what do y'all think of this remark?

mooredolezal comments on Aug 10, 2019:

I don't see any religious aspect to this response. First of all he is nonsensical, stating that he "holds value in a women" and then the next sentence, "they hold no value to me". In addition to his grammatical ineptitude, he is excusing the fact that he cannot get laid by placing the blame on ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 11, 2019:

@mooredolezal I dislike the cold weather and the windyness soo the weather/climate sucks and there are areas of improvement necessary but overall still better than the USA. Sadly, we have a conservaturd in power at the moment and he is making neoliberal cuts wherever he can... cannot wait till his dumbass is voted out

I guess sleep just doesn't like me anymore

IamNobody comments on Aug 10, 2019:

Get a bad book...two pages tops, you're out 😁😁

demifeministgal replies on Aug 10, 2019:

@Huskygirl4ever I have heard/read that writing down everything that is running through your mind half an hour or hour before bed is supposed to help with that. I am not sure myself as I have gone the sleeping pill route, but it is worth a try

I bet most folks with an allergy have a story a little similar to this one - but this woman's ...

demifeministgal comments on Aug 9, 2019:

My grandparents took some time to acknowledge my sisters' allergies... luckily hers were not fatal just caused upset stomach and restroom issues... but my granny would sneak in or encourage my sister to eat foods she had an intolerance or allergy to until very recently. :/ I don't know why old ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 10, 2019:

@AncientNight I would say it's a combination of old and uneducated on my grandparents' parts both of whom are older than you btw ;)

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MrBeelzeebubbles comments on Aug 10, 2019:

Oooh, I've had fun with the joy that is Veteran229 before. Isn't he a charmer? Haven't seen this level of misogynistic nastiness before, though. I wouldn't say religious, per se. Dogmatic, narcissistic, lacking in empathy skills, fearful and a perfect exemplar of the Dunning-Krueger effect, for ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 10, 2019:

IT went worse one time we were debating and he was OBVIOUSLY outwitted and losing so he proceeded to tell me my shelf-life as a woman was coming up and I better get a man as quick as possible because in 7 years time I will become invisible and undesirable to men. because, ya know, womens' value lies solely in our fuckability yet also, as seen here, our chastity as well. fckng douchebro he is

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kasmian comments on Aug 9, 2019:

The world is full of assholes... If you engage him, give him facts and nothing else emotionally based, otherwise let him talk all he wants... I believe there's an American expression that fits this situation... "digging his own grave" is it?

demifeministgal replies on Aug 10, 2019:

@kasmian It is emotional for sure.... my point was one can be logical and pissed off at the same time... I can provide definitions, provide evidence/date, spell facts, and still tell a sexist fcker to fck off while doing so. The logic is not erased or made null and void just because some emotion is peppered in. ;)

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mooredolezal comments on Aug 10, 2019:

I don't see any religious aspect to this response. First of all he is nonsensical, stating that he "holds value in a women" and then the next sentence, "they hold no value to me". In addition to his grammatical ineptitude, he is excusing the fact that he cannot get laid by placing the blame on ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 10, 2019:

LOL I live in Ontario and wow I've never actually read the tattoos on his fingers :O Didn't know they spelled that out! good eye!

what do y'all think of this remark?

Cherie4444 comments on Aug 10, 2019:

I’ve run into him. 🙄

demifeministgal replies on Aug 10, 2019:

I am sorry you and I have shared that unfortunate experience... *hugs*

Any woman who has had to deal with an insufferable twat who could not accept rejection without ...

ldheinz comments on Aug 10, 2019:

Men deserve the right to not be interested as well.

demifeministgal replies on Aug 10, 2019:

Yes except women tend to internalize rejection and men will become aggressive or violent with rejection. Look into the statistical trends: who is doing the killing and abuse for being rejected? Primarily men. It is not an equal thing yet.

I was watching a report on racism at the UK football/ soccer matches and they also said that ...

demifeministgal comments on Aug 10, 2019:

I would say it is a combination of unconscious (or conscious) biases, othering, and plain old bigotry... I am not sure there is any evidence or data to support that your average everyday human is trying to use hate to thin out the herd to horde or conserve resources... For those that are interested,...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 10, 2019:

@girlwithsmiles I honestly don't know if most people are that deep and think that wide... I wonder if most just care about their immediate families and communities and do not look at the world at a global scale. I mean we've had this tribalism long before we were an overpopulated planet... perhaps it is an evolutionary trait we developed? And it is manifesting itself in ugly bigotted ways these days.

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kasmian comments on Aug 9, 2019:

The world is full of assholes... If you engage him, give him facts and nothing else emotionally based, otherwise let him talk all he wants... I believe there's an American expression that fits this situation... "digging his own grave" is it?

demifeministgal replies on Aug 10, 2019:

@kasmian meh I can be factual and logical and emotional aka pissed off... men do it all the time, so I will as well. That's the socially acceptable emotion for men to display after all anger and/or aggression.

what do y'all think of this remark?

freeofgod comments on Aug 9, 2019:

WTF? On this site??

demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:

Unfortunately yes... in response to a post I made in the General and Hello's section

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MizJ comments on Aug 9, 2019:

Puritanical, misogynistic, and likely poorly endowed.

demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:

@kasmian not buzzwords he is misogynistic or at least espouses misogynistic opinions... he told me my value would disappear when I am in my 30s because that is when women lose our value (aka he does not find em fuckable anymore) and that I need to grab a man quick before none will look at me anymore. I mean if that ain't some type of sexist nonsense, then what is?!

Any woman who has had to deal with an insufferable twat who could not accept rejection without ...

Archeus_Lore comments on Aug 9, 2019:

This can work both ways too . . . women often will say they have the right to change their mind, but when a guy changes his mind, some of them are not so gracious.

demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:

@Archeus_Lore I have not claimed what about the women?! or women experience this too! when men post about issues they face (ie male infant circumcision). Nice try

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motrubl4u comments on Aug 9, 2019:

He's a prick. Ignore him. Little man syndrome.

demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:

It is a genuine hatred of women from all of the comments I have had the displeasure of receiving from him about women... we are nothing more than fleshlights to him or wet holes as he would put it.... yet HE is the true one to value women here, especially the women that do not value themselves! haaa! He wouldn't know how to value any human, let alone a woman.

Any woman who has had to deal with an insufferable twat who could not accept rejection without ...

Archeus_Lore comments on Aug 9, 2019:

This can work both ways too . . . women often will say they have the right to change their mind, but when a guy changes his mind, some of them are not so gracious.

demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:

@Archeus_Lore As was yours, if we are being honest. if you want to have discussions about men and their issues, why not bring them up on their own. Why ONLY bring them up when women are talking about womens issues?? Think about it to yourself... some introspection on your part is necessary here.

what do y'all think of this remark?

kasmian comments on Aug 9, 2019:

The world is full of assholes... If you engage him, give him facts and nothing else emotionally based, otherwise let him talk all he wants... I believe there's an American expression that fits this situation... "digging his own grave" is it?

demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:

But if you provide them with facts and nothing emotional but he refuses to click on links or read replies that are too long, what is the point? I just blocked him cuz he was like a preacher repeating what he believed to be facts or his own reality and ignoring the *actual reality or facts because it went against his confirmation biases. His cognitive dissonance was impenetrable!

Any woman who has had to deal with an insufferable twat who could not accept rejection without ...

Archeus_Lore comments on Aug 9, 2019:

This can work both ways too . . . women often will say they have the right to change their mind, but when a guy changes his mind, some of them are not so gracious.

demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:

mmkay but I am talking about men that cannot handle rejection atm... you can make a post about women if you'd rather talk about that

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Cutiebeauty comments on Aug 9, 2019:

That sounds like veteran...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:

@Buttercup can't name names so this post doesn't get removed but y'all have keen eyes ;)

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Cutiebeauty comments on Aug 9, 2019:

That sounds like veteran...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:

;) it does, doesn't it

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Wildflower comments on Aug 9, 2019:

That is an incel. It doesn't matter if he has internalized religious shaming or is just a conservative neanderthal. No progress will happen with a guy like this. What group was this in?

demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:

He's a member of agnostic but I am not sure which groups he is in... it was under my post in general and hellos

I bet most folks with an allergy have a story a little similar to this one - but this woman's ...

demifeministgal comments on Aug 9, 2019:

My grandparents took some time to acknowledge my sisters' allergies... luckily hers were not fatal just caused upset stomach and restroom issues... but my granny would sneak in or encourage my sister to eat foods she had an intolerance or allergy to until very recently. :/ I don't know why old ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:

@RavenCT my granny doesn't use google though my grandpa does... when I said lack of education I meant they were farmers and got at best a gr8 to early high school education.

Reminder for the butthurt out there and/or the buddies of the butthurt out there, yea rejection ...

Cherie4444 comments on Aug 9, 2019:

I actually had some guy on here tell me, on calling him out for sending me nudes, “You didn’t tell me not to”. Seriously. 🙄

demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:

what a fcking copout... shuda sent him some disturbing stock nudes back or some disgusting image back and been like hey... you didn't tell me not to! sometimes these pricks need a taste of their own medicine

Any woman who has had to deal with an insufferable twat who could not accept rejection without ...

NoPlanetB comments on Aug 9, 2019:

You could just as well said "all" women in this instance because... yeah, all women have experienced this.

demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:

I cannot ever say all men or all women anything cuz then the butthurt pissy people come out and yell notallmen/notallwomen at me and miss the point completely. -_-

Question: For both guys and gals - Do you prefer a circumcised penis or uncircumcised penis?

Dancing comments on Aug 8, 2019:

I've never seen an uncut penis in person. I wouldn't mind trying one out.

demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:

Come to Canada or go to south america or other countries with low circumcision rates XD

Question: For both guys and gals - Do you prefer a circumcised penis or uncircumcised penis?

Stephanie99 comments on Aug 9, 2019:

I prefer uncircumcised. It's more common in Canada where I had most of my experience. Really, once it's hard you can hardly tell the difference.

demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:

I didn't realize cut men were more common in the USA than in Canada.... but after reading that list a member here provided, our circumcision rate is rather low... and with all of our immigrants here, even lower.

Question: For both guys and gals - Do you prefer a circumcised penis or uncircumcised penis?

bobwjr comments on Aug 9, 2019:

Circumcised is cleaner

demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:

That is a common myth... as long as a boy is taught proper hygiene and applies it in adulthood, both cut and uncut are clean.

Just so you know...

AnonySchmoose comments on Aug 9, 2019:

Cute, but too many cookies.

demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:

blasphemy! One can never have too many cookies! *sarcasm

Dave's 6 Vital Relationship Concerns 20190807_0627 1.

brainyactress comments on Aug 8, 2019:

Sounds.... very... methodical.

demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:

Often times the methodical or practical approaches to love can produce the longest lasting unions.... worth a try for those that rely purely on hormones and attraction ;) :p

I read somewhere online that most of the mass shooters were fatherless.

Archeus_Lore comments on Aug 8, 2019:

My father was a conservate jackass, he was always going on and on about how family was important, bla, bla, bla, but he was one of the most destructive when it came to anything you would expect out of a real family, fucking chester the child molester, abusive, egotistical, it was all so fucking ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 8, 2019:

Had the same minus the molester part but a sanctimonious holier than thou type who made fun of me for helping the homeless and disadvantaged in the city.... a truly "loving christian" he was/is... if anything did us a favour by leaving tbh

I read somewhere online that most of the mass shooters were fatherless.

Lilac-JadeCanada comments on Aug 8, 2019:

BS.

demifeministgal replies on Aug 8, 2019:

BS that it is a lie?? :S So you think fatherlessness is the cause? :s

Question: For both guys and gals - Do you prefer your partner shaved, sculpted, trimmed, or all ...

demifeministgal comments on Aug 7, 2019:

Shaved or at least trimmed. :) Not sure what you mean by sculpted... LOL

demifeministgal replies on Aug 7, 2019:

@Our_existence you seem like the expert... will have to take your word for it! XD

A lot of people here have arrived from religious backgrounds so I was wondering what your feelings ...

UpsideDownAgain comments on Aug 7, 2019:

In an ideal world men and women would make wise choices and avoid unwanted pregnancies. No one wants an abortion if they can avoid it. It costs money and hurts, not to mention puts women at risk for complications like any medical procedure. When women are seeking abortions, it's because it's their ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 7, 2019:

@UpsideDownAgain I do not know what outdated sources you gather your mis-information from, but allow me to provide you with up-to-date factual science: ""What we can say about the fetal nervous system is that based on the best science we have" on the neurons that carry pain signals is that the "system isn't developed until the third trimester of pregnancy," Davis told Live Science.... researchers highlighted several key points in fetal development that are required in order for a fetus to perceive pain. One is that the receptors in the skin that sense an injury must be developed. Research has shown that this happens between 7.5 and 15 weeks of pregnancy, depending on the location of the receptors on the body, according to the review. For example, receptors in the skin around the mouth develop at around 7.5 weeks, whereas receptors in the skin on the abdomen develop at around 15 weeks, according to the review. Second, the neurons in the spinal cord that transmit that signal up to the brain must be developed. Researchers who looked at fetal tissues reported that this happens at around 19 weeks, the review said. Third, the neurons that extend from the spinal cord into the brain need to reach all the way to the area of the brain where pain is perceived. This does not occur until between 23 and 24 weeks, according to the review. Moreover, the nerves' existence isn't enough to produce the experience of pain, the authors wrote in their review. Rather, "These anatomical structures must also be functional," the authors wrote. It's not until around 30 weeks that there is evidence of brain activity that suggests the fetus is "awake." Davis noted that while these time frames aren't exact — some fetuses may develop a little earlier, and some fetuses may develop a little later — "there isn't any science to suggest that those pathways [for pain] are complete around the 20th week" of pregnancy. " https://www.livescience.com/54774-fetal-pain-anesthesia.html

A lot of people here have arrived from religious backgrounds so I was wondering what your feelings ...

St-Sinner comments on Aug 7, 2019:

ABORTION IS TAKEN LIGHTLY IN THE NEW WOMEN'S LIB ARA 1. It is a woman's right with legal restrictions 2. This woman's right comes with a responsibility 3. Motherhood has very high sanctity 4. Therefore, pregnancy cannot be taken lightly 5. Second trimester abortion should not be allowed. 6. ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 7, 2019:

@St-Sinner OR rather, you refuse to address the hypothetical question as it is put forth to you because you refuse to be honest with yourself. Fair enough.

A lot of people here have arrived from religious backgrounds so I was wondering what your feelings ...

St-Sinner comments on Aug 7, 2019:

ABORTION IS TAKEN LIGHTLY IN THE NEW WOMEN'S LIB ARA 1. It is a woman's right with legal restrictions 2. This woman's right comes with a responsibility 3. Motherhood has very high sanctity 4. Therefore, pregnancy cannot be taken lightly 5. Second trimester abortion should not be allowed. 6. ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 7, 2019:

@St-Sinner Deflecting.... no such thing as a false choice.

A lot of people here have arrived from religious backgrounds so I was wondering what your feelings ...

St-Sinner comments on Aug 7, 2019:

ABORTION IS TAKEN LIGHTLY IN THE NEW WOMEN'S LIB ARA 1. It is a woman's right with legal restrictions 2. This woman's right comes with a responsibility 3. Motherhood has very high sanctity 4. Therefore, pregnancy cannot be taken lightly 5. Second trimester abortion should not be allowed. 6. ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 7, 2019:

@St-Sinner Consider this thought experiment.... if you are honest with yourself, you would choose the baby... no alternative options, either one or the other!

A lot of people here have arrived from religious backgrounds so I was wondering what your feelings ...

St-Sinner comments on Aug 7, 2019:

ABORTION IS TAKEN LIGHTLY IN THE NEW WOMEN'S LIB ARA 1. It is a woman's right with legal restrictions 2. This woman's right comes with a responsibility 3. Motherhood has very high sanctity 4. Therefore, pregnancy cannot be taken lightly 5. Second trimester abortion should not be allowed. 6. ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 7, 2019:

@St-Sinner Any man I have sex will know about my decision to remain childFREE so, if he abandons his right to autonomy when it is feasible for a man, aka before pregnancy occurs, that is his fault. Any man who is anti-choice ("pro-life") and decides to have sex with me has nobody to blame but himself. But then, I have these grown up discussions with partners prior to having sex. Cannot speak for those with high sex drives and in the hookup culture/prone to getting drunk/high and having reckless sex.

A lot of people here have arrived from religious backgrounds so I was wondering what your feelings ...

St-Sinner comments on Aug 7, 2019:

ABORTION IS TAKEN LIGHTLY IN THE NEW WOMEN'S LIB ARA 1. It is a woman's right with legal restrictions 2. This woman's right comes with a responsibility 3. Motherhood has very high sanctity 4. Therefore, pregnancy cannot be taken lightly 5. Second trimester abortion should not be allowed. 6. ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 7, 2019:

@St-Sinner No, one day people will see the light and realize a woman's right to bodily autonomy matters and that we shall not grant special privileges to clumps of cells that we do not grant any other autonomous person. If a living person cannot use your body for survival against your will, than neither should a fetus be granted that right. Your special pleading fallacy is noted.

A lot of people here have arrived from religious backgrounds so I was wondering what your feelings ...

St-Sinner comments on Aug 7, 2019:

ABORTION IS TAKEN LIGHTLY IN THE NEW WOMEN'S LIB ARA 1. It is a woman's right with legal restrictions 2. This woman's right comes with a responsibility 3. Motherhood has very high sanctity 4. Therefore, pregnancy cannot be taken lightly 5. Second trimester abortion should not be allowed. 6. ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 7, 2019:

@St-Sinner Can cis-men get abortions? No. That is what I meant. You have no skin to lose in an abortion restriction.

A lot of people here have arrived from religious backgrounds so I was wondering what your feelings ...

St-Sinner comments on Aug 7, 2019:

ABORTION IS TAKEN LIGHTLY IN THE NEW WOMEN'S LIB ARA 1. It is a woman's right with legal restrictions 2. This woman's right comes with a responsibility 3. Motherhood has very high sanctity 4. Therefore, pregnancy cannot be taken lightly 5. Second trimester abortion should not be allowed. 6. ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 7, 2019:

@St-Sinner I am just glad we are in separate countries and my country allows unrestricted abortions... I would need to escape if I lived in bible belt Murica... yikes! strength to non-religious women stuck in that area. :/

A lot of people here have arrived from religious backgrounds so I was wondering what your feelings ...

St-Sinner comments on Aug 7, 2019:

ABORTION IS TAKEN LIGHTLY IN THE NEW WOMEN'S LIB ARA 1. It is a woman's right with legal restrictions 2. This woman's right comes with a responsibility 3. Motherhood has very high sanctity 4. Therefore, pregnancy cannot be taken lightly 5. Second trimester abortion should not be allowed. 6. ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 7, 2019:

@St-Sinner Nope. You have no skin in the process. So it is easy for YOU to say to put all abortions on hold, you stand to lose nothing. A pregnancy can and often does negatively impact a woman's health and can lead to the death of each woman. Now if you were able to become pregnant yourself, your opinion may change.

A lot of people here have arrived from religious backgrounds so I was wondering what your feelings ...

St-Sinner comments on Aug 7, 2019:

ABORTION IS TAKEN LIGHTLY IN THE NEW WOMEN'S LIB ARA 1. It is a woman's right with legal restrictions 2. This woman's right comes with a responsibility 3. Motherhood has very high sanctity 4. Therefore, pregnancy cannot be taken lightly 5. Second trimester abortion should not be allowed. 6. ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 7, 2019:

@St-Sinner The medical community does not agree with you though. If a person on life support with a beating heart is deemed as clinically dead, why would a fetus with no brain or an underdeveloped brain, be considered a living person? This thought of life beginning with a heartbeat is not accepted in the medical field because they unplug the beating hearts of humans everyday when they are determined to have no thought. You do need a beating heart to have thought but a beating heart without thought is not a human that is the process of being - it's a biological mass with the potential to become a being.

A lot of people here have arrived from religious backgrounds so I was wondering what your feelings ...

St-Sinner comments on Aug 7, 2019:

ABORTION IS TAKEN LIGHTLY IN THE NEW WOMEN'S LIB ARA 1. It is a woman's right with legal restrictions 2. This woman's right comes with a responsibility 3. Motherhood has very high sanctity 4. Therefore, pregnancy cannot be taken lightly 5. Second trimester abortion should not be allowed. 6. ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 7, 2019:

@kodimerlyn Not to mention, scientists have managed to create beating hearts on their own. IF humans are nothing more than hearts, does that mean those engineered hearts cannot be killed? Not to mention, in the medical community, someone that is brain dead is considered legally dead. A fetus with no developed brain would not be a living person yet. I would say our personhood lies in our brains, not in our beating hearts. But good luck explaining that to a moronic Texan bible belter. heh

A lot of people here have arrived from religious backgrounds so I was wondering what your feelings ...

St-Sinner comments on Aug 7, 2019:

ABORTION IS TAKEN LIGHTLY IN THE NEW WOMEN'S LIB ARA 1. It is a woman's right with legal restrictions 2. This woman's right comes with a responsibility 3. Motherhood has very high sanctity 4. Therefore, pregnancy cannot be taken lightly 5. Second trimester abortion should not be allowed. 6. ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 7, 2019:

WHY does motherhood have "high sanctity"? Are you aware many women do not even know they are pregnant in the first trimester? And that a fetus cannot feel pain until the 3rd trimester anyways? What is your objection to 2nd trimester abortions based on? :s

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UpsideDownAgain comments on Aug 7, 2019:

In an ideal world men and women would make wise choices and avoid unwanted pregnancies. No one wants an abortion if they can avoid it. It costs money and hurts, not to mention puts women at risk for complications like any medical procedure. When women are seeking abortions, it's because it's their ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 7, 2019:

More comfortable for the fetus? What do you mean? :S Are you aware a fetus cannot feel pain until the end of the 2nd trimester or beginning of the 3rd trimester? And that the vast majority of abortions occur within the first trimesters of pregnancy?

[aol.] Good News! Cyntoia Brown released from Tennessee prison today after 15 years behind bars.

Cast1es comments on Aug 7, 2019:

How do they think a child abducted and sold into the sex trade business , should deal with her pedophile ? ? ? THey imprisoned the wrong person . She is owed much more than just her freedom .

demifeministgal replies on Aug 7, 2019:

she lost 15 years of her life in jail after losing goodness knows how many years of her life to sex trafficking... they should investigate the judge in that case see what ties he has to sex trafficking rings! :/ She is definitely owed financial compensation at the very least

The day my world changed.

ToolGuy comments on Aug 7, 2019:

Because with one of these I can have all of those — pointing to her crotch — that I want!

demifeministgal replies on Aug 7, 2019:

excluding the gay ones ;)

A lot of people here have arrived from religious backgrounds so I was wondering what your feelings ...

Besalbub comments on Aug 7, 2019:

I don't support abortion as a means of birth control but I do support a womans choice . I know one girl who had 3 abortions and she should have had her tubes tied , WTF . A fetus is potentially a human being . I'm proud of my daughter who has always been on the pill .

demifeministgal replies on Aug 7, 2019:

I would say almost nobody uses abortion as birth control... that is a religious and conservative talking point but has no basis in reality.

I've got this craving...

demifeministgal comments on Aug 4, 2019:

too many tattoos I dislike sleeves yugh

demifeministgal replies on Aug 6, 2019:

@Wildflower Ew.

Saw this and wondered other folks thoughts Dear cheater Do you know what your doing do you ...

brainyactress comments on Aug 4, 2019:

My goodness the “your”’s This suggests a person can’t love 2 or even more people and that’s nonsense. Cheating isn’t having more than one partner. It’s lying, withholding information, or breaking agreements without the other person’s consent. It’s trickery. One can have loads of...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 6, 2019:

@Residualspirit It means Too Long; Didn't Read

Here is a shout out to the police who helped shut down the Dayton shooter in under 30 seconds.

Cutiebeauty comments on Aug 5, 2019:

That's a pretty man... I like his arms...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 6, 2019:

LOL I thought the exact same thing about the arms XD

Update to my post about the crude customer saying he needs a pussy not a bag to a cashier: I've been...

St-Sinner comments on Aug 5, 2019:

Brick and Mortar stores are bending backwards to keep customers with the competition from Amazon etc. I have heard worse stories of what customers have said to female cashiers. Not to discourage you but my guess is your store will put customers above you. Sorry..

demifeministgal replies on Aug 6, 2019:

I am a customer not the cashier in question that was sexually harassed. And that makes me sad to read :(

Good phase, but I'm full of dread.

ToolGuy comments on Aug 6, 2019:

If you are on the road a lot alone, maybe listening to CDs on learning a new language could get your mind out of the darkness. Or listen to a novel.

demifeministgal replies on Aug 6, 2019:

Or listening to podcasts or listening to an audiobook or just youtube videos.

So some guy made an inappropriate comment to a cashier and I am wondering if it was his kink to make...

demifeministgal comments on Aug 2, 2019:

Update: I've been considering asking to speak with a manager and bringing up the incident and asking what their protocal is for sexual harassment leveraged at the female cashiers. And if the person flips it on me and says it is the customers' responsibility to report, making them feel like dumbasses...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 4, 2019:

@GreenAtheist not sure if ya do it is called dollarama heh

WTF, The minute that you say that you want someone to stay the night with you, completely ...

ArtzyNerd comments on Aug 2, 2019:

what do you mean nonsexual?

demifeministgal replies on Aug 4, 2019:

@Unclehotrod Maybe she sleeps best on her own? I know I can very rarely actually sleep with my FWBs cuz he snores so bloody damn loud and I cannot sleep with any noise outside of my white noise sounds. :$

So some guy made an inappropriate comment to a cashier and I am wondering if it was his kink to make...

demifeministgal comments on Aug 2, 2019:

Update: I've been considering asking to speak with a manager and bringing up the incident and asking what their protocal is for sexual harassment leveraged at the female cashiers. And if the person flips it on me and says it is the customers' responsibility to report, making them feel like dumbasses...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 4, 2019:

@GreenAtheist I am in Canada so republicans and dems do not impact me as much thanks for the advice nonetheless

Update to my post about the crude customer saying he needs a pussy not a bag to a cashier: I've been...

GreenAtheist comments on Aug 2, 2019:

Never let a dick slide threatening women....we can shame male entitlement into his solitary locker room or divorce court from the victim wives....poor cashier is probably married to a jerk not ambitious enough to train for a better job and support his family so she suffers at a shit job only to go ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 4, 2019:

that sounds too victim blamey for my tastes.... it is not like she is working as a sex worker where the odds of harassment are really high.,.. she's a cashier ffs and nobody working in the service industry (the majority of jobs in my province are in the service industry) deserves that kind of treatment.

Update to my post about the crude customer saying he needs a pussy not a bag to a cashier: I've been...

glennlab comments on Aug 2, 2019:

If you can do it without identifying the cashier, or the exact time you were there, go for it. You must be prepared to maintain masking the identity of the victim, if you can't or won't do that, you threaten that cashiers job. be discrete . Retaliation is a very real thing in the workplace even ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 4, 2019:

thanks so much for that tip I wouldn't want her to get fired for being harassed. Will have to keep that in mind for the future. fckng sexist society :/

HER STORY For those who turn up their noses at the words feminists and feminism or scoff that ...

Cast1es comments on Aug 4, 2019:

We've made progress , but like many other issues , they're still trying to take these advances away from us . And we've still got a long way to go . After my divorce , when I had been working for the Federal Government for over ten years , I was working at having some remodeling work done on my ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 4, 2019:

pffft too immature? That is putting it gently.. sounds like too sexist more like it.

So, I can't share on FB.

Lop-Eared-Mule comments on Aug 3, 2019:

Jeez..... who's the whore in this equation? I feel filthy just reading this. Ick

demifeministgal replies on Aug 3, 2019:

Then do not join a deviant's group if you have such delicate sensibilities... younger men/women fck older women/men all the damn time... it has been happening since ancient Greece... get over it you are are beyond dark ages... you are in some religiously restricted ages.

So some guy made an inappropriate comment to a cashier and I am wondering if it was his kink to make...

Cherie4444 comments on Aug 2, 2019:

I have a huge mouth and quick wit, I would’ve told him to buy a cat. Among other things.

demifeministgal replies on Aug 2, 2019:

I wish my wit was quicker or I had posted the exchange in real time for this community's feedback :$ All I managed to do was give him cut-eye and he was so full of himself I don't think he saw me :(

So some guy made an inappropriate comment to a cashier and I am wondering if it was his kink to make...

MB2000 comments on Aug 1, 2019:

Someone should have stuck up for her. Calling her boss may have made things worse. I have a sister who worked at McDonald's in her late teens. Two guys walked in and the first one told her "you look like you're ready to fuck". She looked at him and said (in true Fantana girl form), "I tell you what....

demifeministgal replies on Aug 1, 2019:

Her male coworker was just smirking to himself and trying to contain his laughter... I gave him cuteye too... most of the people in line were east asian so I am not sure their english was good enough to stand up for her (our top 10 recent immigrants here come from east asia).

So the post about a dog that isn't friendly and wanted to add a dog to her home was removed because ...

demifeministgal comments on Aug 1, 2019:

Well, your ego and pride were clearly hurt. What clique? Do you think the admin or mod of this group removed the post? :s Is it not just possible that the poster got all the advice she wanted/needed and was sick of notifications, so removed it? Why make a big thing over it as if she personally ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 1, 2019:

@Rufus_Maximus

So the post about a dog that isn't friendly and wanted to add a dog to her home was removed because ...

demifeministgal comments on Aug 1, 2019:

Well, your ego and pride were clearly hurt. What clique? Do you think the admin or mod of this group removed the post? :s Is it not just possible that the poster got all the advice she wanted/needed and was sick of notifications, so removed it? Why make a big thing over it as if she personally ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 1, 2019:

@K9Kohle789 well then you should either contact the mod of the group or the admins of agnostic... perhaps there is actually something wrong with your account if your comments keep disappearing.

So some guy made an inappropriate comment to a cashier and I am wondering if it was his kink to make...

rsb97080 comments on Aug 1, 2019:

Yeah that’s nowhere near funny, and in this day and age it could get you in trouble. I won’t even use my former standard line when I order an ice cream sundae anymore. Back when it passable to say such things, and I was more obnoxious than I am now, I’d tell the waitress that I wanted a ...

demifeministgal replies on Aug 1, 2019:

I would have disliked younger you than based on your jokes/methods of talking to young women alone. Glad to hear you have matured with age.

So some guy made an inappropriate comment to a cashier and I am wondering if it was his kink to make...

kasmian comments on Aug 1, 2019:

The world has assholes, who would have thought. Next time a witty response would fix the issue. Something like "With a face like that, it's clear you don't get any" or something.

demifeministgal replies on Aug 1, 2019:

I suck at thinking on the spot, so had no reply. just kept giving him cut eye over the aisle. :$

Question: Women - Do you still masturbate while in a relationship?

brainyactress comments on Jul 31, 2019:

Again, why wouldn’t you? Masturbation is not a placeholder for a partner. It serves many needs and purposes that have nothing to do with one’s relationship status.

demifeministgal replies on Aug 1, 2019:

@brainyactress seems like its being used for too many things and is like the substance of choice for the doer if they have an endless use for it.... careful not to become addicted to it, the way people become addicted to sex is my advice.

Question: Women - Do you still masturbate while in a relationship?

brainyactress comments on Jul 31, 2019:

Again, why wouldn’t you? Masturbation is not a placeholder for a partner. It serves many needs and purposes that have nothing to do with one’s relationship status.

demifeministgal replies on Aug 1, 2019:

Many needs and purposes?? Seems like it serves one need and one purpose tbh... unless one is using it for things it is not intended for :s

Dogs should be banned from stores except for certified, seeing-eye dogs.

David1955 comments on Jul 29, 2019:

Agreed and agreed and agreed and agreed. Dogs should be banned.......(period/ full stop) Yes I'm not a "dog person".

demifeministgal replies on Jul 31, 2019:

@David1955 So you are against those with PTSD or major anxiety/depression having support dogs in public places? :S

Totally agree with this.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 29, 2019:

So then, in your opinion boys raised by lesbian couples and girls raised by gay couples are being raised at a deficit? Would it be better if they were in the foster system or raised by abusive/neglectful hetero parents? Just something for you to ponder

demifeministgal replies on Jul 31, 2019:

@bigpawbullets You've never known of people raised in abusive/neglectful two parent, hetero envts?? Wow lucky you! :o

Question: Guys - Have you continued to masturbate while in a relationship?

Wildflower comments on Jul 30, 2019:

You?

demifeministgal replies on Jul 31, 2019:

@Our_existence It must come with living with one's partner(s). Living apart and seeing each other infrequently leads one or both parties to masturbation.

Question: Guys - Have you continued to masturbate while in a relationship?

Wildflower comments on Jul 30, 2019:

You?

demifeministgal replies on Jul 31, 2019:

@Our_existence you must have very frequent sex with partner(s) then XD

Dogs should be banned from stores except for certified, seeing-eye dogs.

Matias comments on Jul 29, 2019:

If dogs did not exist and I proposed to "invent" them: barking animals that sometimes kill or maim children and that poop everywhere... people would consider me crazy. I do not know whether the world would be a better place without religions, but it most certainly would be without dogs

demifeministgal replies on Jul 31, 2019:

The world would also be a better place without kids, the little obnoxious shrieking crying brats, yet low and behold we are forced to come across them everywhere we go. yughh

Dogs should be banned from stores except for certified, seeing-eye dogs.

David1955 comments on Jul 29, 2019:

Agreed and agreed and agreed and agreed. Dogs should be banned.......(period/ full stop) Yes I'm not a "dog person".

demifeministgal replies on Jul 31, 2019:

@David1955 And service dogs for people with seizures and with diabetes (who also get seizures) do they get exceptions too?

Here for it! malesexobject [geekxgirls.com]

FlippantLlama comments on Jul 28, 2019:

My favorite is Dr. Strange! Ty for sharing 😊

demifeministgal replies on Jul 29, 2019:

black panther for me :)

I REALLY need to ask this question.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 26, 2019:

soo there is a fckd up power dynamic at play here: not only can minors not consent to sex with an adult (statutory rape) but the position of power and authority the teacher has over them makes consent very problematic too. I would say today's boys are FINALLY being taught about consent and their ...

demifeministgal replies on Jul 27, 2019:

I do not have an "open mind" to criminal offenses, especially ones that involve minors or exploiting one's power over another in a predatory manner. yuck

Tibetan Mastiff. The world's largest dog. (According to the picture)

demifeministgal comments on Jul 26, 2019:

He's such a big guy... how does one control such a dog if it chooses to bolt or sprint away somewhere? :s

demifeministgal replies on Jul 26, 2019:

@Antidronefreeman ahh I see. Cool

Tibetan Mastiff. The world's largest dog. (According to the picture)

demifeministgal comments on Jul 26, 2019:

He's such a big guy... how does one control such a dog if it chooses to bolt or sprint away somewhere? :s

demifeministgal replies on Jul 26, 2019:

@Antidronefreeman so I guess they are never taken on walks then?

I REALLY need to ask this question.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 26, 2019:

soo there is a fckd up power dynamic at play here: not only can minors not consent to sex with an adult (statutory rape) but the position of power and authority the teacher has over them makes consent very problematic too. I would say today's boys are FINALLY being taught about consent and their ...

demifeministgal replies on Jul 26, 2019:

@arizonajerry69 Also child abuse and pedophilia is DISGUSTING and deserves to be shamed and punished waaay more often than it is. There are actually cases of rape victims that orgasmed... it does NOT mean they actually enjoyed or consented to the rape, it is just a physiological response to the stimulation.

I REALLY need to ask this question.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 26, 2019:

soo there is a fckd up power dynamic at play here: not only can minors not consent to sex with an adult (statutory rape) but the position of power and authority the teacher has over them makes consent very problematic too. I would say today's boys are FINALLY being taught about consent and their ...

demifeministgal replies on Jul 26, 2019:

@arizonajerry69 okay I do not know why you are taking my comment so personally... it was not specifically directed at you but way to make it about you. :s

I just got laid off from my job. I'm reeling.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 26, 2019:

Hopefully you can use one of your bosses or coworkers as reference. Did they say why you were being laid off?

demifeministgal replies on Jul 26, 2019:

@Kynlei They should have told you upfront it was a contract style position and your job would only last until the catalog was completed... seems like a dishonest tactic or bait and switch type of situation, imo.

Did anyone else lose their virginity to a fellow virgin?

FlippantLlama comments on Jul 26, 2019:

I did 😊 He was my first love, and it was the first time for both of us.

demifeministgal replies on Jul 26, 2019:

Same! :)

I REALLY need to ask this question.

thinktwice comments on Jul 26, 2019:

Sorry--but they are boys...not capable of adult decision making and rationalization...which is why it is up to the adult to be responsible for her/his behavior... A boy seduced by a female teacher should report it...they have been properly taught by their parents even as they acted upon it due to...

demifeministgal replies on Jul 26, 2019:

The teacher is also a fckng predator and has no business being a teacher anymore with access to minors!

For those of you that are very intrinsically motivated (motivation comes internally), do you have ...

APaleBlueDot comments on Jul 24, 2019:

I had a little smile when you ask for a "shortcut" to intrinsic motivation. It feels like there's an oxymoron in there somewhere. If you strongly desire a particular outcome in a situation, then intrinsic motivation is easy. (how hard is it to decide to get up and go poop when you need to?)...

demifeministgal replies on Jul 26, 2019:

@APaleBlueDot I hate excercising? lol... I think if it were something I enjoyed like taking a dance class it'd be different... but just going to a gym to run or do situps or going for an idle run in a park does not appeal to me. :s

This is a post in response to another thread where someone was accused of being an ableist for ...

LiterateHiker comments on Jul 21, 2019:

Please post your question without naming me. Everyone has personal preferences. Just be kind to people. A man just messaged me saying I'm "a bit too slender and less curvy than I prefer. You're not my type." That was mean.

demifeministgal replies on Jul 25, 2019:

@LiterateHiker ooh okay. thanks for clarifying

For those of you that are very intrinsically motivated (motivation comes internally), do you have ...

GreenAtheist comments on Jul 24, 2019:

Best wishes building up your vocabulary of self actualization.....you're asking questions best intended for a mentor or study partner....someone who also enjoys wine scented candles and a lap sitting cat

demifeministgal replies on Jul 25, 2019:

@GreenAtheist I should get one of those large mellow doggies that are super chill like a golden retriever :)

He may be a bit too muscley, but what makes Terry Crews irresistible more than his body and perfect ...

Cutiebeauty comments on Jul 25, 2019:

I like muscles 😆😀

demifeministgal replies on Jul 25, 2019:

ME too. I like his arms... but abs are meh for me

This is a post in response to another thread where someone was accused of being an ableist for ...

LiterateHiker comments on Jul 21, 2019:

Please post your question without naming me. Everyone has personal preferences. Just be kind to people. A man just messaged me saying I'm "a bit too slender and less curvy than I prefer. You're not my type." That was mean.

demifeministgal replies on Jul 25, 2019:

@LiterateHiker I do not even see your name mentioned here. Until you outed yourself, I did not know he was talking about you! o.O Did the OP edit the post and remove your name? :s

Sometimes when your going through old hard drives (10 megs total size) you find things it was ...

demifeministgal comments on Jul 25, 2019:

real men like all body types, both big and small and everything in between.

demifeministgal replies on Jul 25, 2019:

@BitFlipper If someone made a comment about real women in the comment section, as they did here, then YES I would.

For those of you that are very intrinsically motivated (motivation comes internally), do you have ...

GreenAtheist comments on Jul 24, 2019:

Best wishes building up your vocabulary of self actualization.....you're asking questions best intended for a mentor or study partner....someone who also enjoys wine scented candles and a lap sitting cat

demifeministgal replies on Jul 25, 2019:

@GreenAtheist but those tend to be lil doggies and little doggies are more yappy and barky. I need a chill, lazy, relaxed dog I could vibe with lol

For those of you that are very intrinsically motivated (motivation comes internally), do you have ...

APaleBlueDot comments on Jul 24, 2019:

I had a little smile when you ask for a "shortcut" to intrinsic motivation. It feels like there's an oxymoron in there somewhere. If you strongly desire a particular outcome in a situation, then intrinsic motivation is easy. (how hard is it to decide to get up and go poop when you need to?)...

demifeministgal replies on Jul 25, 2019:

@APaleBlueDot I suppose short term would be purely superficial at this point but would make me feel better heh. Long term there would be benefits to my heart, my blood pressure, my digestion, my mental health and soo many other areas I would need to be concerned with as a senior.

My relatives, when they find out I'm an atheist:. "Do you worship the devil?

demifeministgal comments on Jul 24, 2019:

LMAO you call your relatives corn-fed?? ahh if I had the courage to call my fam members hicks.... maybe on their death beds XD

demifeministgal replies on Jul 25, 2019:

@Freedompath I thought the emoji at the end made it clear.... I should have used the other emoji :p

For those of you that are very intrinsically motivated (motivation comes internally), do you have ...

APaleBlueDot comments on Jul 24, 2019:

I had a little smile when you ask for a "shortcut" to intrinsic motivation. It feels like there's an oxymoron in there somewhere. If you strongly desire a particular outcome in a situation, then intrinsic motivation is easy. (how hard is it to decide to get up and go poop when you need to?)...

demifeministgal replies on Jul 25, 2019:

@APaleBlueDot I care because I suppose I should be excercising for my health, especially with the newfound weight gain :$ And because everyone, including the doc, keep recommending it. I am not obese or overweight, just gained significant weight in less than a year after not gaining much weight since after puberty.

My relatives, when they find out I'm an atheist:. "Do you worship the devil?

demifeministgal comments on Jul 24, 2019:

LMAO you call your relatives corn-fed?? ahh if I had the courage to call my fam members hicks.... maybe on their death beds XD

demifeministgal replies on Jul 25, 2019:

@Freedompath oh dear you took my joke there WAY TOO seriously.... to make this simple for you to understand me I was the most pleasant and accommodating to my narcissistic abusive controlling mother on her death bed... sooo I can extend it to the others as well.

For those of you that are very intrinsically motivated (motivation comes internally), do you have ...

GreenAtheist comments on Jul 24, 2019:

Best wishes building up your vocabulary of self actualization.....you're asking questions best intended for a mentor or study partner....someone who also enjoys wine scented candles and a lap sitting cat

demifeministgal replies on Jul 25, 2019:

you had me intrigued until you mentioned a cat... no no NO! doggies for me tyvm :D <3

For those of you that are very intrinsically motivated (motivation comes internally), do you have ...

APaleBlueDot comments on Jul 24, 2019:

I had a little smile when you ask for a "shortcut" to intrinsic motivation. It feels like there's an oxymoron in there somewhere. If you strongly desire a particular outcome in a situation, then intrinsic motivation is easy. (how hard is it to decide to get up and go poop when you need to?)...

demifeministgal replies on Jul 24, 2019:

well, I think whether I desire these things or not is inconsequential if the things I need motivation to do are good for my health or related to my livelihood, you know?

For those of you that are very intrinsically motivated (motivation comes internally), do you have ...

Lilac-JadeCanada comments on Jul 24, 2019:

I make lists, & pick out one thing to do, & do it. Sometimes I have to force it, but I do it. This will sometimes lead to the next thing & so on. Unlike Tom, I'm an introvert, & don't rely on others to get me going, so I have to do it myself.

demifeministgal replies on Jul 24, 2019:

Do you think it makes a difference if the list is hand-written vs if it is "written" in to a phone? I wonder if putting things to paper is more effective or it makes no difference? :s

For those of you that are very intrinsically motivated (motivation comes internally), do you have ...

Tomfoolery33 comments on Jul 24, 2019:

That's the difference between and introvert and an extrovert. I'm an extrovert, and without people or external reasons to do things, I just do the minimum required. So no, I don't have answers. Sorry.

demifeministgal replies on Jul 24, 2019:

which is strange because I am an ambivert that skews a bit more to the introverted side. I blame my upbringing entirely for never being taught how to be internally motivated. Particularily doing things to avoid punishment/abuse. :/

How do you motivate yourself to exercise?

bigpawbullets comments on Jul 22, 2019:

Some of us remember the ultimate motivator:

demifeministgal replies on Jul 24, 2019:

@Robecology google intrinsic motivation and extrinsic motivation to get better understandings of different types of people.

A few suggestions for the guys on dating sites: First, post a picture of YOU and not some actor.

NoPlanetB comments on Jul 24, 2019:

I used to think all guys noticed was the pic before they contacted you. But then I notice some were surprised when through a conversation I informed them I was fat. Clearly my pic showed that so wtf? Then I posted a pic of me with a huge bushy mustache and it was 2 weeks before some guy finially ...

demifeministgal replies on Jul 24, 2019:

@NoPlanetB nah.. this says joking :p

Question: When you start love making, do you prefer to start slowly, clothed?

Cutiebeauty comments on Jul 24, 2019:

I start in the shower... Always...

demifeministgal replies on Jul 24, 2019:

@Cutiebeauty I definitely am! Y'all must clean it all off before going straight to P-in-V it seems. heh