@zeliasgrand You're not understanding my comments completely I am open-minded
I prefer person that is smaller than me just because physical
attraction is part of finding a partner there things in a
relationship that are more important communications is probably
the most important thing and willingness to compromise when
you don't agree with your partner. Also common interests
are very important. When I filled out the questionnaire
on this website I put physical traits were somewhat important
I hope this clarifies my position for you

@witchymom You're not understanding my comments completely I am open-minded I prefer person that is smaller than me just because physical attraction is part of finding a partner there things in a relationship that are more important communications is probably the most important thing and willingness to compromise when you don't agree with your partner. Also common interests are very important. When I filled out the questionnaire on this website I put physical traits were somewhat important I hope this clarifies my position for you

@dc65

1. Tip: Never mansplain.
2. Be what you want to attract.
3. Be you, be happy and screw what other people think or say.

Note:
Trolls come in all shapes and sizes of which you cannot please them all.

@witchymom lol your 5/5 original thread reference here!

don't give up... you just too young to say that.

Lol, indeed. Porn and my imagination along with stimulation will be about the extent of it lol!
Did I just verbalize that? Oh well...we can dream

@witchymom Yep. Too soon old and too late smart.

You speak the truth. Also, I now find that I just don't want to waste any time on relationships or even friendships that are not healthy for me or just take up time. In my youth I would never actively terminate a friendship (maybe avoid them but not terminate....I confess that after 50 I have terminate friendships in which I no longer felt compatible in. This leaves me more precious time to be with those I truly care about.

I have never heard that before "nurses with purses". Thank you, You have made me laugh, because there are men like that. I am not one of them.

I couldn't see trying to start a relationship when I was a caregiver.

@bingst you aren't kidding...it has to be someone who will be willing to spend a lot of nights at home...specifically, my home...haha...I was in one for about 2 years and it didn't work at all...constant stress...I tried to split my time, but I wounded up being mildly neglective to both my ex and my charge...didn't realize it until after the relationship...

Just move to Minneapolis. Lots of middle aged, educated liberal women here. You will soon have to call the police to fight off all the women chasing you and beating down your door.

I’ll have to remember that. @SusanHilde

I wish you lived in California.

reminded me my ex-wife going to a concert of the band my daughter was managing... industrial metal.... she said It Was Too Loud!!!!

Metal and Grunge,.... I think at least 2/3 of my CD collection falls into those two categories. Rest is 80s 'New Wave'.

@Crimson67 I couldn't do that... one of my daughters will kill her. I am not joking.

@Crimson67 Well a cougar is better than a dirty old man, Bwahaha.

I prefer the term "Naughty Hobo" as it captures my spirit (lol) better.

I like grunge, rock, et, Is what keeps me young and alert

@Silvertongue Older men dating much younger women are only pervs or predators if they're POOR.
But the wealthy ones can date anyone!
Ugh.

please explain.

I've noticed a difference after dealing with WAW.
Self help, self improvement. How to dress, how to carry yourself, smile, chat up everyone you meet out and about to be better socially. Lots of videos on youtube for free. Dressing better and right fitting clothing has been most noted difference in getting attention!
Husbands of WAW make great 2nd husbands, her loss, did my work.

@zeliasgrand @witchymom @sassygirl3869 All of that plus clothes that fit, hair that works, or, generally speaking, shows signs of life. We all had to learn this in Junior High, and we may need to re-learn it while getting mail from AARP.

@BlueWave @witchymom walk away wife actual syndrome.

@andygee You hit the nail on the head. Hope some people understand this. When people just give-up and don't care about their appearances anymore they're just no-longer "in the game" (why was that confusing?). It's that simple. Get rid of the excess weight (actually, it's easy), get some nicer clothes, pay attention to the things you paid attention to when you really WERE hot! People will notice. Good things will happen. That's a promise.