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Back due to popular demand, but please stick to subject of dating photos. Thank you 😉
One for the ladies really: I’m on a dating site and there are so many photos of men looking sad, with shades on, with a beer in front of their faces. It’s kind of hilarious and makes my job as a person looking for someone lovely to spend their life with a lot easier... but here’s the question; what the hell are those guys thinking? I don’t care how handsome you are; if you can’t crack a smile I’m not going to want to date you! Does anyone go for these guys?

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girlwithsmiles 8 Nov 1
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Maybe another thing to add on to the poll would be men that look proud or powerful. Like the stereo typical picture of a policeman or someone in uniform.

GregM Level 5 Nov 1, 2019

Policeman? I'm liable to think bachelorette party..

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This actually goes both ways. I have seen women doing the same on dating sites, a scowl, looking mad, or many holding a drink. Drinking is big in the area I live, so I guess they want to make a point that they part of the crowd.

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They must be! The girls certainly don't seem to go for the nerdy, musician type...

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i get nada and i have smiley no beer photos. being goofy looking matters.

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Based on the numbers so far, as expected, hot guys can get away with anything they want. Someone posted recently, would you rather be rich or good-looking and I picked good-looking because you get whatever you want, you have a chance at anything you want and if all else fails you can be a model and make a fortune.

lerlo Level 8 Nov 1, 2019

I've always been told to just be myself. Sometimes that works, most times it doesn't.

I would pick rich... then if I am deemed ugly i can pay for plastic surgery to make me prettier heh 😛

@Allamanda I have not received any points for being over 40

@demifeministgal oh because Lisa Rinna's lips are so attractive? 😉

@lerlo googles Lisa Rinna 😕

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My straight toothed smile (time to change pics) I have a Santa but probably should shop something for the interim (Turkey, pilgrim?)

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Honestly I don't know what they're thinking.

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Heroes do not always smile. Anyone can smile for a camera, even a complete psychopath or fruitcake. All the same, everyone judges the book by its cover.
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In the photo, Vanunu Mordechai, in case you are wondering . . .

Some people simply have a strong persona, and it shows in pics..,however, that could still hide a flawed character!

Who would believe there are people without character flaws?

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If he’s sitting on a beautiful bike? Perhaps - but I wonder if he’s hiding bad teeth? Eh....

If I see a beer belly button full of lint, with a crappy-ass trailer park in the background, that’s a hard pass.
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I'm chuckling because I have the bike, and the Dragon Queen is beautiful. I couldn't find a man who had as nice a ride, so I got and ride my own!
Oh, and yeah... men on dating sites are trolling when they use sunglasses and beers and/or hide their faces with hats and shadows. I doubt they are seriously looking for anything more than a side chick.

@DallasKimmerzzz

Hiding bad teeth? You're right.

Every single man I met with closed-mouth photos had horrid teeth. Nasty, crooked, missing, and/or rotten breath that would fell a moose. Ugh. I can't imagine kissing that.

Are you ladies ok with dentures or partials? How about implants? (I meant teeth)

@PondartIncbendog yes!

@PondartIncbendog oh yes.

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Photos aren't everything.

I've looked at so many photos since I arrived here - because of scammer hunting - almost everything I can now excuse as someone trying to look like themselves. As long as they aren't scammers.

Better than trying to look like someone else or stealing a whole bunch of photos from a politician in another country - or a porn actress. Both of those happen a lot btw....

However men over 50 posing shirts off? No.

Anyone using a filter to look 20 years younger.... ugh. It's like you've met the crypt keeper when they remove it.

Finding a date on a photo that means it's at least a decade old... oops!

And the ones catching a fish or killing any animal are going to piss off the vegans... so just avoid it unless hunting is your favorite activity and you can't live without it. (But ever since a vegan explained their view on fishing to me - I can't look at those either).

Pictures of you and your pet? YES! It makes for a relaxed picture. And we'll love you for it.

But I've been told photos of me stroking my black pussy are too confrontational...

@MrBeelzeebubbles Depends on how you do it....

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I've bin drinkin' again,
And thnkin' of when,
You left me
But that was so long ago.

I've been havin' a few,
And whishin' that you,
Were here right by my side,
Oh yeah, oh yeah - I'm drinkin' again.

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Some people feel uncomfortable smiling for a picture. My younger daughter is this way. Someone may not smile in their pictures; but, in person, can actually have a very nice smile--when its natural--not forced.

@K9Kohle789 AGREED.

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I think this goes both ways. I’ve noticed a lot women don’t have a photo with them smiling. Some have a smiling photo, but with a filter. Some look like they are making faces. Maybe it is all selfies, but I wonder if they are afraid to post nice photo.

CS60 Level 7 Nov 2, 2019
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he whole planet is a potential dating site. there all about money which is obvious. laughing is everything in the end really with honesty and respect. if you can't make an effort right at the start it doesnt look good for the future really.

There all about money? Do you mean they're? And if so, do you mean women?

@Cutiebeauty not women but the sites xx

@LeighShelton haha okay

I do know someone who worked for a paid site for men, it was called something like bored housewife’s and she was paid to string men along. But I know they’re not all like that, my old bosses daughter met her husband online. For me the paid sites were no better/ worse than the free ones though. Pictures included!

@girlwithsmiles your right and even if they are honest you don't know about the individuels on them

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