Does this sound like love?

jlynn37 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

Oh the tangled web we humans weave.

I am feeling very frustrated right now.

jlynn37 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

Not from Craigslist, but every dating site is inundated with this type of scam. (except Agnostic.com). I have been on several dating sites for over 20 years and it has been that way since the start of the internet. Because it was so prevalent, I typed a text file and save to copy and paste in chats saying "I have one strict rule when I am on the internet. I will NEVER, under ANY circumstances, send money or gifts to ANYONE for ANY REASON". Feel free to copy and use it if you so desire.

Got my bi-yearly jury summons and wonder how everyone else handles the oath part.

jlynn37 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

I have always found ways to be rejected as a juror so I have never had to deal with it. I would hope that I would just refuse to say the oath on the book.

I just had a long, stupid day. What do you do to unwind and relax?

jlynn37 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

I have been retired for over 23 years, do not work at all, am single, live alone, in very good health, so I rarely have any day that resembles a "long, stupid day". I listen to MY kind of music on YouTube all day when I am at home and to recorded music when I am in my car traveling. I probably live as stress free a life that is possible. I often say that if I had one wish, it would be that every human on this planet have, at a minimum, as good a life that I have and enjoy.

Where would you live?

jlynn37 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

In a third world country, in a small comfortable hut. I would be a philanthropist and try to help as many of the wretched poor on this planet as much as what money I had could do.

Silly Superstitions

jlynn37 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

I think luck has a lot to play in what happens in our lives. Luck is simply random event happenings that is outside our control. (IMHO)

Here is a What If.

jlynn37 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

Now, that is the big question for humanity.

Who else (I hope there is someone) is finding that as they get older they are more likely to cry at ...

jlynn37 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

I have always been an emotional man, I cry in movies and a lot of emotional situations, but I do not cry at the drop of a hat. Tears are not to be despaired of. They are signs of unimaginable joy or unspeakable grief.

This experience may be more of a guy thing of not paying attention.

jlynn37 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

Yes. I see that you are 65 years old. I am 80 and it is because time seem to pass so quickly for us older folks.

What can be done about religious hospital?

jlynn37 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

Live as healthy a lifestyle as possible, take care of yourself, stay safe. Do everything you can to avoid getting involved with the healthcare system in the USA.

What are some of your favorite quotes? The ones that stick with you.

jlynn37 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

"Actions have consequences. You have a choice of your actions, you do not have a choice of the consequence of your actions. Choose wisely." - J. Lynn Engle

What are some of your favorite quotes? The ones that stick with you.

jlynn37 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

“I do my thing and you do your thing. I am not in this world to live up to your expectations, And you are not in this world to live up to mine. You are you, and I am I, and if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful. If not, it can't be helped.” ? Frederick Salomon Perls

What is your favorite way to say goodbye?

jlynn37 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

"Take care, stay safe, enjoy your life every day. Love and Peace"

This bit from The Flintstones is the oldest and the most obvious sex joke in a kid's Saturday ...

jlynn37 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

In my opinion, one of the most pornographic incidents on public TV was on the Leave It To Beaver show. June Cleaver said to Ward Cleaver, "you were really hard on the Beaver last night Ward."

Sooo.

jlynn37 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

For a first time meeting, sight unseen, I would agree to meet this woman at a local coffee shop and not go on a date. You, and she, will be free spend as much time together as you are comfortable with, to size each other up and to see if you would want to take it to the date stage. If you are not interested you can just end the meeting gracefully and go on your way.

What life-altering things should every human ideally get to experience at least once in their lives?

jlynn37 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

Sex for starters and in every imaginable position and way that is not damaging. (IMHO)

About 10 years ago in Florida, I was at a barbeque at the home of a good friend, and her husband.

jlynn37 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

Life's a bitch.

@BeeHappy posted a ten-minute video on the topic "The Bible Is Mostly Not Factual" in which a ...

jlynn37 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

I am for the most part with Dawkins. I do not come in daily contact with scholars but am inundated with idiots everywhere I go and idiots are the ones who elect government officials who make and enforce laws based on their idiocy.

Will someone explain sports fanaticism?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

It is totally beyond my comprehension. I have absolutely no interest in any sports. If I enjoy doing something, I want to be on the field doing it and not in the bleachers watching it. To each his on.

I need some intelligent advice and kind words.

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Do you have social contact with these people you work with after work. If so that complicates things. If this is just something happening while at work, I suggest you be professional, do your work as required and not get into petty work related issues with other employees including bosses. (IMHO)

Is it "shallow" to care about looks when it comes to picking a partner?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I have 3 necessary conditions for meeting someone for possible encounters; Must live reasonably close to me. Must be attractive. Must be desirable.

The Bible is mostly not factual - BBC debate - YouTube

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Who'd a thought.

What's your best city in America and what makes it special to you?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Whitney, TX because it is where my home is located and there is no place like home.

Bias

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I believe everyone has biases. I am biased against obesity, smoking, public profanity, just to name a few. I strive not to let it overcome me to the point of being obnoxious or cruel. As far as biases against me, well I just don't give a fuck, unless it prevents me from enjoying my life as I see fit.

What was one of your most embarrassing moments?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I was enjoying some sexual activity with my GF in my back bedroom prior to expecting my mom, dad, sister and brother-in-law to arrive in a few hours. My sexual encounters are usually pretty vocal at times. After finishing our pleasures, I got up and walked into the living room, completely naked, to find them sitting quietly waiting.

How many of you refer to science in socail occasions

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

When I am around family or friends and I get tired of listening to the nonsensical talk about movies, celebrities, sports etc, I often, just out of being snarky, will ask what someone might think about some scientific idea, eg. "Does anyone have an opinion on Quantum Entanglement and what it has to do with Einstein's 'spooky action at a distance' comment". I usually get some blank stares.

Is anyone else on this site asexual?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Well, I am not but for all practical purposes I might as well be.

I've been reading a lot about death, and mankind's wildly different perspectives on it over the ...

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I have no idea.

Do you find learning new things exhilarating or do you feel like learning is a tedious chore?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Learning can be tedious but is very necessary.

About 10 years ago in Florida, I was at a barbeque at the home of a good friend, and her husband.

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Just proves the point that Atheism has nothing to do with anything but the non-belief in god(s) and nothing more. Atheist can and do believe in anything, good or bad, true or false, right or wrong, logical or illogical.

Britons View Atheists As More Moral Than Believers, Religion More Harmful Than Good

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

So do I.

Do you feel happier after you’ve exercised?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

What is exercise?

Have you ever burned a bible?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

No.

How many places have you lived?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I am a native Kentuckian (Harlan), was raised in Mobile, Alabama and have live in Dallas/Ft Worth area Texas since graduating HS in 1956.

I'm a good man...you're a good woman...what's the problem?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Who is struggling?

What is the best way to broach Atheism in a religious conversation?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I reply that it is your religion, it is your god and it exists only inside your brain and not in reality. Until you can produce some verifiable evidence, data and facts that any god(s) exist, it is not worth discussing. (IMHO)

During Love Making, Are you The You Vocal Or Silent Type?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

One has to put forth a lot of effort to suppress vocalizing the pleasure that one feels during sexual activity and especially orgasm. I would liken it to trying to suppress a sneeze.

So, I'm ready to go off on a bit of tear right now.

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I have adult friends who will forward BS around as accepted fact only because there read it on the internet, FB, in emails. I repeatedly direct them to debunking sites (Snope, Authority websites, etc) but it does absolutely no good. Confirmation bias is strong in all of us. (sigh)

Would you teach your child to stand for the "Pledge of Allegiance"?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Actions have consequences. It would be important to advise him of the repercussions he/she will be subject too and if he/she is capable of dealing with it in a healthy manner. (IMHO)

Article How Should Atheism be Taught?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Atheism is not something you teach. It is a conclusion you reach through reason, evidence, facts, data and observation of reality. (IMHO)

Friends with benefits OK?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I have been doing it for 50 years and, to the best of my knowledge, everyone was a winner. (IMHO)

If you ever attended church, did you ever pay tithe?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

No, even thought I did put a few dollars in the collection plate from time to time. Actually, you should be proud that you are intelligent and were not taken in by their scam.

If you are here for the community rather than the dating, share your significant other and make ...

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Something to brag about for sure. Congratulations.

Atheists Are Brainwashed By The Scientific Method

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

The problem with type nonsense is that people will accept it as authority and incorporate into there belief system and the damage is almost irrevocable.

Atheists Are Brainwashed By The Scientific Method

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

"Professor Canard teaches at the Theological Institute of Technology". What else would you expect him to say???

Conservative Leader Claims Only Christian Men Are Qualified For Elected Office

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

This is why we need organizations like FFRF. These people just keep pushing the envelope to weasel their dogma into every facet of life. This is so unconstitutional that is it laughable as the constitution is clear that there be no religious test for holding office

Are the Millenials right and we judge them too harshly?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Some things yes, some things no and I do not judge them at all.

Is it right to only stay with your partner for the sake of the kids?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

No.

What ever happened to Xtians being nice, caring, and loving?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Oh, that only applied to those members of the same cult.

Am I the only person on this site who doesn't have a pet?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I do not have any pets of any kind. I do not want ANYTHING I have to feed, cleanup after or take care of.

How much time per day/week do you spend exercising or engaging in some form of fitness?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I walk a bit, not for exercise but just to get around in and out of my house and that is about it.

Noise pollution

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

As far as noise is concerned, dogs are my biggest irritant, but what can you do?

Science at the Crossroads | The 14th Dalai Lama

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Duuuhhhhh

Loveacholic, are you one, I am.

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I have been on the internet and dating sites for over 20 years and it has been good to me. I have met many women on the internet, have spent time with many women that I met on the internet, all have been for friendship only and some have been for friends with benefits only. What is there to complain about. Life is good.

How old were you when you first watched porn?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

From the time Playboy started publishing.

What do I say?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

In my opinion you are worrying too much. Just be yourself and show her your concern, your caring and your love. God or religion need not be a part of it and when/if she brings the topic into the conversation, just smile and ignore it.

Where do you get your news from?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I only get news from the internet and I take ANY of it with a bit of skepticism as most everything anymore is mostly propaganda.

How Many Citizens Do You Have On Block?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I do not understand the question.

Would You Be Ok With Your Child Choosing To Be a Believer?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

It is their choice, not mine. I would have discussions with them so they understand my attitudes.

Do you miss the social aspect of church?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Why don't you return for the social benefits you obviously enjoyed? I have been associated with several activities in various different churches, enjoyed my participation and do miss the social aspects they provided me. I never considered there being anything "bigger" and it was simply social and enjoyable. The nonsense was simply ignored.

State of the Union Address, anyone?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I have never been interested in ANY president's state of the union address. I vote in every election and that is all I can do. I feel that once a president is elected and in office, there is little else I can do but smile or frown, as the case may be, and go with the flow until the next election. (IMHO)

What are your thoughts on the quote?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Saying you are offended is just whining (IMHO).

Tattoo Appreciation

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

You do your thing and I do my thing. Live and let live.

Does this bother you?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Yes it does. I am an outdoors, in nature person and I have never hunted nor killed for any pleasure nor do I understand how others do. There is a Native proverb, "Until the lion can speak, you will only hear the hunter's story."

I never wanted to have kids, is that weird?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I have a son and a daughter, 4 grands and 4 great-grands. I love my family and they are important to me and I have a close relationship with them. I say without hesitation that if I could do it over again, I would NOT have children. It has taken me a lifetime to know and understand who I am. That is my conclusion.

Don't fall for the idea that there are two parties.

jlynn37 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

I would venture to say that those who choose not to vote is the reason Trump is now president. (IMHO)

Anyone here into backpacking/hiking?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

I am a camper and enjoy hiking the trails where I am camped, but at my age I am very limited to my activities. When I was younger I did backpacking, white water rafting, canoeing, Mtn climbing (via trails).

Has anyone here discussed this with any religious people you know?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

Theists will just say their god can do anything it wants, no problem.

FACT CHECK: Does a New Law Allow Atheist Doctors to Refuse Care to Religious Patients?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

Of course not. If a law was passed to that effect, it would only work in one direction, that being allowing christians to deny anyone opposed to their cult any assistance in any way.

Being a non-religious POC.

jlynn37 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

By "P.O.C", I assume you mean "Perfection Of Course".

How many of you believe in paranormal activity?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

I think paranormal activity can be easily debunked. The Great Randy, an ex-magician, has spend his life doing just that.

Liberal or democrat?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

I would say because the Dems and Libs are more closely aligned. (IMHO)

How many of you here are into wildlife or bird photography?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

I am an outdoors, nature person, a birder and enjoy all wildlife. However I rarely take photos other than of wildflowers. Wildflowers will pose for you.

Is there a memory you would want to relive?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

Wow, my life is full of memories that I would want to relive, again and again, ad infinitum.

Do you think faith healers should be tried for murder and attempted murder if they encourage their ...

jlynn37 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

No.

“The basis of moral principles is to have a real concern for the well-being of others and an ...

jlynn37 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

“The very purpose of religion is to control yourself, not to criticize others. Rather, we must criticize ourselves. How much am I doing about my anger? About my attachment, about my hatred, about my pride, my jealousy? These are the things which we must check in daily life.” Dalai Lama

Has your disbelief ever stained your reputation?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

It has never stained MY reputation but it possibly has stained another's perception of my reputation.

If you were asked to teach a class of your choosing, what would the subject matter be?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

Logic and Reason.

What habits/behaviours that humans exhibit in public that irritates you?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

Try a different establishment.

What do I want?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

When it comes to relationships, I often say I live in the Dilemma that, what I want I can't have and what I can have I don't want. Life's a bitch.

Convert the believers?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

I doubt that anyone can convert a believer. The believer has to do that on his/her own by examining evidence, facts and data and self examination. I think that the incentive to do so can be done however. (IMHO)

Today I heard a new Rule. We all know The Golden Rule, right?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

I think the Golden Rule is best expressed thus: "Treat others the way you would want to be treated".

It seems that right wing Christians are rewriting history by claiming our founding fathers wanted ...

jlynn37 comments on Jan 28, 2018:

Everything about religion of any stripe is simply delusional.

You always hear that age old question...”what is the meaning of life?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 28, 2018:

I am not sure there is a meaning of life, other than perhaps to survive and procreate, but I think at least one purpose of life is to provide a food source for other life forms. (IMHO)

99.9% sure

jlynn37 comments on Jan 28, 2018:

If there is no evidence of somethings existence, then it does not exist. (IMHO)

Many Christians and other religions are inimical to atheists,and agnostics, we are blamed for many ...

jlynn37 comments on Jan 28, 2018:

This statement, "try to be logical in your arguments", is your fail point.

Living in the countryside offers many opportunities to commune with the multitude of non-human ...

jlynn37 comments on Jan 28, 2018:

Please be extra careful coming into contacts with bats. While they are very necessary and a pleasure to watch, they are notorious for transmitting rabies. Never touch a bat on the ground as they never are on the ground unless they are babies and fallen out of a nest or there something wrong with them.

I came across a very interesting Facebook post.

jlynn37 comments on Jan 28, 2018:

A rose by any other name is still a rose and smells just as sweet.

Is being an atheist important?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 28, 2018:

I am a religious agnostic because of science, an atheist because of probability, and an anti-theist because of religion. - Matthew Cook

If a tree falls with no one to hear it, does it make a sound?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

This is true. If a deaf person is standing by anything (a falling tree, crashing cars, etc) that person will hear no sound. Sound is produced by the brain converting wave vibrations in the air into sound. (IMHO)

Just got back from my first ever solo vacation.

jlynn37 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

Wow. Single man, 5 days and 4 nights in New Orleans French Quarter, had fun. Who would have thought it possible.

Do you have wanderlust?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

You can travel the world, in any manner you would enjoy, by YouTube videos. Travel by car, train, boat, hiking and sit back and enjoy all the wonder and beauty of this amazing planet. I agree with your dad, Scandinavian countries are some of the best.

I hate when people make the statement where do atheists get their moral code from if not from ...

jlynn37 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

“Morality is doing what's right regardless of what you're told. Obedience (religion) is doing what you're told regardless of what is right.” ~H. L. MENCKEN

If you could go back in time and undo something in your past, would you?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

Absolutely.

How many of you are still in touch with an ex, someone you had some sort of relationship with or ...

jlynn37 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

I have a few female friends that I once had an affair with and we still are friends and maintain some sort of contact.

I used to give my spare change to the homeless who walked up to me and asked me for a dollar because...

jlynn37 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

How do you reach the determination that anyone uses what you give for nefarious reasons? Do you follow them? Is it just your assumption?

What do you give instead of thoughts and prayers?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

My charities are Foundation Beyond Belief and Doctors Without Borders. If I am in a position to give my personal self to assist in any way I can, I will participate in any way I can. I have empathy and compassion for my fellow humans who share this planet together.

What are your favorite websites?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

YouTube internationalskeptics.com dissidentvoice.org sheilakennedy.net agnostic.com

Do most older men prefer a younger model?

jlynn37 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

I am a single man and have no desire nor intention to marry. I feel that the only thing I require in a woman is that she live reasonably close to me, that she is attractive and that she is desirable. Age has nothing to do with it. I think I would prefer a woman somewhat closer to my age simply for compatibility.

"The things you own end up owning you" - From Fight Club A rail against capitalism and for always...

jlynn37 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

I doubt that you would ever hear someone on their deathbed say: "I should have spent more time at the office", "I should have spent more time cleaning my house", etc.