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This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 16, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by ProudMary
How long after you lost your significant other did you feel like dating again?
16 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 26, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by PADASOWI
What. Is happening? Guys, talk to me!
4 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 26, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Sharkymama
This seems like the perfect place to vent my feelings. I lost my husband seven years ago exactly 2 weeks after he drew his very first retirement check. He spent his whole life planning and saving and dreaming of retirement. We were married 34 ...
8 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 20, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by RavenCT
If you guys are cool with it - I'm going to join just to keep an eye out for scammers. This seems to be one of the groups they target when they get smarter (ie when they get booted a time or two from the site and learn how to navigate around a bit ...
11 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 16, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by ProudMary
Did any of you find yourself becoming more self-centered after you lost your partner/spouse? I struggle with this a lot. I’ve talked to friends about it and they all say it isn’t true, but I don’t believe them. I never realized how much my ...
10 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 26, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by Hazydays
Last night was my last night sleeping alone in my own bed. Today my boyfriend flies in and tomorrow we begin to pack up the moving truck with all my belongings and I head to his state which is 1,555 miles away. A new home in a new town and a new ...
7 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 3, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by EyesThatSmile
Hi. I admit, I am not a widow. I joined your group because I have a question about my own grief. My father died a few days ago. The rest of my family are all Christian and believe my father is in a better place. I politely kept my mouth shut. my...
9 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 21, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by onlyduh
It's WAY early in the morning and meandering about I found this group. I thought it was serendipitous because I am having a dilemma. I was a young widow in 2007. It was sudden, and he was relatively a young man (he was 47, I was 38 ). Subsequently,...
13 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 21, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Rose2U
I did it alone!! A first for me as a widow for 3 days. Never give up!! I do plenty alone but the beach for a few days a big one.
3 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 8, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by psycheworks
What are the odds on this happening? I met a great guy at a festival recently and really clicked with him, we've arranged to go out to a couple gigs. His behavior was a bit off though and I couldn't put my finger on what it was, he was very keen to ...
4 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 11, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Sorcha
My ex husband died last night from a long fight with cancer. I knew he was sick but I had no idea it was stage 4 when they found it years ago. He wanted me to know he was sick and told mutual friends. I got an email from his sister Saturday saying...
7 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 30, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by leea
I really hate being a member of this group. My wife, Kathy, died July 1, 2017. We'd been together for 36 years and I wanted nothing more than to get old together. That can never happen and it just makes me so angry. Ironically I joined this site to ...
14 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 25, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Velvetnsatin
Last post from him - "I love you, anyway. I'm going to bed. G'night." We were in a fight over two things. Him not going to the docs and him stopping smoking many times and my having lost faith over it going to work this time. He was my best friend...
1 comment
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 21, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Masondixonline
I lost my wife to lymphoma three and a half years ago. I was and still am bothered by individuals who are OH SO WILLING to tell me how to grieve....how long to grieve.....and whether or not I should date......
10 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 24, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by ProudMerrie
Do any of you find yourselves constantly changing? I was married for more than four decades and I keep going through these periods where I’m like “okay, this is what I need in my life.” After a period of time, I realize that’s not the case ...
8 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 24, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by john369
Is wrong to try to find love again. I want to fill the void that I feel. What's too soon?
8 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 1, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by jess666
My husband jumped from our 8th floor balcony in front of me.
8 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 25, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by Dancing
It's my Anniversary today. My 1st without him. This is what I posted on Facebook. Its been hard counting down the days to today. I was trying not to but every time I saw the calendar, I would look to see how far away today was.
7 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 9, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by ProudMary
How is it possible to love and miss someone so much that it hurts and at the same time love someone new? I'm absolutely heartbroken this morning and at the same time I can't wait until Saturday because I have a date. Feels like there's a hurricane ...
7 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Feb 13, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by MsHoliday
I have just had an epiphany. I was speaking on the phone with my daughter and she said she missed me a few times and then I said I missed her. But really, I don’t miss her at all. I love seeing her when she visits but I really don’t miss her, ...
4 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Feb 6, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by ProudMerrie
Yet another metamorphosis for me. I belong to several local organizations. I haven't been to any meetings since my husband died in September of 2017. Every month I tell myself I need to start going back to those meetings and get back to my life. ...
6 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 6, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Zster
I have decided to embrace even the smallest pleasures in this life, partially to fill the gaping hole left by loss, but also, because all things are fleeting, eventually. Currently, that equates with adding splashes of color where I can. That ...
2 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 20, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Gypsy494
I am trying to keep busy even more so than usual.BUT Jan 14 ( Lost my love last Jan 14) is fast approaching. Im in a new town / state feeling lost , scared, alone and even more heartbroken. Any ideas? How do you cope on that terrible anniversary?
6 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 12, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Ron_R
I somehow find myself with no one to talk to. My stressful girlfriend is gone, my family is indifferent and I was never fond of Kim's family. My daughter is there, but I don't want to unload on her. I so wish to talk to my wife. We were best ...
9 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Feb 26, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by AncientNight
POLLI came across someone that lost a child in another group. Losing a child can, in some cases be just as, if not, more painful than losing a spouse or other loved one. Should we add people that have lost a child to our group?
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Posted by bookofmoronsIts been 10 years last week since I lost her. Hard to believe where that time went and yet it isn't either

Posted by RedheadedgammyToday four years ago today, at 4:15 in the morning my darling Richard passed away.

Posted by BettyEvery day. 😥

Posted by RoseyRoseToday is the anniversary of my husbands birth.

Posted by GeorgeRocheleauI know how they feel.

Posted by Sonja44All of it.

Posted by Sonja44My love would have been 61 years old today. 💔

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by Huskygirl4everToday would be our 27th anniversary it's the seventh one without you and it hurts this picture would be taken on June 12th the original date we had set for the wedding but we had to get married a ...

Posted by Huskygirl4everI remember when Norm gave this to me and the first time I ever read it I actually read my last name as Friedrich this is one of the things I will always cherish

Posted by AncientNight45 years ago, my Father told me, "Beware the Ides of March!" It was the day I got Married to my Girlfriend.

Posted by KymmacgOne of the biggest issues for me, now, even 18 years later, is the loss of life.

Posted by alonI had a nice Bacon/Cheese Omelette for my Sunday Breakfast this morning instead of my usual Eggs Benedict.

Posted by MsHolidayMemories.

Posted by MsHolidayI have chosen to place this here to let others know that we do move forward.
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