Then and now... Thoughts?

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

IKR, scary as hell. Like every Republithug has had a lobotomy.

Miss Stella. I'm babysitting for her. Sweet old lady

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

What a precious girl!

Did any of the rest of you sleep on hair rollers?

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

OMG yes I used rollers! I also remember the first blow dryer we got. The pain we endured for beauty. Never again. I never use rollers now, don't own any. I do have curling irons and blow dryers that might get used every 3 or 4 months.

Oh those crazy animals. [facebook.com]

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

That is sooo cute!!

Long story short: got into a brief online scuffle with someone who I believe to be a Trump ...

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

I'd say be pre-emptive. He made threats, you report that. Don't wait to see if anything happens. Let your friend know her or his cousin is a creeper.

Just got done reading this article posted by Planned Patenthood.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

Partly I shop online just because I can shop when it is convenient for me, I don't have to stand or drive, and I can look up reviews as well. Now if I want it NOW I will go to a shop, but I rarely want something NOW.

So a friend calls me because his cat has cncer and he needed to borrow $2,000 for the operation.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

My heart cat got sick several years ago while I was still married to the father of my children. It was Thanksgiving weekend, my ex's parents were visiting. When we realized the kitty was sick it was late in the day, the inlaws had gone to bed and my 3 teenagers were desperate that we had to do SOMETHING. So kitty went to the Emergency Vet. The inlaws reported to their son in the morning that they thought we (kids and me) were fighting. No, just the clanking of the cat cage on the way to the car. That kitty visit cost around $1000, followed by another $600 to the usual vet. And the ex says "is it worth it?" I said "could you look at your daughters and tell them there is a price on the love we have for this cat, and how much we will spend to make her better? If you can make that decision in front of your kids and justify it with them..." It is hard when your fur babies are sick. How much money is too much? Hard, hard call.

Special Kind of Stupid

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

His actions speak way louder than words.

Fixing What?

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

He'd never lower himself to mending. He doesn't understand the concept of making things whole or repairing.

I was here first. [facebook.com]

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

LOL!!

Just got done reading this article posted by Planned Patenthood.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

I have visited a few adult entertainment shops in person, but most of my purchasing has been done online. I have a few toys, used mostly solo. I have shared the adventures with a few lucky guys, but it has been a long while. I have had vibes for years, even when I was a "good xian woman." God wants us to be happy. My ex did not make me happy.

Faux News' color-blindnes? [instagram.com]

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

That is a crap ton of bottle blondes. I have no idea who most of them are. I'm not sure I could keep them straight, they look like freaky scary clones!

"I'm going. I don't care what you say."

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

Awwwww, how can you bear to leave him...

Boston Globe Gets Serious Threat After Anti-Trump Editorial | Fortune

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

Scary times we live in.

Fuhrer Trump's Dehumanizing Others Is Right Out of Fascist/Nazi Playbook

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

He is a piece of work, and bad piece of work.

Fuhrer Trump's Abysmal White House as Vs to Supreme Court Justice W 75% of His Record Hid By GOP

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

Makes me wanna go to assassin school.

Fuhrer Trump Trying to Deport Adopted Toddler From Peru-WTF!

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

Jeeeeeebus Christopher Gawd. Is there no end to the depravity of the Damnfool Drumpf administration? I know, it is a rhetorical question. Of course not. You'd a thunk they'd hit rock bottom but they just keep digging.

RESPECT is Our Basic Human Right - Aretha Franklin

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

Love it!

Am I the only person who doesn't seek out other people to date when already dating someone else?

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

When I meet someone I assume we are both free agents until we have a discussion about being exclusive. Until such time as there is an agreement that we are exclusive I don't ask if he is dating and I will not discuss if I am dating. If it is a long distance relationship I really don't discuss if I am dating or very much else. And since I don't really have a dating life it is pretty much a moot point.

NASA releases time-lapse video of depleting arctic ice cap. [youtu.be]

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

I have seen this before, scary scary stuff.

Over the garden wall , tiny grapefruits , and hanging melons . from my neighbors .

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

Wow!! is that safe? Those melons could cause some harm if they fell on you!

This is Tauriel, my Bengal mix. Such a silly girl going for my French toast this morning. ❤️

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

She is sooo pretty!! Why are you not giving her that toast fast enough?

Two Reasons Why It's So Hard To Solve A Redneck Murder: 1.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

My first ex was from Kentucky. OMG, so true. Stuff of nightmares.

Pretty sure you could pull life support from me just by unplugging the air conditioner.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

That would work for me! I don't deal well with heat. I don't like the cold but I can add clothes. If I take off clothes because of the heat I could a.) be arrested, and b.) frighten small children. And possibly some adults as well.

On my “To Do” list… Get a rhino… sign it up for weight watchers and watch it become a ...

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

You're making me think of the christmas song, I want a Hippopotamus for Christmas. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7oOzszFIBcE

Can anyone give advice on doing bonsai? I would love to learn how.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

I killed my one bonsai attempt. Never been tempted to go there again, and now I have kittens/cats and plants are not safe in my house.

How has a teenager showed faith in you?

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

My children all had a few rough years, but are amazing adults and we're close now. My middle daughter is going to be my guardian and conservator when I need that. My oldest and youngest have needed me for new mom questions. Even when my challenging child was in her horrible teenage years, even when we fought like cats and dogs, or moms and daughters; she would always take a few moments and tell me she loved me every day. They tell me now they're proud of me for facing life's challenges. And I am proud of the strong women they've become.

Ever since I turned 48 or 49, I have received mailers for AARP, but have not joined.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

I hid from them til I was 60. I just joined a few weeks ago. With Drumpf talking about destroying SSRI, I want a strong lobby group. I also may need to look into alternatives to Health Insurance, and I can use all the discounts I can get.

I guess it is established that finding love takes a lot of work and even then it comes with no ...

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

I'm not actively looking or really hoping but I think life is easier when you're partnered. I miss intimacy, sharing, and just someone who puts you first. I don't know if I ever had the last part.

What was your favorite? Mine was olive loaf, mayonnaise on white bread.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

Peanut butter!

It seems to me that therapists place far too heavy emphasis on keeping interpersonal relations as ...

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

I agree. If you are "too nice" people will walk all over you. You have to have boundaries. Use the "When you..., then I ..." model. When you tell me I'm dumb, then I think you're don't care for me." I don't think interpersonal relationships can be free from conflict. BUT the conflict needs to be resolved in a healthy manner. I am really good at identifying the "elephant in the room" and bringing it out into the open. I've been asked more than once if we really have to talk about it, and I always say "oh hell yeah."

Good morning! Have a great Saturday! PS, here's my breakfast too ... shrimp and spinach omelette

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 18, 2018:

No coffee for me on weekends. If I am tired I will take a nap. After I retire I may never drink coffee again.

Attack of the cute killer puppies. [facebook.com]

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

Too cute!! I love golden puppies!

Guacamole for me.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

I love guacamole! I loathe peas and lima beans. I don't like really spicy food, no sriracha sauce for me.

See who is casting stones

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

For darn sure!

A few Friday morning chuckles... have a Happy Day! ?????

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

Too funny!

Draft Dodgers Don't Deserve a Military Parade

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

Woot!!

Relationships... you gotta laugh! 🤣😂🤣

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

well, to begin with, I sleep on the right hand side of the bed. I have for more than 25 years. Second of all, that buffer zone might need to be bigger. I have lots and lots of pillows on my bed. Most of them aren't used all night long. I read in bed, gotta have something to prop the book up. I have slept alone so long I'm not sure I'll be able to adjust, but I will give it a good try when the situation presents itself.

Contrary to rumors, I am still alive.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

I "get" to see my ex every few weeks due to kids liking to do family things. We're polite, even amicable. And then he says something, and my kids grab me and say "please don't say anything." And I don't, but I am reminded of a. Why we are divorced, and b. how amazing it is my kids are such awesome people despite their dad.

Only the best people!

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

Love it! thanks for posting!

Saw this and had to share

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

Wow, me in feline form.

If he really wants the parade...

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

I'd happily march in that parade, or make a float!

A real professional...

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

Thanks for posting!

Question: If you are dating someone, even if it is new and the man goes to the woman's house, should...

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

I want the seat down and lid closed. Keeps the critters out, and keeps me and/or the cats from dropping stuff in. I really have a thing about leaving things the way you found them.

Spending the weekend with my folks and their cats, Smudge and Dinah.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

Sooo pretty!!

Cars: without seat belts and without radios

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

I grew up with out seatbelts. I don't remember if there was a radio. I am so lucky to be alive. I have a scar on my nose from a minor accident in my dad's car. I was standing on the floor of the front seat and my head hit the dash. I was about 2.5. Then I got banished to the back seat with the brothers. Torture!

Question.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

In Japan I'd see men take a whiz, and in Germany once traveling down the Autobahn at about 75 mph, saw 4 guys outside a car parked on the shoulder of the highway. looked like they were having a contest to see who's stream went farther. At least they had their backs to most of traffic.

I remember going to the store, spending an hour or so looking for one record.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

Just an hour? :)

Can I just say that you all ROCK in this group. Thank you so much. My gratitude is beyond measure.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

That is one of the best things about this community!

Ok so we did the toilet seat war?

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

I stopped using toilet paper about 6 years ago. I keep toilet paper in the hall bathroom, but the cats have destroyed the tp that was hanging in there, it is now kept under the sink. When I do put out TP it is ALWAYS OVER!

Is living together an acceptable alternative to marriage?

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

First of all, if you are the parent you don't get to just walk away from the kids the law has something to say about that whether or not you're legally married to the other parent. Marriage does not prevent a parent from taking off. My oldest brother is a deadbeat dad. Being legally married did not stop him from disappearing on his wife and 5 kids. The working issues need to be resolved but rarely does any woman stay at home with the kids anymore. Who can afford it? Why shouldn't dad stay home if mom can earn more money and support the family? Property ownership can be done with two individuals not connected by marriage. College for the kids, again something to be discussed before you get them started. There is no real reason to be married in this day and age. I will never remarry, but I'm a long way from considering more kids.

Trump reacts to the cancelled parade.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

Love it!! totally perfect! Thanks for posting!

I might be stupid but if my partner who claims to love me more than she's ever loved anyone before ...

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

Have you tried the conversation that when you overlook my birthday our engagement then I feel (fill in the blank with how you feel or what you think). IE When you overlook my birthday and our anniversary but remember when someone died I feel like I don't matter that much to you. That conversation might change the direction of the relationship.

I want to have a cup of coffee With someone that can look at me And talk to me Without taking out...

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

We don't know how to be present for each other anymore. I worry about my kids with their babies and cell phone. Put the phone down and be with the baby.

This is astounding! [nytimes.com]

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

Wow!!

My weird cat plays fetch, follows my mom everywhere she goes, loves tomato juice most, and takes his...

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

My cat has a stuffed mouse she carries around when not batting it around. I have a split entry foyer. When I find the mouse upstairs I toss it over the railing into the basement. And she runs down the stairs and brings it almost to me, and we repeat. Then when I'm downstairs, she will drop it to the basement herself!

A cartoon that hits the nail right on the head

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

All the media in the US is owned by 6 different entities. They control what is shown and when it is shown. They are pushing their own agenda. They will focus on what sells.

Good morning! TGIF My breakfast is ready, thanks to @MrLizard. What are you having?

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 17, 2018:

I have a fruit/oatmeal mixture that was made over the weekend. My mornings are grab and go.

I look forward to the grandmas of the future.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 16, 2018:

I am a Grammy for almost 2 years, and yes, I imbibe from time to time. My usual drug of choice is plain chocolate M&Ms but I gave that up for health reasons. Sooo tonight I have some chocolate from Colorado :) I have a fairy godmother.

Would you walk across the street, yes or no?

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 16, 2018:

Depends on what street, and what time, but more than likely yes!

I don't know if this is allowed, but I was going to post to this group about issues faced when ...

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 16, 2018:

Thank you!! I will be looking for that group. I am 60, and realllllly thinking about retirement. Like I want to NOW!

Distraction is the new normal, this Orange Sack of Shit is not a master spy or the master of ...

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 16, 2018:

Thanks for posting!

What is an absolute Deal Breaker when considering a person for a relationship?

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 16, 2018:

Cigar smoking would not be a deal breaker as long as you don't smoke in the house, car, or garage. Or within 15 feet of me. Trump supporter is deal breaker. A great deal of debt would be a deal breaker. I won't move, so unless you are willing to move to (yeah, I know) Omaha, it is a deal breaker. Not loving cats is a deal breaker. Kids of elementary/middle/high school age is a deal breaker. There might be others.

I fell asleep in the work truck for a few minutes today.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 16, 2018:

Hang in there, it will get better. Please, reach out to the hotlines if you think you are suicidal or homicidal. You are worth it.

What are some alternatives to marijuana to help calm myself down?

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 16, 2018:

Exercise as much as you can, burn off that excess energy. Yeah, I don't do that either. I know where you are coming from. I can be well informed or I can be sane.

Loves Lies Bleeding. The most unique flower I've grown this year.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 16, 2018:

Way cool!!

Keep moving forward...

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 16, 2018:

Thank you, I need that today!

Not sure either

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 16, 2018:

I wonder about that too.

All I can say is"I love you man" talking to all of you on this site.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 16, 2018:

This group keeps me going, well most of them. My oasis.

it's a must in the pinata: the TRUMPchi

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 16, 2018:

Thanks for posting!

Good morning! Have a great day!

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 16, 2018:

may need to direct line coffee today, horrible night last night. The work day is not going to be fun.

Have you seen this POS survey put out by the "president"?

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 16, 2018:

disgusting POS.

I posted this in another group but have any of you had your DNA tested?

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

Never tested, never wanted to. My kids look enough like me that we know where they came from, and I look like my mom and sister. I have suspected my father's family might have some unexpected blood, but I"m not willing to shake that tree. We are who we are no matter where the blood comes from. And those tests aren't perfect.

O.K. Ladies is this true for most of you???

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

Yes!! I pretty much gave heels up. I prefer stability and comfort, especially as I don't have a supporter to lean on.

When you have more than you need...

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

The more the merrier!

I always talk about my sister here in this group, we are both baby boomers.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

I am going to see my middle sister in 10 days She is my BFF. I have 5 sibs, we're all boomers. My oldest brother has disappeared, haven't seen him in over 30 years, he walked out on his family after he retired from the Navy at age 39. Second brother lives 50 miles away, disabled vet, and recently told me to shove it when I made some suggestions. Third brother is mean as a snake and I leave him alone. Youngest sister is a unique little flower and made some questionable life choices including embezzlement. Yeah...., middle sister and I are the only family we really associate with.

I'm having a sad day today.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

(((((hugs)))))) We all need hugs.

Has anybody grown any odd shaped tomatoes?

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

Awesome! Sometimes I get special ones, but never that special.

How do I fix a broken cat?

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

He's not broken, he's comfy! And spineless...

I especially like Puting playing a Trump bass... What's your favorite?

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

excellent!!

Conversation at work: 'Do you watch The Bachelorette'? Me: 'On purpose? No.'

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

Never, don't have cable.

So this happened. Welcome Rigby :)

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

Soooo pretty!! Welcome baby!

Apres Trump, the deluge!

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

That is totally frightening!

This is Yavanna.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

She's beautiful!

Trump revoked John Brennan's (former DNI) security clearance while Kushner still has his...

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

Wow, all great! Thanks for posting!

It's been a long day ... Will someone stop the world and let me off, please?

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

I feel your pain.

So do any of you have issues with your adult children trying to control your life or interfere with ...

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

My adult children and partners pretty much leave me to do what I want. I can call them as I need them. They are all within 30 minutes of me. Two are busy with babies.

I'm the owner and mod of the group Wordsmith. Hope this will turn out to be useful.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

What is your group about? From the title I find it intriguing.

We have now entered --

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

This is the nightmare that never ends, it just goes on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on. Anon

This apparently has some panties in a twist, so I guess it belongs here.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

seriously disturbing, but about everything do do with Donaldo is very disturbing.

There's talk that Trump may visit Australia in November.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

Please, make sure those boys are really hungry!!

My favorite Phlox doing more than its share.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

Beautiful!!

Good morning ? ☕

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

Good morning.

So much material, so little time.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 15, 2018:

Perfect, thanks for posting!

Are handmade items a dying art?

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 14, 2018:

I sew, crochet, knit, embroider. I love hand made things and to make hand made things. I make my own soaps and lip balms as well. Look at Pintrest or Etsy. Handmade is not dying out.

He's changing hats again.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 14, 2018:

Bogus human as well.

To paraphrase Oscar Wilde: I can resist anything but --

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 14, 2018:

Who can resist that face!!

I think this one was telegraphed...

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 14, 2018:

LOVE it, thanks for possting!

As we Boomers get older, some things need to get larger!

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 14, 2018:

I use one of those, don't even want to think about the one with 3xday pills. Not going to do that. And yes, most of what I take is supplements, and analgesics. Arthritis sucks.

hello welcome to the owners and mods.

HippieChick58 comments on Aug 14, 2018:

I'm mod of Trump Pinata and Baby Boomers.