Your Atheist, Humanist, Free-thinking Man

HippieChick58 comments on May 6, 2018:

People are not one size fits all, so that is an impossible question to answer. However, I'd like to think of it as teamwork, supporting each other, good conversations, sharing.

Some days everyone hates your art, ignores your writing, and can't be bothered to know you.

HippieChick58 comments on May 6, 2018:

I'm sorry you're having a tough time. Just remember, this too shall pass. Wine a little, you'll feel better.

I found the group!!!!!

HippieChick58 comments on May 6, 2018:

Yay!! Welcome !

I like to believe in civility even in the face of talking heads.

HippieChick58 comments on May 6, 2018:

We need to develop tolerance, that not everyone is going to be a clone of us and think like we do. We need to be open minded and truly believe we can learn something from everyone. We need to acknowledge that we are the be all and end all, we are still work in progress, and this is a very good thing. And we need to be slower to cry, and yell, and scream. We need to learn some diplomacy. And we need to teach our kids these same lessons. We used to live in a society that was slower to take offense. Where did that go?

Church of the Confused Chicken

HippieChick58 comments on May 6, 2018:

The church of chicken little

I'm sure many of you have seen this, but what the hell, we need a good belly laugh! Enjoy?

HippieChick58 comments on May 6, 2018:

LOL!!!

We boomers have lived through a broad spectrum of social and technological changes.

HippieChick58 comments on May 6, 2018:

Not for me. Mine was just the gradual realization that religion is pretty fucked up.

So it is spring, and I have been working out in the yard.

HippieChick58 comments on May 6, 2018:

Yeah, I remember the sand box I had when I was a kid............

Ok I might have a problem.

HippieChick58 comments on May 6, 2018:

LOL! Thank you for giving blood. They won't let me give blood cuz I lived in Germany in the 80s. And yes, gotta have plants. I'm dying because first it was too cold to work in the garden, then the grandson was born and there was some drama there, then I got sick, and now it has gotten hot. We had 2 weeks of spring and I missed it. However, I did get the worm castings out to the garden so next week I hit the garden center!

I believe that I was meant to travel.

HippieChick58 comments on May 6, 2018:

I spent 6 years in the Army, went to Okinawa, South Carolina, Massachusetts, Maryland, and Germany. I married a soldier and went back to Germany, and moved about 15 more times. I am planning a trip to Winipeg in the fall, and we will see what the future brings.

I've been in a passionless relationship for 5 yrs.

HippieChick58 comments on May 5, 2018:

After 20+ years of marriage when my now ex showed me that his xian website was more important to him than I was I knew it was over. I know when the last time we were intimate was. And that was the night I realized I needed to plan for a future without him. We were together another 5 or so years. Hate is not the opposite of love, indifference is.

Who's caused the MOST harm?

HippieChick58 comments on May 4, 2018:

Bastards in suits!!

Who Is there durIng the tough tImes?

HippieChick58 comments on May 4, 2018:

My kids and my sister.

Are you a snob? With what subjects/topics? . I am, here are mine: Movies, Coffee, Toilet Paper.

HippieChick58 comments on May 4, 2018:

Snob. When I make quilts I use only 100% cotton fabrics. I don't shop at Wal Mart.

Beautiful butts

HippieChick58 comments on May 4, 2018:

That is way cool!

Meeting

HippieChick58 comments on May 4, 2018:

All my dates have been found through online dating sites. Not working, so I gave up.

Duck dynasty fans....

HippieChick58 comments on May 4, 2018:

Y'all gotta realize he's in this get up because it gets him money, right? They were an act before the Dynasty started, but weren't getting anywhere. They adopted the persona they are now and the bucks are rolling in. The picture is the before days.

One of my favourite lines in a film comes from the film 'Tuck Everlasting', which despite being made...

HippieChick58 comments on May 3, 2018:

I remember watching the movie with my kids. I cannot imagine how lonely one would be and how sad when you keep outliving all your loved ones. Part of what makes life precious is that it doesn't last forever. It isn't the length of life, it is the quality and how much you love.

@HippieChick58 Hi there, since this is Trump Pinata where we bash to our hearts content to relieve ...

HippieChick58 comments on May 3, 2018:

I saw one Trump supporter in our group, and I didn't think his or her post was too bad. I generally read all the comments, but sometimes I slip. Please tag me if someone crosses a line and I will ask admin how to or if I can block someone from the group. I think this is a wonderful site to blast Drumpf and have fun doing it. I don't want anyone raining on our parade or trying to rein us in.

Is anyone else seeing the Alert count over the bell icon disappearing on its own, then re-appearing ...

HippieChick58 comments on May 3, 2018:

YES!

Natural Treatment of Cancer

HippieChick58 comments on May 3, 2018:

I have told my kids that if I ever have cancer I will NOT do chemo under any circumstances. When it is my time to go, I am ready. Chemo does NOT improve the quality of life and most doctors would not choose it for themselves.

Hrmm.

HippieChick58 comments on May 3, 2018:

Maybe she lists herself as a believer because she hasn't gotten it figured out yet and she may learn from you. My suggestion is to wait and see. If she acts appropriately then leave her alone. If she crosses any boundaries you don't want crossed then block her.

We all have that one fantasy celebrity cheat. Who is yours? Mine is Rachel Maddow.

HippieChick58 comments on May 3, 2018:

I've gotta say, I don't get excited about celebrities. I never see celebrities in my fantasies.

Yesterday I posted requesting voodoo or other magical interventions from people on the site ...

HippieChick58 comments on May 3, 2018:

Woot!! Woot!! Party time!! I'm so happy for you!

Do you watch the evening news?

HippieChick58 comments on May 3, 2018:

I turned off the cable a couple of years ago. Most days I don't watch TV, I'm right here glued to the computer instead. Yeah, I think the evening news may be on the way out.

Kid said he felt like being outdoors today.

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

Nice to have capable kids.

New Rule: Dear Roseanne | Real Time with Bill Maher (HBO) [youtube.com]

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

LOVE this!!

My wife became disabled several years ago and sexual intimacy became too painful for her to ...

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

I think you're a good man with your head on straight.

Honeywell plans to cut healthcare for 4,700 retirees | Local | southbendtribune.com

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

Corporate America doesn't give a damn for the little people, and we're all little people.

Does anybody like progressive music?

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

I have no idea what progressive music is, and if it is compared to regressive music. Mom to former band geeks, maybe I should ask them.

Radiographs, subcutaneous fluids, medications, vaccines, and a hygiene clip for a 22lb pet raccoon ...

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

wow!!

When I was a kid, hardly anyone talked about plastic surgery.

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

I think people deserve to do what makes them happy. In my work I've processed a few claims for gender reassignment surgery. I've read descriptions of the surgeries and the recovery times and expectations. Definitely NOT my cup of tea, and I'm very happy to be the gender I am. But if it gives you peace of mind or happiness, go for it. That being said, in 5 years or so, I'd like to get my eyelids done. They're getting very droopy. But then again, I'm not sure I want knives so close to my eyes. We'll see. I'm all for others doing what makes them happy. Follow Your Bliss.

:) :) :) :) :)

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

Hahahahahahaha. I know, it is a tragedy.

I had the second stage of a job interview today.

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

I will send good vibes and positive thoughts. Hoping your the best candidate for the job.

What is the most effective way to deal with Jehovah's Witnesses, Mormons or other religious door ...

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

Don't answer. If I'm not expecting someone I likely won't answer the door.

If we're gonna be friends, you need to remember this ...

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

I do #1 lots, especially on clothing. I follow seams and patterns. I loathe mismatched plaids. #4 is most of the time. #2 is nearly always.

Fucktardery at it's finest! How Repugnantcnts reproduce.

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

That will scar small children (and adults) for life.

I just thought Star Wars fans and anti-Trumpers might enjoy this as much as I did.

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

LOL, another sight I can't unsee.

Can we just toss the whole lot of them into the bay? Modern day tea party.

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

I will find some lead lined life savers to help them out, or in and deeper.

Hello from Lake Placid Florida.

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

You're smart enough to have found us, welcome!

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HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

Woot!! I can't wait. Or wait..... But historical artifact to save for the grandkids! They can watch when they're 90.

Are you on anyone's salvation list?

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

Two of my three kids are openly non believers, the third is keeping bible thumper daddy happy. My siblings are not churchy people, so nope. No one is trying to save my atheist hippie soul.

One can no longer bury their heads in the sands of time and wait it out! trump and the insane ...

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

Scary and spot on.

How long...?

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

I honestly do not remember when the last time I had a partner in the bedroom. I remember who it was. Seems like maybe 3 years.

WHINE ALERT! Waaaah.

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

Thank goodness you weren't hurt, and hopefully the garage isn't badly damaged either. And good he has finally seen the light to have the tree taken down. When it is your own flesh and blood at risk it makes you pay attention better.

Hi welcome to newbies here.

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

I am hoping to go to Winnipeg in the late summer or early fall. I want to use my passport before it expires, and I can drive there. I have found a web site for senior travelers called Free Bird, kind of a house sharing site for seniors. I'd love to have a companion. I also hope to have enough PTO, I've been sick two days this week....

Tulip time!

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

I love Bleeding Hearts and Tulips!! Thanks for sharing.

Savior of what?

HippieChick58 comments on May 2, 2018:

Very good!!

Questions: Do you take offense at turns of phrase, such as.

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

I try to take things in the context they are intended, and I don't look for offense. Life is too darn short.

Hi! I’m Carrie from Kentucky. Love this site!

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

Welcome Carrie! This is my favorite site!!

Bobby is not amused.

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

Bobby is inscrutable!

Hello all from central Georgia! It's hot and buggy here.

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

Welcome, it is a great community here.

Whenever I go to the chatroom I'm the only one there.

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

I have a memory like a sieve and an attention span of a gnat, or kitten. I will try to remember once I feel better.

I want one.

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

hahahahaha ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

On the advice of my therapist, I've started exercising regularly.

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

Like chicken soup, it can't hurt! But yes, exercise is good. I am way, way out of shape and I'm trying to get more active. Right now I have a damned cold/URI that has just sucked out all of my energy. I was doing good to get out of bed.

I took my Little Girl (cat) In for her shots today and discovered she had been chipped.

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

I'm so sorry for your loss, but what a big heart you have to give up your baby!

I see people complaining of too many messages and too much attention from people they don’t like.

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

I get zilch, I dunno. Is it my age?

Now this is funny: (CNN).

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

This is nothing surprising, there is no depths the cheetoh will not sink to.

Love to see the interactive nature of these discussions. Frank and honest. I’m in awe.

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

That is one of the things that keeps me here.

About Potholes not Potheads

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

OMG yes! There are some potholes around here that can sink a volkswagen.

And Jeopardy's Final Category is Science

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

hahahahahahaha

Religious Iceberg-Truth Below Surface

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

Spot on!

Sooner or Later-Trump will Pay The Price for Betrayal

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

Can it be sooner please, and forever!

Trump Authorizes Nazi Chemicals

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

That is disturbing to no end. Makes me happy I eat mostly organic and grow much of my own.

It is spring in Nebraska, and we have our first Tornado alert of the season!

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

I have been home today cuz I have the crud from hell. Thinking I should do something useful and easy I went out to the deck and cleaned out the pots from last years plantings. It is muggy and really quiet out there. The clouds are various shades of gray. Yah, tornado weather for sure! I will be in the basement if anyone needs me.

Seems we are the sheep by proxy by all the trump supporters who are dragging us into this huge Ponzi...

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

Scary times we live in,

Words of a Promising Day

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

I love that!! I am so going to steal it!!

The Most Racist Pastor In America - YouTube

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

I can't even watch this bullshit.

Howdy, I'm a twice divorced guy that's 64 & retired.

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

Welcome!! I used to live in Rosepine, Louisiana. Happily for less than 2 years. I did not cry to see it in my rearview mirror. My oldest daughter was born at Bayne-Jones Army Community Hospital, Ft. Polk, she was 6 weeks old when we left. They called Ft. Polk the Armpit of the Army. I remember driving past Bay St. Louis while I was in the south. The name amused me, but odd things amuse me.

What is it with pet names?

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

Using pet names is a way to infer intimacy. I don't appreciate it when a relative stranger starts calling me honey, or dear. Lets get to know each other first. Usually I get that from scammers, I think they may have trouble keeping names straight, much easier to be non specific. That being said if someone messages me and tells me something really nice I am likely to call them sweetie.

Not soon enough! trump and his fascist billionaire owners are destroying this country whole sale

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

Please! Soon!!

Had my first asparagus of the year tonight.

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

I am so jealous!

So .. we're all looking for someone special in our lives. What's everyone's background?

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

I was married to the father of my children for over 25 years. Have been divorced almost 10 years. I have dated a few times, was in a long term long distance relationship after the divorce. That fell apart horribly when he couldn't get rid of his excess stuff to move to Omaha. He wanted a fresh start, but had too many ties that he couldn't cut or some such shit. I dated off and on after that. I encountered too many scammers. My last date with a real person was maybe 3 months ago, he said he'd like to see me again, and then ghosted me. After a few more scammers I dropped off all dating sites. I'm usually not nervous about first dates, I think my expectations are low enough now that there isn't any reason to be nervous. Am I cynical? I do not have high expectations but if you don't try....

More Colbert!!! Stephen Colbert (The Other One) On Michelle Wolf's WHCD Speech [youtube.com]

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

Love it!! Totally spot on!

Meet Cannabis Chef Jonah Reider and his High End Cuisine - Cheddar Features [youtube.com]

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

Looks yummy! And fun!

MICHELLE WOLF at the WHCD [youtu.be]

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

Thanks for posting.

Quiz Show (Bible Contradictions) - YouTube

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

Very good!!

I just changed my photo to show a different side of myself

HippieChick58 comments on May 1, 2018:

You are definitely a multidimensional individual.

How Do You Feel About Relocating For Love?

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 30, 2018:

Two grandchildren within 15 miles or less. All my kids within 20 miles. If I move the bible thumper grandpa will be filling their tiny heads with crapola. Grammy has to stay to be a really bad example and teach them the truth. And spoil the shit out of them.

What was your most memorable birthday ever?

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 30, 2018:

My 19th birthday, Army basic training. Gas chamber day.

Does anyone suffer from tinnitus? If so have you found any help for it?

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 30, 2018:

I sleep with a white noise machine. I'm told CVS markets a vitamin combo for tinnitus, but I don't shop there, so I haven't check it out. I'm not sure I trust them.

Ways to Create a Better Life

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 30, 2018:

I went outside 4 times today. To and from the car, once for a quick walk outside at lunch, and once at home to start unloading the winter kill off my deck (one pot, but a big one). Baby steps. I'm also fighting a cold, have an elephant on my chest. Early bedtime tonight, maybe.

Hi everyone-some new members were asking for a Singles Group so I started one-SINGLES GROUP.

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 30, 2018:

Thanks!! I think this is great!!

Smells like arrogance and ignorance....

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 30, 2018:

Now I know what image I will be seeing in my nightmares for a few weeks, months, years....

Which one would you choose?

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 29, 2018:

Give me sleep! The house gets clean enough and I do have Roscoe the Robot Vac. I do enjoy running errands from time to time. And the kids are grown, I don't have to listen to them fight. I have to listen to a recap from time to time, but it isn't that hard to change the subject. I haven't had 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep in years.

I no longer believe in the institution of marriage.

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 29, 2018:

I have been divorced about 8 years (don't remember the exact count anymore). For financial reasons I will never remarry because that would create a financial penalty when I retire. And for me as there will never be human kids, there is no other reason I can think of to marry. I want a long term committed shack up. As for others I say, "follow your bliss."

I worked for him for many years - built Trump Tower - exec.

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 29, 2018:

A: Did he stiff you on any bills. B: Can he really NOT form a coherent sentence or is that showmanship. C: Why did you NOT shoot him, or poison him? D. Spill it all! And welcome! I look forward to hearing your perspective.

God’s to do list

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 29, 2018:

Perfect, perfect, perfect!!

For realz yo

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 29, 2018:

And the last one I will crucify you for. Meh, not really. It used to bug me. Then I decided just to switch the damn thing and let it go. Now I live alone, the cats find TP an irrestistable attraction. I don't keep TP hanging or I will find it strewn down my hallway.

This needs to happen again... now!

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 29, 2018:

And I'm pretty sure I know who would have the most votes.

I started watching the second season of The Handmaid’s Tale and.

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 29, 2018:

I read the book when it came out. It was hard for me to read that many years ago. The story stayed with me, and I was thinking about how current times mirror it so much, and then the TV adaptation was created. Nope, can't watch it. Or IF I did I'd have to give up sleeping.

Spring time :)

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 29, 2018:

Fer sure!! Dandilions are great for the bees, I leave them growing until July.

GROCERY SHOPPING Got back from the store with two unexpected purchases:

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 29, 2018:

I'd say you got a hell of a bargain!

So.

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 29, 2018:

Intimacy is beyond just taking your clothes off, it is when you take your barriers down and let someone in to see the real you; your fears, your demons, your ugly parts and your true heart. True intimacy is hard and scary as hell, and I would go to the ends of the earth for it.

Spawn is on the left, Popcorn is on the right.

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 29, 2018:

Cuties!

What's for supper?

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 29, 2018:

I had sushi from Trader's Joes. Not gonna do that again, very dry.

Pasta and Bastian love each other :)

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 28, 2018:

That is tooo cute!

Egg containers I need!!!

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 28, 2018:

My cousin's daughter has chickens and sells eggs in adorably decorated cartons. She gives discounts when you bring the cartons back.

Pronouns are hard ... ;)

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 28, 2018:

Love it!!

Hi everyone, I guess I'm a true cat person.

HippieChick58 comments on Apr 28, 2018:

I have almost always had a cat, I cannot imagine a home without one.