.
- Time is short and passes fast and I don't want to waste my life being sexually frustrated and not enjoying sex and intimacy.
Is there a solution here??? lol Am I the only one in this boat??
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.I sympathize. Masterbation falls short of satisfaction. A sex worker doesn't interest me. Perhaps a friend with benefits; someone with whom I could have a relationship would be nice. I think the sparks die after a couple of years with anyone, so I don't expect a forever sexual relationship, which make most sense when a couple have children. I had three stepfathers; two of them abused me. Though I am a stepfather; I feel children are better off poor than abused.
EdEarl
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June 18, 2019
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You are definitely not alone! I'm pretty sick of men myself. I'd be happy with a FWB but most men don't want to be friends, they just want the benefits. I tried the "just sex" route but I can't do it. Maybe a gigolo? A professional cuddler?
Wildflower
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June 18, 2019
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hmm id worry about stds. looks like abstinence may be the best route with a vibrator after all...
Sex is one of the most amazing things we can do for ourself, and our partner. We have all heard that sex is 99% mental. You should try and rid yourself of the negative thoughts, and just enjoy yourself with or without a partner. Find time to make this happen. There are a lot of awesome people just like you that just need connect.
LazyLarry
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June 18, 2019
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