Due to health problems and disabilities I can't do things like hike. I used to love the outdoors, and spent a lot of time in the Adirondacks as a kid. Now I enjoy the outdoors from a chair. I have limited energy and mobility, I can't be a man of a lot of action anymore. I can be a man of dinners, movies, Netlfix, short walks, conversation, laughter. I work part-time and that takes a lot of my energy too. I like what I do and solving problems. I can't be something I'm not, nor will I. My mind is sharp and so is my wit.

In these women's equality times, women should make the first moves.

What are you doing about it? @misskathleen provided many good suggestions...

I have an assignment for you. The American Humanist Association has a local chapter near you. [americanhumanist.org] Yes, you need to go. Meet other Humanists in your area. Get out, get involved. Chances are good there will be some single ladies there. No promises, but it is a step in the right direction. Yeah, I know, I know; no guarantees. I've been single for about 10 years, active with my chapter for 3 years and VP for the past year. No personal relationships but great friendships. I live in a conservative bastion, I'm over 60. I think the odds that I will ever meet an truly available decent guy in my metropolitan area are about nil, but I haven't totally given up.

Get a coed appointment for a hairstyle....it's worth the money for a shampoo massage and a helpful woman hair trim....including eyebrows and hairs in your ears and nostrils....ask her to make you look your best for a great lady to choose you for lifelong love

Prepare thyself for long life 37 more years statistically ....add 8 more years if you find love or deep involvement with community.....make yourself available attractive fit well dressed clean and active in your locales....volunteer in larger community projects....there are Atheist groups in Rochester and call into WHAM 1180 to expose that idiot theocrat Lonsbury for his stupid Mormon gibberish and his vain attacks upon liberals....be a hero be a friend donate to My Sister's House and other women shelters, DRESS4SUCCESS be part of solutions not closet do nothing problems .....moaning and groaning for love is a poor bower for " her " to choose your baubles.....wear a flower in your lapel....take flowers to work....buy nutritious candy for Halloween days with co-workers.....I wish I had your youth ....I am 67 and women my age want your virility agility and stamina....take dancing lessons play an instrument sing karaoke love songs....keep trying pal ....love with a wise woman is the only heaven in existence and cannot be captured or bought....practice cooking romantic recipes at home....have scented candles ready to be lit when SHE declares her interest to arrive...hope springs eternal....adopt a cat or dog... volunteer at animal shelters....be a great guy

There are four women that are in your area listed below. Some say they're here for Community but community means they might enjoy at least having coffee with you. If you don't message them you will never know.

It's always tough .

I don't want to be mistaken for an "incel" or some MRA nut.

Last year, during my 14 months of involuntary loneliness, I'd be in the grocery store and walk through the scent left by a woman... and temporarily kind of blank out. I'm pretty sure that celibacy is not healthy for a man with a high testosterone count.

You’re preaching to the choir, my friend:/

Even the faint scent left by shampoo.

Me too, miss that so much