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I have been guilty of this! It certainly seems like the easier route to take.
"We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love." ~ Tom Robbins

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I take this to mean that we need to work on ourselves and know we are capable of providing the best love to our partners before looking for what we want in return.

Hazydays Level 7 Aug 29, 2019

I don't believe you can create chemistry..
I think the real problem is we humans are actually really bad at communicating

hippydog Level 8 Aug 28, 2019

Do you people realise how lucky you are to have CHOICES?

BitFlipper Level 8 Aug 28, 2019

I have found that a relationship will only work where there is a high degree of compatibility in: interests, ideals, intelligence and sex drive (or lack thereof).
Any significant mismatch of these will cause tensions, which cannot always be compromised upon. One has to accept that trying to 'make it work' is not always possible, and settling for second best can be disastrous.

Magister Level 6 Aug 28, 2019

Yes,i beleive this is so true

RoyMillar Level 9 Aug 28, 2019

This is absolutely on target!! 👌


the two people involved must decide together what each one needs

TheDoubter Level 9 Aug 27, 2019

What is the perfect love? I think it's different for everybody. I sure know what it means for me.

JackPedigo Level 9 Aug 27, 2019

Is this meant specifically to sex? OR is it more encompassing than that when it says "lover"?? 😕


Yes, but it's hard to make a worthy, desirable person out of a nasty, vindictive one.

mischl Level 8 Aug 27, 2019

This might be a contagious disease

nogod Level 7 Aug 27, 2019
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