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What kind of hair style do women favor? In many cases men may be bald. Do you find baldness handsome? Do you find long hair handsome? Maybe include some pictures of haircuts you find handsome.

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I like both bald and long hair.

But long hair has the edge. Not particular about whether it is loose, ponied or even a man bun.

Or even if it's longer than mine lol

Lucy_Fehr Level 8 Jan 19, 2019

Have always been attracted to guys with long hair. Dan has short hair-go figure. i have long hair again after chemo and radiation.


the same hair style on two men may look good on one and not on the other. baldness may suit one guy and not another. i can't say i like one hair style universally or whether baldness is handsome. i look at the whole guy, not the hair without the guy. that being said, i tend to favor longer hair on men, and i think mohawks, buzz cuts, brush cuts, crew cuts and (despite having long bits) mullets look silly on everyone. there may be someone out there who looks good in one of those but i haven't seen such a thing yet.


genessa Level 8 Jan 18, 2019

I don't care much about hairstyles on men, but I gravitate toward bald/shaved.

graceylou Level 8 Jan 18, 2019

Thank you! ?


I like long, short, bald, neat, scruffy, etc. A guy should wear a style that is best suited to him and, what he likes, that will make him sexy.

I don't expect a guy to tell me how I should wear my hair, I will not tell him how to wear his.

BeeHappy Level 9 Jan 18, 2019

I refuse to follow the stereotypical path of most bald men like myself and grow a mustache and beard to attempt to distract or compensate for being bald. They aren't fooling anyone about their baldness. Women who I would like to date are either ok with bald men or they aren't. My guess is about 40% of women my age don't want a bald man, all other things being compatible, but I'll cope with that as it is without altering my look to lure them.

It's a fashion trend. Has been for a few years now. Guys start to thinning and decide to just shave it all off. I think that's perfectly acceptable and for most guys that look is good. The full beards are another trend. No one is distracting or compensating... they are just trying to be fashionable.


Unfortunately we are very much like sheep. No matter how horrible a hair style looks on someone they still insist on having it as it is in fashion. One kind of style suits maybe you but not me, so don't follow.

Jolanta Level 8 Jan 18, 2019

I think people figure out what looks best on them based on the amount of hair they can grow and the shape of their face.

IMO, the two men in these pictures are the two best looking men ever...
::::: swoon ::::::

I agree


I prefer short, soft, clean & slightly wavy. It should be short enough to cover his scalp and to allow my fingers to run through it. I also prefer a clean shaved face. There is a man in my dreams who wears his hair like this.


I can't for obvious reasons understand on a womans perspective.
But I can say that I've heard many different views from women.
I remember hearing quite a bit back in the 80's watching star trek TNG, women saying that they thought that Patrick Stewart was a hottie.
And then also in the 80's when I was in quite a few rock/metal bands, women saying the same about long hair.

Personally I go back and forth on my hair.
I'll ride the shorter hair (as viewed in my bio) but qhite a few times in recent years I've let it grow out.
And even now (while my hair is long) I get mixed comments. some say I should cut it, some others will say, I love your hair.

I think I'll have to take a new pic of me now with my long hair and see the reaction. Plus, there is a bit of grey in it now. so who knows.

I love to see the difference between long and short.

@Jolanta Once I figure out how to get pics from my phone to my pc I'll gladly post.

@TristanNuvo Email the pic to yourself then download it.


The bald look depends on the face, the shape of the head & facial hair for men, make up & earrings for women. Some women look spectacular bald. Some white men look chemotherapy exposed. Clean hair is what is important. I rather it be shaved almost bald over any comb over. Especially the current fashion in the White House. If the head is bald then grow some facial hair & maintain it. I assume we are speaking of cranial hair.

Mooolah Level 8 Jan 18, 2019

Yes, I'll save the other for someone else. I'm already kind of in the dog house!

I think bald men growing the facial hair looks ridiculous and doesn't fool anyone about their being bald. I won't do it to make women feel more accepting of my baldness. It's not going to change the minds of most women about whether they are attracted to a bald man.

@TomMcGiverin As a straight woman I am merely responding to the question with what appeals to me. You have a nice head. With or without hair you have a right to be comfortable with yourself. I do not understand how growing facial hair could fool someone as to cranial absence of hair. Different looks for different people. I certainly accept baldness or not. I just like the look I like. Just as men like big ones, or long ones, or black ones, or painted ones, or........

@Countrywoman I was merely giving my reaction to your opinion. I do think many bald men grow facial hair, as I said, to fool themselves and maybe others into not noticing they are bald as well as a distraction from their bald head. I am by no means the only person with these opinions. Facial hair serves the same purposes as comb overs do for said men. We have both have the right to our opinions. Done...

@TomMcGiverin It never occurred to me that men had beards for that reason.

I personally do not care for beards and feel that very few men can really pull them off but it isn't a deal breaker either

unless I can detect food particles in it LOL

@Lucy_Fehr It never occurred to me either. I do not think it is true. I think that this is one man's overly sensitive opinion.


I think a man's hair is his own business. I will notice if it is neat and clean, other than that if he's happy then I'm happy. If he wants my opinion on a different style I will offer that. If he's bald that is fine too. I care more about who the person in question is, how he treats me and others far more than what his hair looks like.


I always thought this was my best look smile001.gif

ipdg77 Level 8 Jan 18, 2019


It screams LIBERAL.

Gosh you do need help. Call a stylist at once.


These all look like high maintenance dos. If you wear it well is what matters. Long hair for a comb over - Just shave it bald. I'm not a fan of facial hair but some men really hate their upper lip. Trying to recapture one's youth is fine to a point. It really depends on the individual.
Cleanliness is the most important thing.

sorry the picture was just there to save a thousand words. Just tell us what you think


Is it me or do the styles in this picture look like overkill? These guys are hot, but their maintenance factor probably surpasses my own, and at my age,it's a battle.

UrsiMajor Level 8 Jan 18, 2019
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