Always go for the middle ground when a partner makes an extreme request. Like all hair cuts you can always take a bit more off, but the extreme takes a lot of time to reverse.

It is a personal preference..I personally can't stand body hair...I had all of mine lasered off. I don't require partners to shave but I absolutely expect a good trim job.

Not talking about the ladies, but since I started shaving/trimming down there and arm pits, it became easier to deal with long warm days without risk of end up smelling bad.

She was just getting you into training....waiting for the nose and ear trimming days!!

Hair trends come and go. I had an undergrad student say he’d be grossed out by a female partner’s pubic hair. Really?!? Ugh. To each their own.

My last ex-husband wanted me to shave. I resisted, but finally gave in. We both really liked it, but I had to kick him to the curb for being a bi-polar sociopath... but I kept the haircut. I like it. It feels good and it's really no trouble. Trouble would be letting it grow back with all the unbearable itchiness that can't be politely scratched in public. So I guess I might as well keep it.

Yes. Shave it! Do you think women like to floss during a BJ?

I don't shave anything. I don't think I even own a razor anymore. I don't ask anyone else to shave either, but it's been so long I don't remember.

Hair acts like a lubricant, especially in the pubic area. If both are shaved, a long session of sex will cause irritation. With oral sex, the prickly parts can irritate the mouth parts. So all in all, I want to be neatly trimmed, and I like her that way too.

Shaving or trim will trim on request

Shaving or trim will trim on request

I think most people prefer a partner who will make an effort to keep it neat and tidy. It's part of your grooming habits, just like brushing your teeth and washing your hair. Trim it up or shave if you feel the need to, but definitely make the effort.

I don’t. The most I will do is trim into a neat bush as opposed to a wild burning bush, lol.
My reason is, hairless looks too immature, like a girl. I’m a WOMAN. I have hair.

I wouldn't want the man completely bare, but if it's out of control, just trim a little.

Nothing wrong with hair.

you do not have to shave but trimming it short is nice.

Oh yeah, I've had women complain about getting hair stuck in their teeth. I don't shave, but I keep it trimmed really short. I can't bring myself to put such a sharp blade there

My experience has been that the trend to shave/wax (including among cishet men) has peaked, and some younger folks are increasingly going either au naturel or leaving artful patches. My experience with my age cohort (I'm about to turn 49) is that many are still inclined to go hairless and expect to see likewise. Obviously, this is all modulated by individual, regional, and cultural tastes and YMMV, but that's been my experience.