I suggest a sex worker. You run the risk of falling for your FWB or vica versa (sp?).

I would seek counseling for you and your partner. I found there were often differences in libido with partners and there are ways to be sexy and intimate without penetration. Maybe she'd be open to cuddling while you masturbate or watching porn with you?

I think maybe you should explore the swing lifestyle together as a catalyst for communicating your needs, then see where it goes. Just being in that atmosphere lubricates the mind. Just be sure to share boundaries and intentions first.

Be mindful of everyone's feelings. You do not live in a vacuum.

As long as everyone involved knows what is happening and has consented to it, then by all means. Love isn't a zero sum game.

There is a difference between "cheating" and "open relationship".

As long as there's honesty and understanding in a relationship, things can be very flexible.

I am a people person I can love someone else too.

I'm open to the concept.

As long as the sexless person doesn't want to hold a monopoly over the partner's sexlife.

if the person has a descent kitchen or good tools ...

I think it depends on your partner..
There is nothing wrong with pursuing happiness as long as you don't hurt another person.. if your partner is fully aware and ok with it, then you should try it.

I will not do FWB. I don't like to share, you're committed elsewhere. I want all or none.

I think it makes sense. But it can be risky. Who knows what outcome can happen with hookups.

hook-ups work for many...I would try for FWB, or even an open poly arrangement...

find out before you leap